Help this Somali sister out

[Fobnimo Till I Dhimo]

This is a recipe for disaster. Being overly nice and clingy will have your naag's respect and attraction take a nosedive real quick. Most chicks prefer non clingy masculine nin,and he is the opposite of that shit. I don't think it's his clinginess alone let's be real here man she doesn't view him as a masculine nin. I saw some people in the comments recommending her to connect him with a masculine Muslim group, and she was open to it, which just proves how much she really wants a masculine nin and is trying to make her nin something he is not and never has been. He could be one of those really nice and softhearted miskin mama's boys who ain't got a clue about how some naagos' brains are wired and is now being punished by his own ignorance on the matter. She states he used to go to a different gym but now goes to hers. He should not have let her go to a mixed gym in the first place if your wife can't find an only women's gym, you better have the lacag to provide her with everything she would need to do her workout in the guri. She should be saying all this blunt shit to her man's face instead of sparing his feelings and running to the internet and airing out all their business. A quick convo about this could easily solve it or be the step to initiate divorce. It doesn't look like he is the guy she really wants and realized it too late

 

[Hmohamed54]

This is a recipe for disaster. Being overly nice and clingy will have your naag's respect and attraction take a nosedive real quick. Most chicks prefer non clingy masculine nin,and he is the opposite of that shit. I don't think it's his clinginess alone let's be real here man she doesn't view him as a masculine nin. I saw some people in the comments recommending her to connect him with a masculine Muslim group, and she was open to it, which just proves how much she really wants a masculine nin and is trying to make her nin something he is not and never has been. He could be one of those really nice and softhearted miskin mama's boys who ain't got a clue about how some naagos' brains are wired and is now being punished by his own ignorance on the matter. She states he used to go to a different gym but now goes to hers. He should not have let her go to a mixed gym in the first place if your wife can't find an only women's gym, you better have the lacag to provide her with everything she would need to do her workout in the guri. She should be saying all this blunt shit to her man's face instead of sparing his feelings and running to the internet and airing out all their business. A quick convo about this could easily solve it or be the step to initiate divorce. It doesn't look like he is the guy she really wants and realized it too late

I peeped that too she probably rushed marriage and married the first guy that was available. She wasn’t compatible with him and deserves a wasaq to make her happy.

 

[Sheikh Kulkuli]

Why are you guys so extreme? Does moderation exist for men anymore? You can spend time with each other and have some time a part.

Naah there is no moderation.
Especially when you are the ref and you change goal posts.
Moderation is a relative term and very ambiguous.
We dont live inside your brain.

 

[cooli3o]

Thats impossible to be around someone 24/7. She’s being dramatic. The only thing I agree with her on is staying out the kitchen when she’s cooking.

bro do you no know anything about personal space, ppl need there own life, you can't do everything with your spouse, people have their own friends and personal space, your just mistranslated what she said now, she said hes too clingy, which he is, you dont need to be around someone 24/7 to be clingy
its clear your not married

 

[cooli3o]

bet she would have liked him more if he was texting females on the side. Women are funny

tell me you get no b*itches without telling me you get no b*tches

 

[Fobnimo Till I Dhimo]

I peeped that too she probably rushed marriage and married the first guy that was available. She wasn’t compatible with him and deserves a wasaq to make her happy.

She's got a type and he ain't it

 

[AbrahamFreedom]

I understand her annoyance in regards to the issue that concerns sleeping. I don't like the idea of someone near me with no space for room while I'm sleeping. A bit distressing, no?

Of course, that doesn't entail separate living quarters, but having life squeezed out of you bit by bit as you sleep sounds something out of a nightmare. Being how dear my family is to me, I don't enjoy much physical closeness with them. To explain the "friends" part, you never have to see them often nor spend much time with them. In that regard, retreating is acceptable when feeling overwhelmed. Spouses and family are different, you can't leave when you feel overwhelmed as many take the relationship status to indicate a privileged access and feel slighted by these actions...

As a whole, most Somalis aren't outwardly affectionate and prefer to show through actions or other modes of communications. I find myself to similar in this regard.

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[cooli3o]

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This is the girl you defending. Do you still agree ?

I think she would be okay with being second wife or she just not feeling him

thats the perfect wife, who wants to be around their spouse all the time
OP you are probably just like her husband, a clingy guy, tell your future wife this so she knows your one of those type of people

 

[cooli3o]

I disagree, when would she like being with him. He wants to spend more tine with her but she doesn’t. They’re not compatible. This is not normal. I feel bad for anyone in this position guy or girl.

nope if I like a girl I don't want to spend alot of time with her I like my alone time
hmo u are a clingy guy not everyone is like u

 

[cooli3o]

Im not going in circles witg you. This isnt a gender war. This girl is either one if these things

1. Only child/Youngest child with anti social selfish personality

2. Is more suited polygamy

3. Not into him or rushed to be married

this girl barely wants to spend time with her newly wed husband and only gives him scrapes, she can at-least go to him instead of making fun of him on reddit

your acting stupid now to get a plat thread

 

[Hmohamed54]

thats the perfect wife, who wants to be around their spouse all the time
OP you are probably just like her husband, a clingy guy, tell your future wife this so she knows your one of those type of people

I am married alx but thanks for your input & advice

 

[cooli3o]

I am married alx but thanks for your input & advice

are you clingy to ur wife?

 

[empressjamila]

Looks like he loves her a lot and she’s just lukewarm and married him cause he was her best option. But she’s not in love with him

If she really loved him she would be just as clingy tbh. Most of the long time married couples who really love each other are all a little codependent. It’s natural in a healthy marriage because that’s your life partner and supposed to be your best friend, so you’re gonna want to spend time with them over all others

 

[Hmohamed54]

are you clingy to ur wife?

We’re best friends, things happen naturally. She probably got married fir the sake if being married or likes being by her self too much and didn’t marry someone she’s compatible with.

This is the beginning state of marriage as well

 

[KaiMarvin]

tell me you get no b*itches without telling me you get no b*tches

If you had any youd realise texting other women will get you better results than being a clingy loser like this guy

 

[empressjamila]

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This is the girl you defending. Do you still agree ?

I think she would be okay with being second wife or she just not feeling him

So basically she wants all of her free time outside of work to be “alone time” lmaoo she doesn’t like that dude. I feel bad for this guy ngl, miskeen there’s no worse feeling than being married to someone who isn’t into you

 

[cooli3o]

If you had any youd realise texting other women will get you better results than being a clingy loser like this guy

both willl get you dumped quickly,you incels really know nothing about women, stop listening to redpill and get out in the world

 

[cooli3o]

So basically she wants all of her free time outside of work to be “alone time” lmaoo she doesn’t like that dude. I feel bad for this guy ngl, miskeen there’s no worse feeling than being married to someone who isn’t into you

nope some ppl like their alone time

 

[empressjamila]

nope some ppl like their alone time

I understand needing some alone time but the girl said she wants to be alone after work and alone/with friends on the weekends. So when would she spend time with her husband?

Besides when you’re married it’s normal to not spend every single weekend with friends maybe meet up every couple months but you don’t need to be meeting every weekend like you’re still single. Your priorities are supposed to change.

To me this looks like she’s with a guy she’s not really feeling like that and so him wanting to spend time together is annoying to her.

 

[KaiMarvin]

both willl get you dumped quickly,you incels really know nothing about women, stop listening to redpill and get out in the world

Man shut ur lame ass up Mr btches I promise you dont get more women than me. Stop rinsing that corny word