I just got assaulted

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Some people just don't understand, it's normal thing. Co workers often ask you to drink or eat with them.
It's fine to go out with coworkers if there are are more than 2 of them. Even then as a woman, go with a mixed group (not only males). There was this big story a few weeks back in Toronto where a female officer was raped by 3 of her coworkers after she got drunk. Sadly, It's not a safe world for women :farmajoyaab:
 
The saddest part here is some blokes on SSpot think that they are the parents or guardian angels of the female posters and chastise them, or call them names if they think that she veers from their line of a female norm. She can date, f*ck and marry you like you guys pretend to be chaste men.
 

Benjamin

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Exactly, especially in a gaal country people have male and female friends and hang out with the opposite gender all the time.
It's fine to go out with coworkers if there are are more than 2 of them. Even then as a woman, go with a mixed group (not only males). There was this big story a few weeks back in Toronto where a female officer was raped by 3 of her coworkers after she got drunk. Sadly, It's not a safe world for women :farmajoyaab:


If you have been working with the person for a while, and know them it's ok. Coworker always ask if you want to grab a cup of coffee or a meal.
Yes you should always stay vigilant, but nothing wrong with it.
 
If you have been working with the person for a while, and know them it's ok. Coworker always ask if you want to grab a cup of coffee or a meal.
Yes you should be vigilant but not wrong with it.
Yes I almost forgot, timing really matters. There's a difference between grabbing coffee/breakfast/lunch vs evening meals & yeah it's all about precautions
 

Abdalla

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Unless you do something about it he will try it again this is what i'm convinced of.

@Abdalla what do you mean vindicated ?? ninka waa in la aasa waku side sxb

Sxb what kind of colleagues go grab a diner together? I know you don't work and live on a welfare, but coworkers go on a lunch, never diner. Coworkers don't pay for each other, they never go alone with the opposite gender and it's always in a group setting. Imagine having a DINER with a female coworke, who keeps looking over her shoulder because she knows she is doing something wrong. At first I was furious because we all have female relatives, but the more she explains, the more I think she sent wrong signals. She doesn't want to press charges, because Tyrone might have some incriminating evidence in the form of texts. She doesn't want her religious brother find out that she had a one on one diner with Trayvon.
 

El padrone

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I don't want to brag but our office security guy always smiles at me and says good morning. I know he's after me.


I bet you ashy Abdis will now say I made that up!!!
Oh yea i bet also hes threatening you by breathing the same office air! :pachah1:
 

Bahal

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Are you guys that daft!
Look, think about it!! you've always been chilling with the same person at work, always having banters and chilling with them on breaks. You then one day happened to get invited to go to a restaurant to eat because you thought that person was your friend and not some pervert. Then THAT incident happened to you obviously it's gonna catch you by surprise!!

Men are "friends" with women for one reason and one reason alone.

Stop kidding yourselves, every single male friend you have would have sex with you if he could.
 
Upon further evaluation do you think that you may have overreacted? What was his facial expressions like how was he gripping onto your hands etc? Were his intentions malicious?
It looked like he wanted to hold my hands. I then moved my hands away so that kind of a situation wasn't possible, he then grabbed my arms and upon grabbing my arms I pushed myself away so that I can run away from the situation
 

Cognitivedissonance

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Why would you allow him to waste precious time & money on you if you wasn't going to give him the kitty kat naa stop being a tease it's not like you can do anything with the box yourself anyway so you might aswell let him play with it since he paid for it cause after you consume that food he paid for that food becomes you or atleast have the decency to pay him back for robbing him out of his money that he worked so hard for to earn.
 
Men are "friends" with women for one reason and one reason alone.

Stop kidding yourselves, every single male friend you have would have sex with you if he could.
Not true i have some female friends, I have never thought of making a move on them even though i find them relatively attractive. see them as strictly friends.
 

SuldaanGuled

Rag waa shaah dumarna waa sheeko.
That's why too embarrassing. Alhaamdulilah for me it's never gotten physical nor have I accepted solo lunch offers. :ftw9nwa:

But I believe it common for every woman, just not spoken about.

Laakin nonetheless it's an unnecessary struggle sometimes you need to tell someone ruunti. There was this case where a sister that i knew almost got raped by someone she considered to be her friend she kept it a secret until i came to figure it out. What's shocking was that the guy was known to the family that's why she couldn't tell anyone mind you this happened while she was a young girl around 12/13 yrs old. Imagine keeping such a secret for a very long time not telling anyone it takes a toll on you sooner or later. It was a mere coincidence that i was able to find out but what bothers me is that any dodgy guy could've taken it upon himself to take advantage of her. I mean if i noticed it so will other guys.

Sometimes it's good to open up esp to your relatives, it's better to be embarrassed rather than to suffer mentally & emotionally.
 
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