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Are you married?
Help this Somali sister out
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Are you married?
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so fucking uncivilized. Somali dudes please stop getting triggered over nothing! Stop embarrassing us inkar idinku dhac!
She should definitely communicate her needs or even convince him to go to a halaqa or something to get him out of the house. She should also try to reciprocate his energy when they do spend time together so his emotional needs are met.
So if he gets out of the house for halaqa she will claim he might be cheating meeting up girls.
The best thing is if she is controlling get a second wife.So that she can divert her energy onto the second wife.
don't wish ill marriage on people
The girl complaining about her ajnabi hubby is the one who started attacking him first after he gave her an advice. He only responded to her and told her "mac sonkor.
All I gotta say another ajnabi-loving chick complaining in cyberspace.
This chick wants to go a mixed-gender gym and is complaining about her husband wanting to come with her. If I knew that man, I would've told him that chick is for the streets bro. Cut her loose.
1. She wants to go a mixed-gender gym but doesn't want her husband to come around when she goes there.
2. He tried her to join his company, but she likes her job and "friends" there.
3. She wants to meet with "friends" in the weekend but never explained who her friends are and if non-mahram men are included. '
I am a man and can clearly see through that girl that she is not genuine with her husband. Poor guy, he needs to suppress his feeling and allow his head overrule his heart. I genuinely feel for the man who is married to that chick who is a walking disaster.
as much as i can sympathise with her situation, its also important for us to understand that when a couple are really in love, they do tend to want to be around each other all the time. I've seen that throughout my life. Wives so clingy to their husbands to the point that its psychotic and I genuinely feel for the husbands.
The sister not wanting to be spending more time with her husband leads me to believe she feels time spent with him isn't as enjoyable as it would otherwise be like (either alone or with other friends/family). Even her posting this on reddit and not talking to her husband directly about it does illustrate how even on the communication side of things, theres still a lot of improving to do.
I agree with what sisters like @empressjamila said in her first post. I think he was/is a great option on paper and thats why she married him but beneath that they don't have much chemistry.
Also, I know plenty of people who work alongside their spouses at work. I think that just makes getting to and from work easier and any downtime at work more enjoyable as you get to spend it together. I mean think about how nice it would be to spend your lunches together everyday. That can be really cute as a couple. I know a particular guy who would call his wife up during breaks in-between work and lunches. She sounded pretty receptive to it. They'd talk about how each of their kids was doing and he would check up on her mental health as she was diagnosed with bipolar disorder. It was beautiful and wholesome. It didn't seem clingy.
I think as @Audrey Hepburn said, Somali love language is complicated. Many xalimos say they want a husband (often ajnabi) because of the sort of qualities this sister saw in her ajnabi husband. But xalimos are from the land of nomadic pastoralists and have an inherit inclination towards being alone, unbothered and somewhat free.
The sister not wanting to be spending more time with her husband leads me to believe she feels time spent with him isn't as enjoyable as it would otherwise be like (either alone or with other friends/family). Even her posting this on reddit and not talking to her husband directly about it does illustrate how even on the communication side of things, theres still a lot of improving to do.
I agree with what sisters like @empressjamila said in her first post. I think he was/is a great option on paper and thats why she married him but beneath that they don't have much chemistry.
Also, I know plenty of people who work alongside their spouses at work. I think that just makes getting to and from work easier and any downtime at work more enjoyable as you get to spend it together. I mean think about how nice it would be to spend your lunches together everyday. That can be really cute as a couple. I know a particular guy who would call his wife up during breaks in-between work and lunches. She sounded pretty receptive to it. They'd talk about how each of their kids was doing and he would check up on her mental health as she was diagnosed with bipolar disorder. It was beautiful and wholesome. It didn't seem clingy.
I think as @Audrey Hepburn said, Somali love language is complicated. Many xalimos say they want a husband (often ajnabi) because of the sort of qualities this sister saw in her ajnabi husband. But xalimos are from the land of nomadic pastoralists and have an inherit inclination towards being alone, unbothered and somewhat free.
I do the same with my wife. Lunches, breaks, the drive back home, etc. I take every chance you can get to talk to your loved one.
Poor guy.
take a break from each other sometime too. Being overly attached can be too much too
Things happen naturally. No need to force it.
In a sworn testimony one must swear to “tell the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth.”
Everything this woman said is true, but to uncover the whole truth we must start from the beginning.
They met two years prior to the marriage, where she first discovered his obsession for her . At which point she realized that she wasn’t ready for marriage, what? Exactly!!!
The whole truth:
she found the perfect mark to settle with once she was done playing around.
she strung him along for 2 years until they “reconnected” and married.
12 months is the maximum period a woman can go along with a man, she feels nothing for.
Her plan from the beginning was to have a transactional relationship, where the husband would meet all of his husbandly duties.
While she would have the freedom to enjoy her single life, and in return reward this man with some Scooby snacks and a little affection once or twice a week.
but this fella is taking more than his share hotdaaaaaaanm.
so guys help a sister cuck a guy would ya please.
Everything this woman said is true, but to uncover the whole truth we must start from the beginning.
They met two years prior to the marriage, where she first discovered his obsession for her . At which point she realized that she wasn’t ready for marriage, what? Exactly!!!
The whole truth:
she found the perfect mark to settle with once she was done playing around.
she strung him along for 2 years until they “reconnected” and married.
12 months is the maximum period a woman can go along with a man, she feels nothing for.
Her plan from the beginning was to have a transactional relationship, where the husband would meet all of his husbandly duties.
While she would have the freedom to enjoy her single life, and in return reward this man with some Scooby snacks and a little affection once or twice a week.
but this fella is taking more than his share hotdaaaaaaanm.
so guys help a sister cuck a guy would ya please.
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You’re clearly mentally unstable. You redpill folks need intense therapy. Playing around? You have no proof she has committed Zina or played around with anyone.
Playing around could have simply meant flirting,assuming it’s zina is not lady like. Ceeb nayaa, isku xishoo
mentally unstable eh? Are you running out of ideas to describe me madame Angelina.
