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[Cisse78]

Trust me, the "BBC" fetish thing is wild when you really encounter it as the recipient. They're on some shit. BUT, I will not remotely say that even most non-madow women who date madow men are like this. It's a minority subtype but it's some potent shit when you meet it is all I'll say.

its seems most of the time that its a lust thing and never actual genuine interest/love. But a lot of the madows fall for this and never realize it.

 

[Shimbiris]

its seems most of the time that its a lust thing and never actual genuine interest/love. But a lot of the madows fall for this and never realize it.

Exactly right. They don't see you. They see their weird lust image of you and the ways you satisfy it. Fetishes and paraphilias in general are a block to intimacy. The fetish is like a screen between you and your partner. It's not impossible to find love in that situation but it's a heck of a lot harder and less likely.

 

[Lightshow]

The NBA would disagree with u.
Not saying we all average 6ft 5, but a good amount of us are above average height.
Myself included.

On top of that we're muscular = win win combination.
What are u even saying? black men are fetishized worldwide.
It's not exactly a secret.

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The type of fetishization extended to black men is bordering on beastiality type mentality in my opinion. Those indulging in this behaviour call it "jungle fever" for a reason, and it's not a flattering one.

I remember overhearing some white coworkers talking about their conquest of black women and how the sexual dynamics differed to white women. Even though these guys were extremely crass, they were also intentionally censoring their darkest opinions due to the setting which was public.

 

[Cisse78]

Exactly right. They don't see you. They see their weird lust image of you and the ways you satisfy it. Fetishes and paraphilias in general are a block to intimacy. The fetish is like a screen between you and your partner. It's not impossible to find love in that situation but it's a heck of a lot harder and less likely.

Yeah, I think its also one of the main reasons the men who end up in these situation tend to leave. Because they realize after the baby is delivered, they never had a genuine connection with this said person and in a way don't way to raise a baby with a woman they had no love for /conceived from lust.

 

[Keep it a boqol]

He had a livestream he privated and he admitted he was on T this was years ago

 

[Gracias]

He had a livestream he privated and he admitted he was on T this was years ago

 

[OOScoe]

Not really siding with the crass way our sister was speaking of West-Africans but Aframs aren't "West-Africans", to be fair. There's an argument to be made that some sort of selection was going on with you guys in terms of the hardiest people surviving the arduous voyages and slave-owners probably sometimes "selective breeding" for lack of a better word. And most Aframs are at least 15-30% Northern European in ancestry which definitely would have an effect on y'all's average height.

Never looked up the stats but from my own life-experience, I was quite surprised to meet West-Africans on a regular basis in both the UAE and the USA and notice that they weren't all that tall on average at all. I'm about 184cm at my tallest—just a half inch over 6 ft—and most Nigerians and other West-Africans I've met over the years were visibly shorter than me. I'm actually struggling to remember meeting a single one that was taller than me. Maybe it's a nutrition thing, though. Who knows.



On this I fear I absolutely must agree with him. I've been in the West now for about 2 years and yes, walaashay, madow men are definitely fetishized on some level. I cannot recount to you how many times I went on a date with an cadaan or some other non-madow ethnicity that very clearly mostly dated or hooked up with madow men and had weird thoughts about "BBC" and all that. It happens more than you think. There's even a whole weird industry/subculture around it (madow personal trainer type men for rich cadaan women).

But I don't think the reasons for this fetishization are as flattering as our African brother thinks... most of these cadaan women are on some weird "attraction to the beastly savage" type bullshit. They stereotype you as big, muscular, manly and so on even when the madow guy in question isn't all that impressive in those regards. These types of women don't see you as fully human, even if only subconsciously.

Bra.. I get what u saying, but bra.
If we're not predominantly west Africans (genetically) than what are we?
It's true many of us have significant euro admixture - it's also true just as many of us don't, (95% + SSA) ESPECIALLY those of us from the southern US.

We're not a monolith at all.Never were.
If u placed a German shepherd in Italy does that make it an Italian shepherd?
The breeding argument is one yt supremacist routinely make to explain away us physically dominating them & their women. It did happen, just not nearly on the scale they want everyone to believe.
WA's from the continent are built just like us so I've always thought that argument was rooted in copeism.

Also, northern euros weren't really our enslavers.
The English, Irish, Spaniards & Joos were.
None of those groups are exactly known for their physical prowess.
Our phenotypes, tho mixed with a bunch of different WA groups is still quite literally, West African.

It probably is a nutrition thing.
I've seen u guys make the argument Somali's in the west on average are taller than those from the continent.

Makes sense to me.

 

[OOScoe]

The type of fetishization extended to black men is bordering on beastiality type mentality in my opinion. Those indulging in this behaviour call it "jungle fever" for a reason, and it's not a flattering one.

I remember overhearing some white coworkers talking about their conquest of black women and how the sexual dynamics differed to white women. Even though these guys were extremely crass, they were also intentionally censoring their darkest opinions due to the setting which was public.

Fetishization is fetishization.
The topic was attraction.
Being fetishized plays into that.
U don't develop fetishes over people u aren't attracted to.

The why's of the fetish is a completely different topic.
For some women it's the bbc myth.
For others it's our body type, skin tone,swag or hair type.
Different floats - different boats.

More than white women fetishize blacks so the dynamics of it all are way deeper than that.

I don't play in snow anymore so this conversation is beyond me.

 

[OOScoe]

I wish I was delusional like you and @OOScoe

Why are u & @Gracias so pressed about the laws of attraction around here?
U don't have to like us.
As a man I have no problem admitting another dude is handsome gang - why would I feel threatened by another niggas looks?

Ain't u a woman? How can u speak on the preferences of other groups of women?
Maybe they don't value what u do.

 

[Reformedlaais]

How can u speak on the preferences of other groups of women?

They overwhelmingly prefer yt men. You guys overestimate how you’re truly viewed.. cute/ sad at the same time.

 

[Gracias]

Why are u & @Gracias so pressed about the laws of attraction around here?
U don't have to like us.
As a man I have no problem admitting another dude is handsome gang - why would I feel threatened by another niggas looks?

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Ain't u a woman? How can u speak on the preferences of other groups of women?
Maybe they don't value what u do.

Not pressed. Most people prefer their own and everyone can be fetishized in a multiracial society like it’s no big deal/nothing to brag about

 

[OOScoe]

Not pressed. Most people prefer their own and everyone can be fetishized in a multiracial society like it’s no big deal/nothing to brag about

U actually beat me to saying the same thing I was about to hit @Reformedlaais with.
Most people do prefer their own,
whether u live in a multiracial society or not.

Not bragging about anything, just givin my feedback.Their are tiers of attraction black men most definitely aren't on the bottom of the totem pole whichever way u wanna slice it.

Let's not act like Somali men aren't grouped in with the rest of us when it comes to that type of attraction either



@Reformedlaais U couldn't possibly know that.Remember we're talking attraction not love/relationships.

Women usually conflate the 2

 

[hayran]

Turns out he never went to the gym and was just naturally muscular.

was he actually big or was he just lean?