Are you one of those " as long as he is muslim" folks. That might explain your argument here.
And would your mom allow you to marry a cadaan guy. Does your mom have grudge against somali guys becouse your father wasnt around (rare case).
Dont feel insulted by these questions. I just wanted to ask.
Actually my mom allows me a cadaan guy, if he's muslim and he is a good husband to me and my family, its okay for my mother
She only told me once its better no good idea to marry another african guy or arabs, because they will force you to acknowledge their culture so your forget your own
Also cadaans dont really have culture so they cant ruin yours and wont force you
And she doesnt has a grudge against somali guys, i dont either but she knows i grew up here my whole life and tbh the most somali guys i see are stupd guys who get in jail
Dont have 1 degree/upsetting their mothers etc
But thats my opinion about the somali guys in Holland and ive never been to somalia so far...