@HalimaJ
Real talk
Besides the old heads that go back home to marry the young men that go back home have couple of issues. Paramount amongst their myriad of problems is the mental illness. Their hooyos almost always get advised by other ladies to send him back home because they say to the the mother “wiilka wuu kululaadey, naag ba qaboojineysa” in other words his level of horniness has got to him. So mother takes him back home. I swear I know so many dudes who were escorted back home to get married. I only know one successful outcome and that’s due to the fact that the guy was not severely mental. Ofc he is definitely mental but he had some faculty working.
The second group of young men are the criminals and deportees. In this group quarter of them really mellow down and become great fathers.
3rd group of young men are ones who are socially awkward (
@TekNiKo ) who never ever tasted a Western Xaliimo while growing up in the West. They become disillusioned and become hardcore religious and then go back home where they marry a maskiinad. Once that guy is relieved of the sperm pressure he becomes less religious.