how to be less socially awkward?

[Shams nagi]

Any tips ? I'm severely introverted so holding a convo irl isn't one of my specialties. It usually gets awkward after 'how are you'

 

[Xooshdheere]

use google

 

[Shams nagi]

That's not an answer

 

[Someone]

I also have this problem, but I don't think theres a way to get over it

 

[felloff]

Don't talk to people unless they talk to you

 

[fox]

Any tips ? I'm severely introverted so holding a convo irl isn't one of my specialties. It usually gets awkward after 'how are you'

I've got some issues, i am either hyperactive or socially dead. It changes from day to day. So whenever i am down i have espresso and when i am hyper i have chamomile tea. This usually does the trick.

Don't talk to people unless they talk to you

You got to break the ice if you want to stay in control.

 

[YoungFarah]

I've got some issues, i am either hyperactive or socially dead.

That perfectly describes me. It depends on how much sleep I get usually.

 

[YoungFarah]

Any tips ? I'm severely introverted so holding a convo irl isn't one of my specialties. It usually gets awkward after 'how are you'

Try small talk. If you hate small talk then get into deep convos with friends. I advice you to go into uncomfortable situations in public. It helps build social skills.

 

[TheMadMullah]

Start by phone shukaansi then upgrade to real life shukaansi one on one

 

[felloff]

I've got some issues, i am either hyperactive or socially dead. It changes from day to day. So whenever i am down i have espresso and when i am hyper i have chamomile tea. This usually does the trick.

You got to break the ice if you want to stay in control.

less is more, seen countless socially awkward people be bullied cause they tried breaking ice with dumb topics or with the wrong person, first impressions are golden

 

[felloff]

Be a youtuber if you want to be less socially awkward or go on periscope and go live on random somalis across the world

 

[Shams nagi]

I also have this problem, but I don't think theres a way to get over it

the job field i want to get into requires A person to be social. Holding convos are so challenging tho and painful

 

[Shams nagi]

Don't talk to people unless they talk to you

Be a youtuber if you want to be less socially awkward or go on periscope and go live on random somalis across the world

But then it's not the same, you're not standing right Infront of someone. You're behind a screen

 

[supz]

Be "rude", but go about it in a smart way. Once you've broken the ice. the conversation will flow nicely.

 

[Shams nagi]

Be "rude", but go about it in a smart way. Once you've broken the ice. the conversation will flow nicely.

I've tried that before, it didn't end well

 

[Jjero]

just associate yourself with your friends friend circle thats what i do

 

[felloff]

But then it's not the same, you're not standing right Infront of someone. You're behind a screen

it builds confindence start off small behind a screen , then try speaking to people when your outside preferably not where you live or work in that way, people won't think your that weird guy who talks to them for no reason

 

[Shams nagi]

Try small talk. If you hate small talk then get into deep convos with friends. I advice you to go into uncomfortable situations in public. It helps build social skills.

I'll try that definitely, either 'so how's life ' or 'can you really kill the dead'

 

[YoungFarah]

I'll try that definitely, either 'so how's life ' or 'can you really kill the dead'

Ask why questions or questions that need a response. Don't ask too much or it becomes an interrogation. Sometimes you need to carry a convo. Sometimes they need to. Try to keep it balanced. Just do what you do online.

 

[Shams nagi]

just associate yourself with your friends friend circle thats what i do

But then imagine after you leave school/uni and you're forced to work in an alien environment. You gotta make new friends or socialise with co-workers.