I am approaching my 30s and never dated a girl

[Mr.Haggis]

I am approaching my 30s and never dated a girl had a couple one night stands and paid for sex couple times apart from that no Shukaansi at all. I repented for all my sins and I’ve joined muzmatch with the intention to find a wife. My mother wants me to go Puntland and marry one of my cousins (hell nah) I am a handsome guy according to many and I’m having a tough time.

I need ur advice

 

[Tawheed]

I am approaching my 30s and never dated a girl had a couple one night stands and paid for sex couple times apart from that no Shukaansi at all. I repented for all my sins and I’ve joined muzmatch with the intention to find a wife. My mother wants me to go Puntland and marry one of my cousins (hell nah) I am a handsome guy according to many and I’m having a tough time.

I need ur advice

go and marry a zaania because a virgin isn't lawful for u

 

[Vanessa]

What’s wrong marrying to your cousin?

 

[Mr.Haggis]

What’s wrong marrying to your cousin?

they eat goat meat and Have brown teeth

 

[Manafesto]

Marrying from back home is not that bad of a idea, it is a less stressful than dealing with a westernized halimo.

 

[Dooyo]

Any girl you find you must tell her of your past. It's great that you've repented for your sins and all that but some girls want a clean virgin man like them. You must come clean with them, they shall choose if they'll accept you or not.

 

[BetterDaysAhead]

What’s wrong marrying to your cousin?

Incest bad

 

[Caaro]

You payed for sex? Kinda cringe ngl. But fr, I really don't know your situation well enough to give advice. Are you sure you can meet a good wife here?

 

[Southerner]

30 is still young imo, don't be marrying out of desperation.

Don't be telling anyone about your sexual encounters especially about paying for sex

 

[Basra]

I am approaching my 30s and never dated a girl had a couple one night stands and paid for sex couple times apart from that no Shukaansi at all. I repented for all my sins and I’ve joined muzmatch with the intention to find a wife. My mother wants me to go Puntland and marry one of my cousins (hell nah) I am a handsome guy according to many and I’m having a tough time.

I need ur advice

1 Pray Salat.

2. Pay Zakat

3 Fast Ramadhaan

4. Go to Somalia with Mom and find a younger girl, younger at least 10 years

5 Pay Zakat more .

6 Be Happy Inshallaah


if u follow all this, every thing will be fine

 

[Strike6times]

find a xaalimo that is interested in marriage but you have to tell her about your past

 

[Vanessa]

Incest bad

 

[Xasusi]

Remain a bachelor

 

[Kol3]

I am approaching my 30s and never dated a girl had a couple one night stands and paid for sex couple times apart from that no Shukaansi at all. I repented for all my sins and I’ve joined muzmatch with the intention to find a wife. My mother wants me to go Puntland and marry one of my cousins (hell nah) I am a handsome guy according to many and I’m having a tough time.

I need ur advice

Go to puntland but don’t marry your cousin lool. Your a big man why is your mom finding you a girl to marry.

 

[Nak Muay]

I am approaching my 30s and never dated a girl had a couple one night stands and paid for sex couple times apart from that no Shukaansi at all. I repented for all my sins and I’ve joined muzmatch with the intention to find a wife. My mother wants me to go Puntland and marry one of my cousins (hell nah) I am a handsome guy according to many and I’m having a tough time.

I need ur advice

Family friends and girls your extended family know are your best bet but wtf saxib, bury that paying shit in the deepest part of your subconscious. It never happened, you're a good clean virgin boy lol.

 

[Abdi Nur]

I am approaching my 30s and never dated a girl had a couple one night stands and paid for sex couple times apart from that no Shukaansi at all. I repented for all my sins and I’ve joined muzmatch with the intention to find a wife. My mother wants me to go Puntland and marry one of my cousins (hell nah) I am a handsome guy according to many and I’m having a tough time.

I need ur advice

It funny how men say women hit the wall when wallahi us men do as well.

Seen men in their thirties and fourties panic and marry the first person they saw all because they are loosing their hairline or suffering from erectile dysfunction.

Your mother is probably concerned that you hit the wall

 

[Ayaanle__]

find a xaalimo that is interested in marriage but you have to tell her about your past

You shouldn’t be exposing your sins if she doesn’t ask however she most likely will ask if you have had previous relations which you then have to come forward

 

[Nomoregames2019]

Although I am against the concept of marrying your first cousin or any relative for that matter, I would make the exception in your situation, and take this chance. You will avoid falling into Zina again, and it sounds like your having problems meeting the right one. Man up, do it . Go and get that Puntland first cousin of yours. She will cook for you, and be submissive. What else do you want?

 

[Marsh]

First cousin = down syndrome kids

 

[Omar del Sur]

they eat goat meat and Have brown teeth

you say you're approaching your thirties and talk as though "woe is me".....

but then you don't want to marry your cousin?

It must not be that bad, then!

And what is wrong with eating goat meat?!

Huh?!