How to not be xaasid

One of the reasons I wanted to be the 'king of the hill' in every social situation was because I thought being superior would protect me form the harm of people.

But now I realize I don't have to be dominant I just need to rely on Allah.

I can now accept that some folks are better than me. At academics/sports/life. And that's Ok.

It may seem pretty basic, but this is for the folks that need to read this.

Also: Being Xaasid is Rafaad, you can't be positive, you can barely work on yourself, and you get left further and further 'in the dust' (Xaasid folks are super sensitive to this)
 
One of the reasons I wanted to be the 'king of the hill' in every social situation was because I thought being superior would protect me form the harm of people.

But now I realize I don't have to be dominant I just need to rely on Allah.

I can now accept that some folks are better than me. At academics/sports/life. And that's Ok.

It may seem pretty basic, but this is for the folks that need to read this.

Also: Being Xaasid is Rafaad, you can't be positive, you can barely work on yourself, and you get left further and further 'in the dust' (Xaasid folks are super sensitive to this)
You aren't Xaasid it's ok to be competitive, a Xaasid individual is someone who tries to pull others down and is envious of the success of others. Remember envy ruins relationships, and healthy competition is alright.
 

vanilla

i think with my heart
you could get inspired/motivated by someone and we learn best from mirroring others. i think being xasid is when you are hating on the person. i always remind myself of these two hadiths:

-Anas ibn Malik reported: The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “None of you will have faith until he loves for his brother what he loves for himself.”

-Abu Huraira reported: The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Beware of envy, for it devours good deeds just as fire devours wood or grass.
 

IGotDaAnswers

jUst keeping it REAL homie
One of the reasons I wanted to be the 'king of the hill' in every social situation was because I thought being superior would protect me form the harm of people.

But now I realize I don't have to be dominant I just need to rely on Allah.

I can now accept that some folks are better than me. At academics/sports/life. And that's Ok.

It may seem pretty basic, but this is for the folks that need to read this.

Also: Being Xaasid is Rafaad, you can't be positive, you can barely work on yourself, and you get left further and further 'in the dust' (Xaasid folks are super sensitive to this)
Be Xaasid to the right people. Lay your opps down and empower your friends I want my close friends to be as good as me if not better than me because I would benefit from it both socially and financially. Don’t be an idiot and treat your boys and opps the same
it’s a dog eat dog world
 
Be Xaasid to the right people. Lay your opps down and empower your friends I want my close friends to be as good as me if not better than me because I would benefit from it both socially and financially. Don’t be an idiot and treat your boys and opps the same
it’s a dog eat dog world
Just the Muslims akhi

Edit: Just the Muslims will be backed*
 

Desert Flower

Staff Member
Don't be xaasid. That's for low vibrational folks. They don't get far. Be giving, but use discernment as well. Help those that you can and think about doing it for the sake of Allah. That way even if they turn around and hurt you, its fine because you didn't do it for them anyway. Being authentic and genuine gets you so much further in life. You age less and you're much happier. Avoid those that are xaasid too. These are the people that take and never give (Common with Somalis unfortunately) and are always using others to get to where they want. You can see it if you open your eyes.
 
Don't be xaasid. That's for low vibrational folks. They don't get far. Be giving, but use discernment as well. Help those that you can and think about doing it for the sake of Allah. That way even if they turn around and hurt you, its fine because you didn't do it for them anyway. Being authentic and genuine gets you so much further in life. You age less and you're much happier. Avoid those that are xaasid too. These are the people that take and never give (Common with Somalis unfortunately) and are always using others to get to where they want. You can see it if you open your eyes.
Factssssss.... f*ck being hasid life too short for that
 

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