help!!!!! the woman im seeing for marriage has male friends?!?!?!

[aduunka220]

broke up with her lol

 

[NordicSomali]

Well you have to think about it because you could be jealous and suspicious for the rest of your marriage if you get married, just know that’s your future

 

[aduunka220]

Well you have to think about it because you could be jealous and suspicious for the rest of your marriage if you get married, just know that’s your future

thank you brother. much appreciat it

 

[aduunka220]

im breaking up with her

 

[NordicSomali]

thank you brother. much appreciat it

You’re welcome, but I’m not a relationship expert because it haven’t been in one before you can get better advice

 

[Sophisticate]

I have male friends, too; what a coincidence. They usually don't know about each other, though.

 

[aduunka220]

already blocked and deleted her. too bad. have to move on. need me a true muslim wife. but i have to be good muslim first inshaAllah

 

[Nomadic lord]

A male friend nah sorry bro but she is for the streets.

 

[aduunka220]

A male friend nah sorry bro but she is for the streets.
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nah she says its her culture. idc if its yo culture!! lol

 

[hinters]

nah she says its her culture. idc if its yo culture!! lol

She wasn't Somali?

 

[Awad]

How long have you known her?

 

[Sophisticate]

OP, learn to manage your cortisol. It is nearly impossible not to have male friends.

Women use this term loosely even though the person is an acquaintance, classmate or work colleague. I have many networks and groups I'm a part of, given my varied interests. I won't stifle myself intellectually, academically, or in terms of career advancement to appease a man's ego threatened by other men. When I have refused to be courted by anyone I know from school, work or volunteer roles. So, if someone, i.e. a suitor, has trust issues, that is on them. If they can't handle that, there is always the door. People can exercise their choices, and I won't reorient myself to placate them.​

 

[jemappelle]

It is nearly impossible not to have male friends.

Wrong

 

[Yaraye]

My future partner can't have woman friends or

 

[Sophisticate]

Wrong

Your opinion. There are different types of friendships and levels of connection; some people are mere friends of convenience, casual friends you sparingly see/interact with, and friends based on a shared interest or setting. Friendships have a lifespan (for a reason, a season or a lifetime).

 

[aduunka220]

My future partner can't have woman friends or

 

[Yaraye]

Your opinion. There are different types of friendships and levels of connection; some people are mere friends of convenience, casual friends you sparingly see/interact with, friends based on a shared interest, close friends and best friends etc. Friendships even have a lifespan (for a reason, a season or a lifetime).

All fitna/ dibaato starts from being friends. Avoid temptations sir!

my partner better be dodging women like this!

 

[Yaraye]

 

[mr.overeasy]

Its haram to have opposite gender friends, major red flag.

its a fact that in 99.999% of opposite sex friendships one of them want the other.

she probably has a bunch of orbiters who would want to take her from you.

If you can't stay away then tell her its haram and if she reacts negatively then stop pursuing her.

I wouldn't consider a girl like that myself.

Nor would I be okay with my sister marrying a man who has female "friends".

 

[Lebron James]

You sound insecure, exboyfriends is one thing but random friends of the opposite gender? Thats normal stuff, good luck finding a woman that never had a male friend thats almost impossible