I just don’t see myself marrying a white person

[Man with a garuun]

I guess i wouldn't mind marriage, but the idea of having mullatos with no identity, who look nothing like me is such a huge turn off

The greatest gift that Allah (swt) gives is life. Mullatos are human beings with souls, desires, and ambitions like everyone else. A Muslim mullato is our brother or sister. They shouldn't be discriminated against for the mere fact that they're mullatos. If you want to stick with a Somali Muslim, that is fine. But if men of other ethnic groups are in the picture, not sure why a mullato be any different than other men provided they're Muslims.

 

[Man with a garuun]

when we say cadaan we usually mean kafir whites, no one here that I know of hates white muslims like many eastern europeans or new converts.

In that case, it is better to qualify the statement....not sure why would a non-Muslim white man be in the picture for a Muslim in the first place, would you?

 

[mr.overeasy]

In that case, it is better to qualify the statement....not sure why would a non-Muslim white man be in the picture for a Muslim in the first place, would you?

I am a dude so thats not an applicable situation, but I personally wouldn't marry a kafir woman unless I am in a strange situation where I can't marry a muslim.

Its a dangerous idea to marry kafirs, even as a man, because the kids might follow the bad example of the other parent.

 

[Bundasliga]

I guess i wouldn't mind marriage, but the idea of having mullatos with no identity, who look nothing like me is such a huge turn off

Many Somalis think like that
but honestly when I see the current state of us in the west .
It ain't nowhere better .

We are full of gender wars & toxicities. like it's so weird .
when we compare other communities they never act like that even they worse.
They never in each other's business like we .

Somalis in the west are overall bad news it's like we can't succeed when we keep going like we do .

In every diaspora specially in Europe where there alot of us we score last in every metric there is jobs,cayr etc.

 

[Xoxoxo]

I am a dude so thats not an applicable situation, but I personally wouldn't marry a kafir woman unless I am in a strange situation where I can't marry a muslim.

Its a dangerous idea to marry kafirs, even as a man, because the kids might follow the bad example of the other parent.

No I meant it I don’t have any interesting marrying a white person wether they are Muslim or not. I won’t even marry a Dutch let alone I would even look at other white ethnic groups.

maybe a Mediterranean but that’s even an IF

 

[Aboow]

Many Somalis think like that
but honestly when I see the current state of us in the west .
It ain't nowhere better .

We are full of gender wars & toxicities. like it's so weird .
when we compare other communities they never act like that even they worse.
They never in each other's business like we .

Somalis in the west are overall bad news it's like we can't succeed when we keep going like we do .

In every diaspora specially in Europe where there alot of us we score last in every metric there is jobs,cayr etc.

Somali people (men and women) most are hassid if am being honest. The neighbourhood aunties are in my business constantly even tho am not doing anything bad but going to school and working part time. They make everything such as mundane as being a productive member of society such a big deal. Sometimes I get scared of getting the evil eye SubhnAllah. If a husband is good to his wife they want to cause problems. I have seen it. Honestly I avoid a lot of Somalis who aren’t my immediate family and my friends. Tooo much bad vibes for me!

 

[Bundasliga]

Somali people (men and women) most are hassid if am being honest. The neighbourhood aunties are in my business constantly even tho am not doing anything bad but going to school and working part time. They make everything such as mundane as being a productive member of society such a big deal. Sometimes I get scared of getting the evil eye SubhnAllah. If a husband is good to his wife they want to cause problems. I have seen it. Honestly I avoid a lot of Somalis who aren’t my immediate family and my friends. Tooo much bad vibes for me!

Yeah wlh I believe evil eye is common in somali community.

If someone is more successful they get jealous especially with their kids they hate when their kids be failing & thats why they always lying about their kids ,you noticed that?

when drug addicts overdose everyone knows the dead person was an addict & the parents still lie & say he/she died in their sleep etc.

 

[Aboow]

Yeah wlh I believe evil eye is common in somali community.

If someone is more successful they get jealous especially with their kids they hate when their kids be failing & thats why they always lying about their kids ,you noticed that?

when drug addicts overdose everyone knows the dead person was an addict & the parents still lie & say he/she died in their sleep etc.

Yeah they are jealous! They get jealous when you find a good job or even go to school. I honestly don’t tell anyone besides my family and close friends which are a few any of my plans because I don’t want anyone to destroy it.

Damn I didn’t know they lie about their childrens death. I hate ceeb culture! We need to stay strapped up with our morning and evening adkhar to protect ourselves from ayn!

 

[Bundasliga]

Yeah they are jealous! They get jealous when you find a good job or even go to school. I honestly don’t tell anyone besides my family and close friends which are a few any of my plans because I don’t want anyone to destroy it.

Damn I didn’t know they lie about their childrens death. I hate ceeb culture! We need to stay strapped up with our morning and evening adkhar to protect ourselves from ayn!

Yes 100% .


