How to deal with breakups

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Bernie Madoff

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On the mouth?

Arabs kiss each other on the cheeks and hands, that's normal. Heck, the guys (hetero) kiss each other and hold hands too.

Yes after my cousin told me about that I had to go with her brother to drop her off once to see if it was true and it was I shocked and confused
 

VixR

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I was born in Saudi and lived there for many years. I said this numerous times on this forum.
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So you're saying young boys playing outside are susceptible to being scooped up by grown men on the streets?
Yes after my cousin told me about that I had to go with her brother to drop her off once to see if it was true and it was I shocked and confused
In public, at the school? :leon:That doesn't seem right. Were they both complicit? I've been kissed by a girl, but it wasnt by choice. Maybe it wasn't what u thought you saw.
 
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So you're saying young boys playing outside are susceptible to being scooped up by grown men on the streets?

Yeah, it happened a lot. We'd always see it on the news. I remember a boy went to a barbershop to get a haircut by himself, and the Barber took him to the back room, raped him and killed him. The police found his body there and they executed him.That shit mentally scarred me and I rarely left the house by myself after that.
 

VixR

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Yeah, it happened a lot. We'd always see it on the news. I remember a boy went to a barbershop to get a haircut by himself, and the Barber took him to the back room, raped him and killed him. The police found his body there and they executed him.That shit mentally scarred me and I rarely left the house by myself after that.
On the news?
Saudi news is pretty censored. Wouldn't they bury sodomy :cosbyhmm:
 
On the news?
Saudi news is pretty censored. Wouldn't they bury sodomy :cosbyhmm:

When there's a crime, of course they're gonna report it. We'd hear it on news and we'd hear it from people, word of mouth. My brother would tell us the most fucked up shit he'd hear from his friends
 

VixR

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When there's a crime, of course they're gonna report it. We'd hear it on news and we'd hear it from people, word of mouth. My brother would tell us the most fucked up shit he'd hear from his friends
How old were you when you left there?
 

VixR

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Yes...I know this may be a hard concept for you to believe...but brothers tell their brothers things....:what1:
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Um..Did anything happen to you in Saudi
 
Actually my mom allows me a cadaan guy, if he's muslim and he is a good husband to me and my family, its okay for my mother

She only told me once its better no good idea to marry another african guy or arabs, because they will force you to acknowledge their culture so your forget your own

Also cadaans dont really have culture so they cant ruin yours and wont force you

And she doesnt has a grudge against somali guys, i dont either but she knows i grew up here my whole life and tbh the most somali guys i see are stupd guys who get in jail

Dont have 1 degree/upsetting their mothers etc

But thats my opinion about the somali guys in Holland and ive never been to somalia so far...


Fair enough. But not all somali guys are losers. There are tons of well educated, culturesd somali guys but they obviously dont reside the same place as you, as you have mentioned.

Nothing wrong about having prefrence. Nothing wrong about wanting to marry cadaan guy if thats what u desire. I just dont like when people bash somali guys at same time use their limited views on somali guys as a justification on why they married out.

You dont need to justify your choices. You dont need rationalise your actions by insulting a whole nations men - not like you did. If you desire something, you go and get it. No need to justify nor rationalise.


You sound good person, I hope you find what you looking for.
 
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Fair enough. But not all somali guys are losers. There are tons of well educated, culturesd somali guys but they obviously dont reside the same place as you, as you have mentioned.

Nothing wrong about having prefrence. Nothing wrong about wanting to marry cadaan guy if thats what u desire. I just dont like when people bash somali guys at same time use their limited views on somali guys as a justification on why they married out.


You sound good person, I hope find what you looking for.

Actually i feel more attracted to dark guys and i rather want to be with a somali guy because i dont want ever to forget where im coming from

And i know there are many eduacated somali guys, but i just never met them

Thanks i hope the same thing for you
 

dr.leorio

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This thread is too much. :damedamn:

Why are youngins so concerned about relationships when their primary focus should be on themselves? Ya'll should be focusing on your own happiness instead of looking for it in other people because that's just a recipe for disaster. Go do something productive like getting a degree, start up a saving account/business, travel back home to Somalia, learn a new language. Dating is overrated anyway and requires a level of emotional and mental maturity which most people our generation develop later in their lives.

Good luck on your future relationships nonetheless.
 
This thread is too much. :damedamn:

Why are youngins so concerned about relationships when their primary focus should be on themselves? Ya'll should be focusing on your own happiness instead of looking for it in other people because that's just a recipe for disaster. Go do something productive like getting a degree, start up a saving account/business, travel back home to Somalia, learn a new language. Dating is overrated anyway and requires a level of emotional and mental maturity which most people our generation develop later in their lives.

Good luck on your future relationships nonetheless.

I agree with you
 
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