Future mother in law from hell

[Mercury]

You handle the situation without siding with your wife.
Siding with your wife against your mother is xaram

it's not xaram in the Quran it says you should be good and kind to your parents it never say you should blindly accept and adopt everything your parents say and be obedient all the time why?

Because obedience belongs to Allah

 

[Grigori Rasputin]

@Umm-al-Dhegdheeriyaa

Answer me these questions

Is he the only child ?

Is he Uni educated?

Are you Uni educated?

 

[Umm-al-Dhegdheeriyaa]

@Umm-al-Dhegdheeriyaa

Answer me these questions

Is he the only child ?

Is he Uni educated?

Are you Uni educated?

He is uni educated and so am I, he has an older brother and that’s it

 

[Grigori Rasputin]

He is uni educated and so am I, he has an older brother and that’s it

My advice to you would be that you somehow let go of him.

Remember that his mother comes first no matter what he says to you. Additionally the guy is raised by a single mother. Which means he has mother attachment. He will not make a solo decision. She will be the the captain of his life’s trajectory tell she dies.

So I suggest you go away while you got your sanity or fall for that fake “love” and end up going nude outside one day from sheer mental breakdown. The choice is yours.

 

[NotMyL]

Girl he’s not worth it, run, why in the world would u marry into that knowing she is crazy?

 

[IBRAHIM.]

I’ve known this Somali guy for a long time but started talking to him seriously the past couple of months and he is perfect in every way.
he is handsome, smart and has a good personality. I grew up around this Farax, people love him and even men are jealous of him
His biggest flaw is... His mum from hell. This woman is so evil. His mum is the reason the last girl he was dating was so depressed and broke off getting married
She would always tell her son lies about what his girlfriend was up to or straight up insult the girl
And he has never questioned his mum,
The other day I was in their house and she said to me these words while he was doing something else “you’re not on the same standards as my son, he won’t marry you” I was so shocked I even told him and he said I probably misunderstood it or she didn’t really mean it
I respect Somali elders, so I didn’t say anything back but I gave myself an imaginary simulation of me punching her in the stomach

I told my mum about us possibly getting married and she said she’d stop talking to me if I married into that family
I’m more confused than @SOULSEARCHING

Recently, I got rejected by a reer xamar family coz apparently the father didn't want his daughter to marry a Faradheer.
I bounced like a bad check wallahi. My advice to me and u don't marry into a family that don't want you for whatever reason.

 

[Mehmet]

Sorry if your mom is evil you have. To be fair to your wife. Otherwise marry your mom instead.

No marriage that the mom is againist will never ever work and what does my mom got to do with this as lowdown somaliwomen are the problem for me since i hate lairs

 

[Mehmet]

Sorry if your mom is evil you have. To be fair to your wife. Otherwise marry your mom instead.

I am fair to everyone especially somaliwomen until disrespect starts

 

[Halimo-2018]

No marriage that the mom is againist will never ever work and what does my mom got to do with this as lowdown somaliwomen are the problem for me since i hate lairs

What are you talking about? Lol
I've seen cases were mother in-laws who request their sons to divorce their wife.they actually do divorce to please her.nothing is wrong with loving your mom we all do love out moms at same time you have barriers if. Mom doesn't know you have to take preventive measures without hurting mom or wife. I love moms that know their place giving their married sons space to run their own live.

 

[Mehmet]

What are you talking about? Lol
I've seen cases were mother in-laws who request their sons to divorce their wife.they actually do divorce to please her.nothing is wrong with loving your mom we all do love out moms at same time you have barriers if. Mom doesn't know you have to take preventive measures without hurting mom or wife. I love moms that know their place giving their married sons space to run their own live.

They must pick only one and move on with their lives

 

[HalimaJ]

Don't do it. You'll be stuck with a mommy's boy, who can't even look after his own household without his mommy running the show.

You need a man.

 

[Samaalic Era]

Don't do it. You'll be stuck with a mommy's boy, who can't even look after his own household without his mommy running the show.

You need a man.

Its amazing how all of a sudden single moms are no longer brave,strong and intelligent to these xalimos
@geeljire madaxweyne @Factz @Abdalla @Tukraq @Degmada waaberi @Mckenzie @Crow @Apollo @land owner @Libaaxseendheer

 

[HalimaJ]

Its amazing how all of a sudden single moms are no longer brave,strong and intelligent to these xalimos
@geeljire madaxweyne @Factz @Abdalla @Tukraq @Degmada waaberi @Mckenzie @Crow @Apollo @land owner @Libaaxseendheer

What does being a single mother have to do with anything. Is every single mother like this?

My mother in law is a single mother and she is normal.

Btw, I know a married woman who is a mother in law from hell. It is a character flaw.

 

[Tukraq]

He makes good money, no Somali is rich

What do you consider “rich”

 

[Umm-al-Dhegdheeriyaa]

What do you consider “rich”

Millionaires and people that are of the highest class

 

[Tukraq]

Millionaires and people that are of the highest class

millionaire as in making a million every year in income or a million in net worth?

 

[Umm-al-Dhegdheeriyaa]

millionaire as in making a million every year in income or a million in net worth?

Net worth