I went to the gym with a fob 1 time & he was so jealous I could lift more .
He was starring the weight on every machine I did & tried to compete . It was so uncomfortable, cause I knew what he was trying .

 

[Aboow]

Yes 100% .


I went to the gym with a fob 1 time & he was so jealous I could lift more .
He was starring the weight on every machine I did & tried to compete . It was so uncomfortable, cause I knew what he was trying .

Damn! Protect yourself! That’s why it’s good to be solo at times because people want to bring you down with them.

If only that fob understood that he himself can get gains aswell……

 

[Juliet]

Many Somalis think like that
but honestly when I see the current state of us in the west .
It ain't nowhere better .

We are full of gender wars & toxicities. like it's so weird .
when we compare other communities they never act like that even they worse.
They never in each other's business like we .

Somalis in the west are overall bad news it's like we can't succeed when we keep going like we do .

In every diaspora specially in Europe where there alot of us we score last in every metric there is jobs,cayr etc.

Lol things will improve significantly in a few years. You can’t expect unselected refugees to be doing well in those metrics. And diaspora born Somalis are only starting to come of age, so we can’t jump to conclusions just yet

 

[World]

Everybody forgets our Sahelian brothers, wallahi. You know there are like 70 million Afro-Asiatic speaking Nigerian Muslims and many other similar ethnic groups across the Sahel like Fulanis?

Because they don’t have a noticeable population in the west except maybe france

 

[Bundasliga]

Lol things will improve significantly in a few years. You can’t expect unselected refugees to be doing well in those metrics. And diaspora born Somalis are only starting to come of age, so we can’t jump to conclusions just yet

It makes sense ,but
How come other refugees are better off than us?
I'm talking about Europe specifically
Even ones who came after us .

 

[Juliet]

It makes sense ,but
How come other refugees are better off than us?
I'm talking about Europe specifically
Even ones who came after us .

Our culture is seriously flawed when it comes to work ethic. Laziness is encouraged by people looking down on working for money tbh, doesn't help that families tend to have too many children that really causes a lot of dysfunction. I'm very confident that'll change for the diaspora-born generation though, they seem to value education and hard work much more (thanks to western upbringing)

 

[Jotaro Kujo]

It makes sense ,but
How come other refugees are better off than us?
I'm talking about Europe specifically
Even ones who came after us .

Cause 50% of somali guys are gangbangers that don't give a f*ck about school or career pathways. It is what it is

 

[Aboow]

Cause 50% of somali guys are gangbangers that don't give a f*ck about school or career pathways. It is what it is

Damn this is the first time I see a Somali guy being honest!!!! Good job!

 

[Jotaro Kujo]

Damn this is the first time I see a Somali guy being honest!!!! Good job!

It's a reality a lot of normal Somali niggas don't like to admit/give light to. It's like every other month I hear about another Somali yute I grew up with on some fuckshit. Last month I found out a neighborhood 9th grader I used to play ball with back when I was in middle school wants to buy a glock so he can "pop off on my Arabs opps". His words not mine. Lil nigga was telling me this like I would be impressed .


I used to get pretty annoyed when I was younger that my hooyo wouldn't let me go outside my neighborhood by myself unlike all the other Somali kids but now I understand why. I think this gangster pandemic with Farax's has to do with ass parenting. Haboyare's are not strict at all with their sons.

 

[Bundasliga]

Cause 50% of somali guys are gangbangers that don't give a f*ck about school or career pathways. It is what it is

50% kulaha . Pulled that number straight outta your futoo

 

[Jotaro Kujo]

50% kulaha . Pulled that number straight outta your futoo

50% is a low blow tbh it's probably higher. Maybe the European Street scene is different lakiin in Henny land it's really common.

 

[Aboow]

It's a reality a lot of normal Somali niggas don't like to admit/give light to. It's like every other month I hear about another Somali yute I grew up with on some fuckshit. Last month I found out a neighborhood 9th grader I used to play ball with back when I was in middle school wants to buy a glock so he can "pop off on my Arabs opps". His words not mine. Lil nigga was telling me this like I would be impressed .


I used to get pretty annoyed when I was younger that my hooyo wouldn't let me go outside my neighborhood by myself unlike all the other Somali kids but now I understand why. I think this gangster pandemic with Farax's has to do with ass parenting. Haboyare's are not strict at all with their sons.

I love this! Now we can have dialogues! When I voice my opinion people call me a BLM xalimo loool which am far from that but some Somali men lack self awareness. Some would literally become a drug dealer than go to college ( not uni!) than to get a trade or a job. They always chose fast money! You and I know that some somali guys in our city are knee deep in this lifestyle. Half of the Somali guys in my grade are either dead or arrested. So marrying an ajanabi is inevitable. The numbers of eligible somali men for women don’t add up. The ratios off. Also, I agree that somali hoyos aren’t strict at all on their boys but they have us on a chokehold. Anyways am over my city most are trashh