You’re both lucky and blessed to have each other. Yes, a lot of people don’t realise the blessing children are. You are very wise, sis.Although my marriage didn’t start in good terms and wasn’t successful… mashallah I have a beautiful son despite having struggles and hardship. Indeed Allah swt looks out for us.
My son is one of the best things that ever happened to me, and imagine I had someone tell me to abort cause I wasn’t in the best finances. Remember that Allah swt always provides.
Whenever I have hardship with him, I remember the woman either around my age or older who wish they can have children and may not be able to.
My bad for straying from the subject.