That’s why it surprised me seeing you make another generic comment about loud xalimos and advocating for Abdi-exit. Thought you turned over a new leaf, love x
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Lmao nope! Abdi-exit means do not marry Somali women and that is not what I said. I said if you struggle to find a good Xalimo then marrying out is not a bad option because I'm tired of Somali guys complaining. I'm advising them to respect themselves. As for loud comments I wasn't talking about all Xalimos. I was talking about a specific group who are extremely loud and heard by politicians, news outlets and much more.
I'm still me. Just speaking the truth, that's it.
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strawberrii
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You must be around strange people if they are complaining about xalimos. Considering there are millions of xalimos, finding a so called good xalimo shouldn’t be hard. I noticed it’s mainly Canadian xalimos and faraxs complaining about each other on sspot. Must be tough for y’all
Also if it’s a minority that’s loud then again unnecessary to mention. If they are heard by politicians and news outlets, then I guess the news is slow in Canada..
You must be around strange people if they are complaining about xalimos. Considering there are millions of xalimos, finding a so called good xalimo shouldn’t be hard. I noticed it’s mainly Canadian xalimos and faraxs complaining about each other on sspot. Must be tough for y’all
Also if it’s a minority that’s loud then again unnecessary to mention. If they are heard by politicians and news outlets, then I guess the news is slow in Canada..
Easy there, it's not people around me it's people on this forum and they come from Britain, America and all over the world. Twitter has a strong presence of British Xalimos as well.
Even if you call them a minority. They are well heard and other Muslim communities don't be making much noise because they have better parents and a strong culture.
So a Canadian farax is a spokesman for British and American faraxs.
You should marry out then into those better communities you speak off.
So a Canadian farax is a spokesman for british and American faraxs.
You should marry out then into those better communities you speak off.
Spokesmen? I don't speak for anybody and no matter which country you live in. You're still ethnically Somali.
You twist my words more than twice now. Nobody said they are a better community. You just keep misunderstanding me. It's getting very tiring to have to explain to you again and again. Somalis as a community are not doing well and if you disagree then you're delusional. It's good we learn from other cultures like work-ethics, taking education seriously, having a sense of identity, being culturally strong and raising our children to be well behaved and well disciplined.
I'm married and I thought you already knew that? Anyways, have a good day.
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My bad. It’s normally unmarried people who make whiny comments like this. Married men and women focus on their own lives and don’t concern themselves about insignificant things. Good day to you too, sweet x
What I was saying made sense and it was actually for the betterment of our community. I wasn't whining one bit nor was I bashing. You just misunderstood where I was coming from. I like to call out the errors of our community so they can fix-up. I want Somalis to prosper and stay lowkey. You'll never improve if you don't acknowledge your issues and I wish Somalis would have that honest mentality.
The reality is the Somali community has serious problems that needs to be addressed. That is why I was using other communities as an example to improve. I'm not denying these other Muslim communities have their flaws but it would be lovely if Somalis could take a few good values from them. Sometimes it's easier to twist the message despite not coming across as negative.
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The only time I hear about Twitter is when I get on this forum and I barely get on here so no they didn't shake my faith, walaal. It's not like I said don't marry Somali women.
I was just advising them to find a good Xalimo first and if you can't then expand your options and find a submissive Muslim woman. Nothing wrong with that. I used to be anti-interracial until I met my cousin who married a submissive Arab woman. His children looked like Somalis just light skin versions and they knew their language, culture and lineage. They were raised right. I don't have a problem with Somali guys marrying out just as long as they are not culturally weak and not marrying out for their fetish but because of the character they love.
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No matter what. I believe in the preservation of multi-culturalism which means every culture should preserve their heritage. I just don't mind a small number marrying out because at the end of the day the world is globalizing and becoming more connected than ever so we are bound to see a few mix-bags and we just have embrace the reality. What is more important is teaching your kids their true identity and telling them to only bring an ethnic Somali man/woman to your house like other strong cultures would do.
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I got carried away by the good vibes and sentiments
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This brudda spitting @Factz
Faraaxs please dont marry someone who values anything else above the deen and daqhaan.
Couldnt agree more, I do think you can find good religious and cultured xalimoos, but it may depend on your city or what not. But in the case that you can't, dont just marry any somali sister, marry someone that shares your values, is on deen etc etc. It is overexagerated on twitter there are still plenty of well suitable good somali guys and girls in most communities. For the faraaxs, make sure to investigate this, I would say she dont even gotta be super sheikhaad, as long as she knows the minimum and is willing to improve deen and actually values it and is sincere.... for your own sakes somali brothers do not marry anyone who values liberal/feminist/any other ideology for that matter ABOVE the religion and culture. Lol just dont do it. Having said that there are good somali girls/guys you can find them at the mosques, community etc, and Allah has written who you will marry
Faraaxs please dont marry someone who values anything else above the deen and daqhaan.
Couldnt agree more, I do think you can find good religious and cultured xalimoos, but it may depend on your city or what not. But in the case that you can't, dont just marry any somali sister, marry someone that shares your values, is on deen etc etc. It is overexagerated on twitter there are still plenty of well suitable good somali guys and girls in most communities. For the faraaxs, make sure to investigate this, I would say she dont even gotta be super sheikhaad, as long as she knows the minimum and is willing to improve deen and actually values it and is sincere.... for your own sakes somali brothers do not marry anyone who values liberal/feminist/any other ideology for that matter ABOVE the religion and culture. Lol just dont do it. Having said that there are good somali girls/guys you can find them at the mosques, community etc, and Allah has written who you will marry
I am callin SJW police then
Nothing and no one can stop a woman when she’s in love. She’ll karbash the police and come for you.
