Hero-Asshole Complex

[Sophisticate]

Men want the Madonna-Wh0r€ (wholesome but bad). While the male equivalent is the Hero-Asshole Complex (good guy that knows when to activate the bad in him and how much bad is respectable enough given the context). One moment they want tenderness and sensitivity but they also want a sprinkle of aggression and a cavalier attitude. What seems confusing is how to traverse these polar opposites. It must be challenging for guys to figure out when to be one or the other. And a part of me thinks many women don't even know the answer to that question themselves. There is a lot of confusing programming. And even more tip toeing nowadays regarding what to say and when to say it. The rules of engagement like gender roles are unclear. So, how do you navigate it?

How do you young men manage? And young ladies what do you expect from men?

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[Odkac WRLD]

There is an on and off switch. I can be the mild mannered hard working student on one hand, and I can drive by with the best of them on the other.

It’s a juggling act but it adds layers to my persona, and the ladies love mystery.


There are many sides to me, I am actually a talented musician and breakdancer believe it or not. As these walls fall down it enchants them more and more.

I am like a beloved chapter book as when you get to know me the story just gets better and better.

It is difficult knowing when to activate different sides, but it’s cool having a foot in both worlds.

 

[Sophisticate]

There is an on and off switch. I can be the mild mannered hard working student on one hand, and I can drive by with the best of them on the other.

It’s a juggling act but it adds layers to my persona, and the ladies love mystery.

So, you have a real life alter Ego, too?

 

[Samaalic Era]

Women were made to serve their husbands,

These are the ideal women who have understood their role

 

[Odkac WRLD]

So, you have a real life alter Ego, too?

If the capital ego is a reference to something, it flew over my head.

But yeah there actually are a lot of different sides to me.

You could say I’m a bit of an enigma. This is why I often refer to myself as Farax Superior.
I am simply built different.

 

[Figo]

My fob ass rn

 

[Sophisticate]

Women were made to serve their husbands,

These are the ideal women who have understood their role

So, you're looking for more traditional gender roles. But isn't serving a two-way street?

If you capitalizing ego is a reference to something, it flew over my head.

But yeah there actually are a lot of different sides to me. You could say I’m a bit of an enigma. This is why I refer to myself as Farax Superior.

I get that you're a complex character. What do you think of the expectations women have about how you should act?

 

[Yukon_Niner]

Well I don't know to be honest, I'm generally quiet. I don't think I traverse anything at all, I just act like an asshole when someone bothers me.

Are there people who actually try to be this?

 

[Samaalic Era]

So, you're looking for more traditional gender roles. But isn't serving a two-way street?




I get that you're a complex character. What do you think of the expectations women have about how you should act?

I'm traditional aswell, I'm not a modernist if my memory is intact

 

[Sophisticate]

My fob ass rn View attachment 109569

Sxb, you're no fob.

Well I don't know to be honest, I'm generally quiet. I don't think I traverse anything at all, I just act like an asshole when someone bothers me.

Are there people who actually try to be this?

I have no clue. I recently read about the concept so I'm inquiring.

 

[Samaalic Era]

Well I don't know to be honest, I'm generally quiet. I don't think I traverse anything at all, I just act like an asshole when someone bothers me.

Are there people who actually try to be this?

I always thought you were an af Miishaar, not the quiet type

 

[Odkac WRLD]

So, you're looking for more traditional gender roles. But isn't serving a two-way street?




I get that you're a complex character. What do you think of the expectations women have about how you should act?

I don’t tie my masculinity into things like a lot of guys, tbh at the end of the day I know what I’m made of.

i have nothing to prove to anyone so I take myself seriously irl and I’m mellow.

I am reserved, but not shy. I like keeping to myself so that may go against some expectations woman may have. Most don’t seem to mind.

I’ve always been able to stick up for myself, but I don’t actively look for conflict lol.

I think women usually don’t have a ton of expectations other than the basic functions a man should have...

 

[psyche]

I'm not picky, so as long as the shoe fits I'll stick with it.

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[abdallah]

Every gender must understand their roles

 

[Yukon_Niner]

I always thought you were an af Miishaar, not the quiet type

Really? I like observing and listening more than actually talking. It's not like I have much to say most of the time either.

I bet you're a quiet nigga too

 

[Samaalic Era]

Really? I like observing and listening more than actually talking. It's not like I have much to say most of the time either.

I bet you're a quiet nigga too

You detail posts and your elaborate well dished out karbash certainly shows you are not quiet. I think if similar people to you were around you more, you would talk more

You can put the loudest person in an alien environment and they will become quiet. Its all due to environment in my opinion

 

[Yukon_Niner]

You detail posts and your elaborate well dished out karbash certainly shows you are not quiet. I think if similar people to you were around you more, you would talk more

You can put the loudest person in an alien environment and they will become quiet. Its all due to environment in my opinion

Honestly I've always been like that about any piece of work or writing. I like to put a little care in it even if it's just trolling or shitting on random people for fun.

I kind of doubt that, even when I'm with my friend group I only hold a normal conversation or just walk with them quietly either thinking, watching something or listening. I'm like that with my family too, unless I've got something important to say I won't really try to speak.

in an alien environment I just get awkward, been like that my whole life.

but enough about me wat bout u???? You loud, quiet or asshole-hero?

 

[Samaalic Era]

Honestly I've always been like that about any piece of work or writing. I like to put a little care in it even if it's just trolling or shitting on random people for fun.

I kind of doubt that, even when I'm with my friend group I only hold a normal conversation or just walk with them quietly either thinking, watching something or listening. I'm like that with my family too, unless I've got something important to say I won't really try to speak.

in an alien environment I just get awkward, been like that my whole life.

but enough about me wat bout u???? You loud, quiet or asshole-hero?

I'm more of introverted extrovert if that makes sense . I'm not loud or an extrovert but very social and reserved aswell

 

[Radical]

I'm just an honest and sincere good guy, you'd probably find an image of me if you Google such words, as conventional as they come with no ulterior sinistry whatsoever, sorry to disappoint ladies.

 

[Sophisticate]

I'm traditional aswell, I'm not a modernist if my memory is intact

Is that why you want to go back home in search of a bride?

I don’t tie my masculinity into things like a lot of guys, tbh at the end of the day I know what I’m made of.

i have nothing to prove to anyone so I take myself seriously irl and I’m mellow.

I am reserved, but not shy. I like keeping to myself so that may go against some expectations woman may have. Most don’t seem to mind.

I’ve always been able to stick up for myself, but I don’t actively look for conflict lol.

I think women usually don’t have a ton of expectations other than the basic functions a man should have...

You seem even keeled.


What are the basic functions a man should have? I want to leave no stone unturned.

I'm not picky, so as long as the shoe fits I'll stick with it.

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Every gender must understand their roles

Tell us what they are, sxb?