I just got assaulted

[Edo Nene]

Avoid Indians or other Asians (Pakis, Bengalis, etc) at all costs. I feel bad for Indian women.

I feel safe already under your arm

 

[El padrone]

Not true i have some female friends, I have never thought of making a move on them even though i find them relatively attractive. see them as strictly friends.

Do you also hold their louis vitton hbags? :siilaanyolaugh:

 

[Yahya Liban-Lewis]

I feel safe already under your arm

By day, I'm Yahya Liban-Lewis.......

By night, I'm "Somali Geeljire", the superhero......

I have a Camel logo on my suit.......

If you put the "Camel Signal" in the dark, night sky, I will come to your rescue......

 

[Kia12]

Abayo macaan like muufo, I was heartbroken reading your story. I gave you that advice before because I've worked with madoow men who are always horny and are looking to "hook-up" with the women co-workers.

You should've reported this to the police and put the madoow qashin behind bars.

I don't want to report him to the Police because I don't want any of my family finding out. Can you imagine how talkative Somalis are it will spread like wildfire and people might get the wrong impression of me. The Police will not do anything because I went to that restaurant of my own will and no one had forced me to go. Same with HR they won't do anything about it. All I could do is to ignore and avoid that person.

 

[Yahya Liban-Lewis]

I don't want to report him to the Police because I don't want any of my family finding out. Can you imagine how talkative Somalis are it will spread like wildfire and people might get the wrong impression of me. The Police will not do anything because I went to that restaurant of my own will and no one had forced me to go. Same with HR they won't do anything about it. All I could do is to ignore and avoid that person.

Your right, be safe next time abayo macaan.

 

[Edo Nene]

By day, I'm Yahya Liban-Lewis.......

By night, I'm "Somali Geeljire", the superhero......

I have a Camel logo on my suit.......

If you put the "Camel Signal" in the dark, night sky, I will come to your rescue......

Keep up the good work, protect us from evil

 

[Abdalla]

I can already sense how awkward monday is gonna be at the coffee corner

Mandy: Hi Kia how was your weekend?
Kia: It was
*Denzel walks by*
Kia:

 

[lone]

So I was naive enough to join my West African work mate to eat at a restaurant as he invited me to go with him after work and he said he will be paying for my bills.Me and the West African guy are both work mates. So I thought that he was just being friendly.
Not! because when we got out of the restaurant, he kind of grabbed me and didn't let go I told him wtf are you doing and to take his hands off me.
He was like come here baby and he continued to try and grab my arms, I told him I will fcking scream if you don't let go right now. He eventually let go and I started running for my life. I was in tears because I wasn't expecting that omg!!
Yeah and I don't even dress provocatively I wear the hijab and I am fully clothed so I had no fking clue that this beast even fancied me

Tip: PAY FOR YOUR OWN FOOD.
Men and women can not be friends. (mostly leads to a sexual relationship)

 

[Ras]

There are no such thing as male friends tbh.

It's only guys hanging around for a chance to get laid or want use you to get to your qt friend.

It was probably the case when we were young and innocent but unless he's gay don't think he's sticking around for just the conversation.

 

[Foreman]

I wouldn't be so hard on her. Women are often programmed to be "nice" and "smile" to not try provoke unstable and insecure guys. How many times have we heard of loser men attacking a women after getting politely rejected? What do you think those men will do if you put them down viciously?

From the sounds of it, I think the guy stepped out of line, but it could have been much worse. I don't think he would have tried anything much outside a restaurant. If Kia had been truly alarmed and was under assault, she would have been instantly screaming, not threatening to.



This is much easier said then done. It's not black and white like you put it. It's impossible to put a finger on the "moment" one starts flirting.

Agree with 1st part. Some weirdo's can't take rejection lightly they go from 0-100 instantly.

She can reject his approaches firmly and still be polite they are in a restaurant after all. Lines can be blurry but as a general rule, flirting like describing face, personality and past events are often times macqool. The moment a guy flirts with butt, breasts or body in sexual context you best believe he's up to something.

 

[Foreman]

-Goes on a date
-Lets him pay for her meal
-Smiles at his flirting attempts
-He tries to hold her hand

How on earth is this an assault?

OP ain't not that cunny to take advantage over him, first date gone wrong

 

[GlitzyCue_]

So I was naive enough to join my West African work mate to eat at a restaurant as he invited me to go with him after work and he said he will be paying for my bills.Me and the West African guy are both work mates. So I thought that he was just being friendly.
Not! because when we got out of the restaurant, he kind of grabbed me and didn't let go I told him wtf are you doing and to take his hands off me.
He was like come here baby and he continued to try and grab my arms, I told him I will fcking scream if you don't let go right now. He eventually let go and I started running for my life. I was in tears because I wasn't expecting that omg!!
Yeah and I don't even dress provocatively I wear the hijab and I am fully clothed so I had no fking clue that this beast even fancied me

I had something like that happen to me in school but i had my guy friend take care of it and let me tell you he never said a word to me ever again.

