I just got assaulted

[Hades]

How are you feeling right now? You should let somebody close know what happened as some men turn into stalkers/get aggressive when things don't go their way.

 

[Abdalla]

Somali girls are naive wallahi, poor girl didnt know what was coming.
It was literally a date.

He took her out on a fucking friday, why didn't he propose this on monday? And he also paid for

Colleagues go out as a group and everyone pays for their own food.

 

[YoungFarah]

I've had male friends and non have been as disgusting as this guy tbh

You can get him for assault and battery, attempted sexual assault etc and can get him fired. What are you planning to do when you see him at work?

 

[El padrone]

Tell your bosses and make sure he gets messed up badly. Anyways we're here for you walaalo

HR arent that naive. its just a transaction gone wrong. he fed her and expected some sexy time, nothing to be alarmed.
also its outside work.

best thing is to move on and not go dine with ppl you dont trust 100 pct.

 

[ExcessFame]

I am grown person there's no point in me telling my brothers

Because they'll smoke you for going somewhere alone with a man, maybe?

Yh but what if she never thought he would do this? You don't have your guard up all the time and is men can never experience what she went through. She must of thought he was a friendly guy and didn't know he happened to be a deranged psychotic pervert

He took her out on a Friday, you do the math bro

 

[YoungFarah]

HR arent that naive. its just a transaction gone wrong. he fed her and expected some sexy time, nothing to be alarmed.
also its outside work.

best thing is to move on and not go dine with ppl you dont trust 100 pct.

He held onto her hand and refused to let go waryaa. Is that consent? Stop appropriating his rape sexual assault culture

 

[leeroy jenkins]

It's not fucking funny. Imagin just going out with your work mate for dinner and thinking you are both friends to then be assaulted like that

What came to your mind when he said he will pay for your meal.

 

[SOMALI GENERAL]

He's not a stranger I've known him for over a year.

Well i hope you've learned from this ordeal. It's dangerous times for Muslim sisters.

 

[YoungFarah]

Because they'll smoke you for going somewhere alone with a man, maybe?


He took her out on a Friday, you do the math bro

True I understand but I hate these nacases who think they can get away with such bullshit. Imagine @Kia12 is your sister

 

[Kia12]

You can get him for assault and battery, attempted sexual assault etc and can get him fired. What are you planning to do when you see him at work?

Well, firstly I will avoid him at all costs. I won't speak to him or look at him ever again!

 

[ExcessFame]

True I understand but I hate these nacases who think they can get away with such bullshit. Imagine @Kia12 is your sister

It would be a ride out, that guy would get smoked.

But @Kia12, please take further action. Never back down from this kinda shit

 

[Hades]

You are an adult so next time just know most people don't do things out of niceness, especially guys most go in expecting a deal at the end of a meal

 

[Abdalla]

HR arent that naive. its just a transaction gone wrong. he fed her and expected some sexy time, nothing to be alarmed.
also its outside work.

best thing is to move on and not go dine with ppl you dont trust 100 pct.

If she doesn't do anything, he would win. She already said she wont tell her relatives, maybe she's afraid of judgements. But she should tell HR.

@Kia12 Did anyone see that he was grabbing you? For example the employees at the restaurant?

 

[Kia12]

What came to your mind when he said he will pay for your meal.

Firstly, I am a hijab wearing person so therefore I really thought that this idiot would know not to mess with me.

 

[ExcessFame]

But seriously, are you actually 25? You thought he would pay your meals for fun?

 

[embarassing]

You can get him for assault and battery, attempted sexual assault etc and can get him fired. What are you planning to do when you see him at work?

Fired sure if she's worried, everything else is over the top if he just grabbed her arms. Those things ruin people lives.

 

[SuldaanGuled]

So I was naive enough to join my West African work mate to eat at a restaurant as he invited me to go with him after work and he said he will be paying for my bills.Me and the West African guy are both work mates. So I thought that he was just being friendly.
Not! because when we got out of the restaurant, he kind of grabbed me and didn't let go I told him wtf are you doing and to take his hands off me.
He was like come here baby and he continued to try and grab my arms, I told him I will fcking scream if you don't let go right now. He eventually let go and I started running for my life. I was in tears because I wasn't expecting that omg!!
Yeah and I don't even dress provocatively I wear the hijab and I am fully clothed so I had no fking clue that this beast even fancied me

Horta Alxamdulillah that you're fine

Taydakale this should be a learning experience for you to never put yourself in such a similar position. Mistakes happen but it's important that we learn from them walaal.

As you know islam places certain conditions when it comes to interaction with the opposite gender they're there for a reason, take heed walaal

May Allah protect you

 

[YoungFarah]

Fired sure if she's worried, everything else is over the top if she just grabbed her arms. Those things ruin people lives.

I don't know how serious everything was we just need more information. She should do what she thinks is right

 

[Professor]

I've had male friends and non have been as disgusting as this guy tbh

He is a madow man, he just wanted to get a quick f*ck and thought you were willing to go along because you went on a date with him regardless of how you see it. I don't want to be racist but wallahi I have grown up with them they just want to have quick sex and most madow that have female friends are only friends because they want sex with them. It is your fault for being naive and thinking he didn't have any other intentions.

 

[Gibiin-Udug]

Call him, record him admitting to what he did, take the tape to the police, but before that call your uncle, cousins, brothers, Ex boyfriend, your neighbor's step daddy, your tribe leader and beat his ass. Then take the tape to the police station, press charges.