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You are takfir worthyWe are having convos about "should women marry at 11?" whilst this is the stuff we were on back then..
'91 was a mistake!
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You are takfir worthyWe are having convos about "should women marry at 11?" whilst this is the stuff we were on back then..
'91 was a mistake!
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I’m not taking about that, just the general procedure.I dont see any father who would give his kid to another old man, its usually gaajo poor families who sell off their children and pass it off as marriage
Look, you’re misunderstanding this completely. Nobody is making haram what Allah made halal. What you’re saying shows you don’t understand fiqh or siyasa shar’iyyah at all.Leaders should not do this. Quran says not to make the forbidden permissible, and the permissible forbidden.
Okay you are confusing specific cases with general cases. Marrying a specific woman may not be a good decision, but it does not mean she was necessarily haram to marry. There is a difference between ruling on a case by case basis, and ruling in a general and indiscriminate way. If a specific marriage causes fitna, it should be avoided, but that does not equate to ruling across a large and general way that is not concerned with specific cases.I’ll give you a clear example from the Sahabah. The Qur’an explicitly allows Muslim men to marry women from Ahl al Kitab. That’s not up for debate. Yet Umar ibn al Khattab, radiyallahu anhu, stopped the Companions from doing it when he saw the harm it was causing. He even wrote to Hudhayfah ibn al Yaman and told him to divorce his Jewish wife. Hudhayfah asked, “Do you declare her haram so that I must leave her?” Umar replied, “No, I do not say she is haram, but I fear harm for the ummah.”
Setting a minimum age has more to do with setting something artbitary rather than protecting anyone. The requirements for marriage are Puberty and financial maturity, which can be ruled by a judge and eliminates child marriage at large. It is better if these are the laws set, and then have a just judge rule on them.Setting a minimum marriage age is siyasa shar‘iyyah . It’s about maslahah. It’s about protecting nasl, nafs, and ‘aql. It’s about preventing harm. It doesn’t make marriage at younger ages haram in the sight of Allah. It simply sets a legal boundary to protect people from harm and injustice.