 

[Ferrari]

fast forward few months

everyone in this thread. naa what happened? we thought the guy assaulted u?

kia12: he dinn du nuffin

 

[Professor]

Why do I feel like OP is going to end up dating this dude. People have said she has already mentioned him before on this site. Maybe this post is an result of frustration because she got cold feet and was to scared to do anything. I just can't believe a 25 year old is this naive. Everybody has come to the same conclusion that when a guy pays for you meal he wants one thing yet she doesn't thing that is the case lol.​

 

[Ferrari]

Why do I feel like OP is going to end up dating this dude. People have said she has already mentioned him before on this site. Maybe these is just post is an result of frustration because the got cold feet and was to scared to do anything. I just can't believe a 25 year old is this naive. Everybody has come to the same conclusion that when a guy pays for you meal he wants one thing yet she doesn't thing that is the case lol.​

she said in the past that he tries hard to get her attention and flirts with her a lot which means she already knew that kind of man he was before she went to dinner with him. How the hell do you go to dinner with a man u called pervert and flirtatious and u know wants you and then act surprised when all this happens and call him ur mate? too many holes in her story. why would a hijabi even be going to dinner with random men? Notice, it was after work(coworkers lunch together, during work, they don't dinner together), but when the shift is over, everybody goes home but she went with him.

 

[Professor]

she said in the past that he tries hard to get her attention and flirts with her a lot which means she already knew that kind of man he was before she went to dinner with him. How the hell do you go to dinner with a man u called pervert and flirtatious and u know wants you and then act surprised when all this happens and call him ur mate? too many holes in her story. why would a hijabi even be going to dinner with random men? Notice, it was after work(coworkers lunch together, during work, they don't dinner together), but when the shift is over, everybody goes home but she went with him.

she said in the past that he tries hard to get her attention and flirts with her a lot which means she already knew that kind of man he was before she went to dinner with him. How the hell do you go to dinner with a man u called pervert and flirtatious and u know wants you and then act surprised when all this happens and call him ur mate? too many holes in her story. why would a hijabi even be going to dinner with random men? Notice, it was after work(coworkers lunch together, during work, they don't dinner together), but when the shift is over, everybody goes home but she went with him.

Either this girl is an fucking simpleton or she is chatting shit and to scared to f*ck about with the guy and thought she could get validation from sspot. If it were really assault as she said why shouldn't she tell her family but the dumbass knows she was on a date and she probably fucked up and doesn't want her family know. Wallahi shit is pathetic, If she wants to jump on reer tyrone its her life she can do what she wants.

 

[Ferrari]

Either this girl is an fucking simpleton or she is chatting shit and to scared to f*ck about with the guy and thought she could get validation from sspot. If it were really assault as she said why shouldn't she tell her family but the dumbass knows she was on a date and she probably fucked up and doesn't want her family know. Wallahi shit is pathetic, If she wants to jump on reer tyrone its her life she can do what she wants.

Interesting point sxb. there is a reason she's hiding it from her family. I feel sorry for her parents. a lot of twitter somali females yap about how there is a rape culture in somali and we as somali men promote it. She lives in the west, claims to have been sexually assaulted, but own't report? if this had happened in somalia, guess what the females would be crying? rape culture. lol

 

[Professor]

Interesting point sxb. there is a reason she's hiding it from her family. I feel sorry for her parents. a lot of twitter somali females yap about how there is a rape culture in somali and we as somali men promote it. She lives in the west, claims to have been sexually assaulted, but own't report? if this had happened in somalia, guess what the females would be crying? rape culture. lol

it is always a different case for us. She probably thinking he had good intentions but didn't know to go about it cus his ajnabi. If it were a somali guy she would have snitched. Anyway this dumbass wants to date the guy she is just self-conflicted cus she is a hijabi, she has been talking to him. for a year what do you think he would do he probably though she was into him and he is right.

 

[Kia12]

Update:
So the idiot has apologised and said that he was very sorry about what happened on Friday.
The Fking idiot he shouldve kept his Bantu hands away from me

 

[Someone]

Update:
So the idiot has apologised and said that he was very sorry about what happened on Friday.
The Fking idiot he shouldve kept his Bantu hands away from me

Lol, atleast he apologized.