Upon further evaluation do you think that you may have overreacted? What was his facial expressions like how was he gripping onto your hands etc? Were his intentions malicious?
I just got assaulted
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Let me you, as a man, that walahi he will try it again if you don't take actions. He still thinks you need a bit of pushing and pressure. It's up to you what you are going to do with this inside info
Well, he does have an obsession with Somalis and Somalia hence why we were both work buddies because we were the only Africans in that place he even told me that he would like to visit Somalia one day
Wait till you get the guys who offer you contacts and job opportunities but expect a date after they've you done 'favours'. Funnily enough they'll do these favours for male colleagues w/o any expectations of anything in return.
If this a true story don't tell HR, it's not worth it. Just avoid him and take this as lesson.
I've actually never had a job (I've been working since I was 15) where I have not experienced some form of sexual harassment,
I have an older brother and if he finds out that I went to a restaurant with a non-mehrem man wa edhamantee
Oh come on! It's 2017, just tell someone so this situation doesn't get worse.
You sound young, how old are you? you come across as a teen.
My brother is religious basically, my whole family are religious
He won't do anything about it. I just don't want my family to know
ExcessFame
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. At least the danyeer will get smoked 
My black sister, u cannot be this fucking dumb
A guy who invites u to dinner wants something in return.
A guy who invites u to dinner wants something in return.
So you knew what you were doing was wrong?
The west african brother has been vindicated. He was receiving wrong signals
SuldaanGuled
Rag waa shaah dumarna waa sheeko.
Wait till you get the guys who offer you contacts and job opportunities but expect a date after they've you done 'favours'. Funnily enough they'll do these favours for male colleagues w/o any expectations of anything in return.
If this a true story don't tell HR, it's not worth it. Just avoid him and take this as lesson.
I've actually never had a job (I've been working since I was 15) where I have not experienced some form of sexual harassment,
It must've been tough laakin have you ever mentioned to your relatives ?
Somali p****y is cheap
ExcessFame
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We already knew from the getgo she was wrong for going to a dinner with a man. But he is even more wrong on account of being madowSo you knew what you were doing was wrong?
The west african brother has been vindicated. He was receiving wrong signals
SuldaanGuled
Rag waa shaah dumarna waa sheeko.
maybe he thought it was a date
Leroy
Did you behave like him even if it was a date? Mahram bullshit. As if when they date, they are the ones who insist that she brings a mahram with her.
Kia
Mate, sorry to hear, but your story seems a bit wobbly. I don't know the culture in your neck of the woods, but if I invite a female colleague for a bite, it means that I intend to make a move on her, but I should act civilly. She should know it and if she is not interested, she will give me excuses and decline it. Since you mentioned he was a West African and previously told us that you only had eyes for Caucasian men, can we add two and two and call it... Never mind and take care.
Are you guys that daft!So you knew what you were doing was wrong?
The west african brother has been vindicated. He was receiving wrong signals
Look, think about it!! you've always been chilling with the same person at work, always having banters and chilling with them on breaks. You then one day happened to get invited to go to a restaurant to eat because you thought that person was your friend and not some pervert. Then THAT incident happened to you obviously it's gonna catch you by surprise!!
That's why too embarrassing. Alhaamdulilah for me it's never gotten physical nor have I accepted solo lunch offers.
But I believe it common for every woman, just not spoken about.
Benjamin
någon :)
Some people just don't understand, it's normal thing. Co workers often ask you to drink or eat with them.
SuldaanGuled
Rag waa shaah dumarna waa sheeko.
It may have been chilling on your part but that wasn't the reception the guy was getting, What do you mean friend? Nin oo hadana gaal ah side saxiib ku noqon karaa ??
Men and women can't be friends waa been sheekadas , you need to discard that mentality asap
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