Faraax From The UK Has Had Enough And Lets Out His Frustration

[Angelina]

As Somalis of old said, the devil you know, is better than the devil you don't know.

In the world that we live in, you get the good, bad and crazy. At least with a Farax (if you're unlucky enough to marry a bad or crazy one), generally speaking if he tries to abuse you, or take your kids away your parents and qabil can speak to his people. There is a point of contact, shared traditions and accountability. With ajnabis, what qabil or people can your mahrams speak to?!

 

[Chase]

I didn't laugh at the sister who is in pain, dumbo. The lady was giving out advice to other xalimos. I doubt you fully listened to the clip. Listen it again.

How the hell do you even find this sh!t? Lol

 

[Lostbox]

Why does he find himself the one overly religious girl and forget about the rest?

 

[Chase]

As Somalis of old said, the devil you know, is better than the devil you don't know.

In the world that we live in, you get the good, bad and crazy. At least with a Farax (if you're unlucky enough to marry a bad or crazy one), generally speaking if he tries to abuse you, or take your kids away your parents and qabil can speak to his people. There is a point of contact, shared traditions and accountability. With ajnabis, what qabil or people can your mahrams speak to?!

Yeah, but it's rare to come across scenarios like this, most Xalimos keep their kids, usually the Ajanabi guys are the ones to ditch the children and start a new life.

 

[Keep it a boqol]

Why does he find himself the one overly religious girl and forget about the rest?

Maybe he genuinely cares about the community which includes the women which he loves and wants to support?

 

[Jaydaan]

As Somalis of old said, the devil you know, is better than the devil you don't know.

In the world that we live in, you get the good, bad and crazy. At least with a Farax (if you're unlucky enough to marry a bad or crazy one), generally speaking if he tries to abuse you, or take your kids away your parents and qabil can speak to his people. There is a point of contact, shared traditions and accountability. With ajnabis, what qabil or people can your mahrams speak to?!

True, sadly too many women don’t take into account the family you marry into. I seen too many Somali girl present themselves into a family and marry a guy who has big family behind him. The family see she is in her own and if things don’t work out she is an east target to bully.

 

[Kreeper]

As Somalis of old said, the devil you know, is better than the devil you don't know.

In the world that we live in, you get the good, bad and crazy. At least with a Farax (if you're unlucky enough to marry a bad or crazy one), generally speaking if he tries to abuse you, or take your kids away your parents and qabil can speak to his people. There is a point of contact, shared traditions and accountability. With ajnabis, what qabil or people can your mahrams speak to?!

I never thought I would ever agree with you. Good point

 

[Jaydaan]

Maybe he genuinely cares about the community which includes the women which he loves and wants to support?

He should focus on his sisters, cousins and immediate family. Not every Somali is your kinfolk

 

[Aegon]

My

True, sadly too many women don’t take into account the family you marry into. I seen too many Somali girl present themselves into a family and marry a guy who has big family behind him. The family see she is in her own and if things don’t work out she is an east target to bully.

My mom has a friend in the UK whose daughter married a Pakistani, of course she forced the marriage with her parents and after 2 years wanted to divorce her because the guy was beating her, when he found out he threw acid on her the face

 

[Chase]

Maybe he genuinely cares about the community which includes the women which he loves and wants to support?

He's preaching to the choir, no point in appealing to someone who's made their choice, just comes across as calcaal. If anything, his message would likely piss them off even more.

 

[Kreeper]

True, sadly too many women don’t take into account the family you marry into. I seen too many Somali girl present themselves into a family and marry a guy who has big family behind him. The family see she is in her own and if things don’t work out she is an east target to bully.

It’s harsh but unless they’re your immediate family why do you care?

 

[Kreeper]

My

My mom has a friend in the UK whose daughter married a Pakistani, of course she forced the marriage with her parents and after 2 years wanted to divorce her because the guy was beating her, when he found out he threw acid on her the face

Who forced the marriage the Somali Hooyo?

 

[Angelina]

Yeah, but it's rare to come across scenarios like this, most Xalimos keep their kids, usually the Ajanabi guys are the ones to ditch the children and start a new life.

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[Keep it a boqol]

He's preaching to the choir, no point in appealing to someone who's made their choice, just comes across as calcaal. If anything, his message would likely piss them off even more.

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[Chase]

My

My mom has a friend in the UK whose daughter married a Pakistani, of course she forced the marriage with her parents and after 2 years wanted to divorce her because the guy was beating her, when he found out he threw acid on her the face

Don't you guys ever get tired from all this? Literally go outside, play some sport or light a joint, anything but this.

 

[Aegon]

Who forced the marriage the Somali Hooyo?

No the girl

 

[Kan'an]

Which woman?

 

[Jaydaan]

It’s harsh but unless they’re your immediate family why do you care?

I think too many Somalis are brought up with a sense of togetherness and we all one. That’s not how the real world works. You can’t save everyone. Focus on the few people nearest to you. Also the boy is weak, why make video and cry strangers? Even if you feel like this have some pride and don’t give them satisfaction of feeling important

 

[Keep it a boqol]

I think too many Somalis are brought up with a sense of togetherness and we all one. That’s not how the real world works. You can’t save everyone. Focus on the few people nearest to you. Also the boy is weak, why make video and cry strangers? Even if you feel like this have some pride and don’t give them satisfaction of feeling important

Nothing wrong with the collectiveness mentality. It’s literally how millions of our poor Somalis living back home have been surviving off of. I agree there’s some hive mind group think but I don’t think the togetherness is a bad thing

 

[Kreeper]

No the girl

Damn she still getting beaten?