bet she would have liked him more if he was texting females on the side. Women are funny
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bet she would have liked him more if he was texting females on the side. Women are funny
The moment you give her space she will stary claimming you dobt love her.
Some women are very toxic.
When you give her attention and priority she claims you arr clingy.
When you give her space and mind your business she will claim otherwise.
These xalimos dont know what they want.
Some women are very toxic.
When you give her attention and priority she claims you arr clingy.
When you give her space and mind your business she will claim otherwise.
These xalimos dont know what they want.
I’m in tears what Somali woman has destroyed you. You’re quite possibly the most bitter male on here
. all the girl said was she would like some space and you’re making it seem like some shaytan.This is the girl you defending. Do you still agree ?
I think she would be okay with being second wife or she just not feeling him
Why are you guys so extreme? Does moderation exist for men anymore? You can spend time with each other and have some time a part.
He did have friends If you read what she wrote. He has stopped hanging out with them so that he can be around her 24/7.
Yes the girl is an introvert and wants some alone time. It’s not that serious and I can understand if the roles were reversed as well. Wallahi some of you guys are very dramatic on here it’s like being a Somali man means you’re beyond advice.
I disagree, when would she like being with him. He wants to spend more tine with her but she doesn’t. They’re not compatible. This is not normal. I feel bad for anyone in this position guy or girl.
How is that even possible if you work and go to school. Plus she said all his friends are married, like his friends are spending time with their wives but he cant do that now can he ?
They can spend time together one day of the weekend and after work sometimes. But I don’t think she’s evil for wanting some alone. They can find a middle ground where both are happy.
You don’t have to spend every waking moment with your spouse. There’s nothing wrong with spending time apart. One of her points was about wanting to cook by herself. Why can’t he watch a show or read a book while she’s cooking?
A nightmare is having a difference in quality time needs?
I don’t think some of the guys on this thread understand the concept of moderation. How are you assuming she’d want her husband to text other women or not give her attention because she’s complaining about extreme clingy behavior?
Have you lot actually read what she wrote? If you did, you wouldn’t be vilifying her whatsoever. But then again I’ve noticed some of you lot aren’t mature and don’t have emotional intelligence.
1. he hasn’t seen his friends in two months as he’s decided to ditch them in order to be around her
2. Doesn’t let her work out on her own and go to a female only gym to have her own space.
3. She can’t hang out with friends as he wants to be with her all the time.
4. At night she can’t sleep soundly as he wants to be attached the whole time.
5. Now he wants her to work in the same company.
Now seeing all of that, does that sound healthy? No it doesn’t as too much clinging creates relationship issues. Also neglect and not spending enough time creates relationship problems as well. A healthy medium is the best.
Have you lot actually read what she wrote? If you did, you wouldn’t be vilifying her whatsoever. But then again I’ve noticed some of you lot aren’t mature and don’t have emotional intelligence.
1. he hasn’t seen his friends in two months as he’s decided to ditch them in order to be around her
2. Doesn’t let her work out on her own and go to a female only gym to have her own space.
3. She can’t hang out with friends as he wants to be with her all the time.
4. At night she can’t sleep soundly as he wants to be attached the whole time.
5. Now he wants her to work in the same company.
Now seeing all of that, does that sound healthy? No it doesn’t as too much clinging creates relationship issues. Also neglect and not spending enough time creates relationship problems as well. A healthy medium is the best.
Im not going in circles witg you. This isnt a gender war. This girl is either one if these things
1. Only child/Youngest child with anti social selfish personality
2. Is more suited polygamy
3. Not into him or rushed to be married
this girl barely wants to spend time with her newly wed husband and only gives him scrapes, she can at-least go to him instead of making fun of him on reddit
I highly doubt any of them actually read the story. They read the title and ran with that because their reactions doesn’t make sense in the slightest.
I’ve come to accept some of the male posters here have severe cuqdad towards Somali women. Some of them are actually deranged and miserable. They take everything to the extremes. Man or woman it’s normal to have some alone time. It doesn’t make you evil or ungrateful to want some alone time.
The only things I agreed was with her in kitchen alone cause thats anoying when cooking and having different companies to work for.
The rest is all bs, Me and my wife go same gym and have same membership. Same with my friends and their wives. And asking to be a lone on weekends would be like a upper cut to to the stomach
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I understand her annoyance in regards to the issue that concerns sleeping. I don't like the idea of someone near me with no space for room while I'm sleeping. A bit distressing, no?
Of course, that doesn't entail separate living quarters, but having life squeezed out of you bit by bit as you sleep sounds something out of a nightmare. Being how dear my family is to me, I don't enjoy much physical closeness with them. To explain the "friends" part, you never have to see them often nor spend much time with them. In that regard, retreating is acceptable when feeling overwhelmed. Spouses and family are different, you can't leave when you feel overwhelmed as many take the relationship status to indicate a privileged access and feel slighted by these actions...
As a whole, most Somalis aren't outwardly affectionate and prefer to show through actions or other modes of communications. I find myself to similar in this regard.
