Faaraxs who got rizz, is it easier to shukaansi an ajnabi or a somali girl?

[𝕃𝕠𝕣𝕕 𝕋𝕙𝕣𝕖𝕤𝕙]

From my experience this picture accurately represents what its like to get to know a somali girl. Simple easy and straight forward.

While this picture shows all the struggle you'll got through for an ajnabi

 

[Ozymandias]

About the same, not all ajanabi or somali women are the same you know , there are some super sweet somali women and there are straight demonic qumayos

 

[Siddhartha]

It don't matter. Game is game

 

[𝕃𝕠𝕣𝕕 𝕋𝕙𝕣𝕖𝕤𝕙]

It don't matter. Game is game

Siddhartha did my thread revive you from the dead

You know your thread is about to become Plat when the guy who hasn't been active for years comes to drop a comment

 

[Siddhartha]

Siddhartha did my thread revive you from the dead

You know your thread is about to become Plat when the guy who hasn't been active for years comes to drop a comment

Well I don't post as much maybe come in once every couple months and see what's happening

 

[𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈]

From my experience this picture accurately represents what its like to get to know a somali girl. Simple easy and straight forward. View attachment 285815

While this picture shows all the struggle you'll got through for an ajnabi View attachment 285816

It might generational, but I think you might have got the images upside down with the maze applying to Xalimas. See, if I go out on a Fri. night, say to the West End of London, I could pull a bird, say for a one-night stand far quicker, and easier with the Ajaanib, mostly those of the pale hue than a nomad lady, which could take a life time, not that I would even contemplate, for there is that cardinal rule to observe: unless you are planning to tie the knot, you do not try to pull Xalima. I do not know about 'madow', for I have never been attracted to them, but from mates, who are into them, I hear they are in the same category as 'cadaans'.

Postscript:
At Uni, the easy lay were the 'timajilic' away from the prying eyes of their aunties, with even the Ires having a chance.

 

[Angelina]

It might generational, but I think you might have got the images upside down with the maze applying to Xalimas. See, if I go out on a Fri. night, say to the West End of London, I could pull a bird, say for a one-night stand far quicker, and easier with the Ajaanib, mostly those of the pale hue than a nomad lady, which could take a life time, not that I would even contemplate, for there is that cardinal rule to observe: unless you are planning to tie the knot, you do not try to pull Xalima. I do not know about 'madow', for I have never been attracted to them, but from mates, who are into them, I hear they are in the same category as 'cadaans'.

Postscript:
At Uni, the easy lay were the 'timajilic' away from the prying eyes of their aunties, with even the Ires having a chance.

You’re the same one who was talking about beating Xalimos in your community for putting a foot wrong and now you’re talking about your youth of getting it on with cadaans.

I’ll forever think a good subsection of the male gender have nothing but audacity. Clearly you weren’t beaten enough as a teen or taught good values. Where were the boys in your area to beat sense into you?

 

[𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈]

You’re the same one who was talking about beating Xalimos in your community for putting a foot wrong and now you’re talking about your youth of getting it on with cadaans.

That was not an admission of transgression on my part, was it?

Of course, it is an age old double standard. It is a man's world!

 

[Dharbash]

Ajnabi are easier to get, I don’t even prefer them over Somali women but courting Somali women is so stressed compared to a non Somali since there’s almost nothing you have in common anwyay.
There’s also more things to talk about. I’d probably find something about their culture interesting and want to bring it up, you don’t get that benefit with a Somali woman.

The hard to get attitude is also, from what I’ve seen, more prevalent with Somali women. Not that it’s a bad thing, just gotta be patient and some people don’t want to put in the work

 

[Angelina]

That was not an admission of transgression on my part, was it?

You clearly did as you’ve admitted that you have experiences with whites but not madows, but your friends do. That’s a clear example of admission. Also, birds of a feather flock together.

Of course, it is an age old double standard. It is a man's world!

You really can’t use your excuse ‘it’s a man’s world’ when your whole point of beating the youth was based on morality and sticking to our cultural and religious values.

Btw, women now do whatever they want in this day and age and can get your ass in jail for trying that nonsense. If you want women to behave themselves, then that can only happen through their own gumption and men sticking to what they preach. Morality for all and sticking to our religious beliefs for both genders is the only way. The days of your rampant hypocrisy muddled with tyranny are over. Stick to what you preach warya.

 

[𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈]

You clearly did as you’ve admitted that you have experiences with whites but not madows, but your friends do. That’s a clear example of admission. Also, birds of a feather flock together.

In a court of law, that was not an admission, and yours is conjecture derived from mere inference, and is not permissible.

You really can’t use your excuse ‘it’s a man’s world’ when your whole point of beating the youth was based on morality and sticking to our cultural and religious values.

See, I am not a 19 year old loitering street corners up to no good, but an adult, an imperfect one, I must admit. It would help if you could give your references their rightful context, lest misconstrued.

Postscript:
Were you not recently advocating for the community to stand up, and help each other? The same thing for which you were lambasting me?

Btw, women now do whatever they want in this day and age and can get your ass in jail for trying that nonsense. If you want women to behave themselves, then that can only happen through their own gumption and men sticking to what they preach. Morality for all and sticking to our religious beliefs for both genders is the only way. The days of your rampant hypocrisy muddled with tyranny are over. Stick to what you preach warya.

Aye aye walaal. Valid point. I do not fancy having my balls chopped off.

 

[Angelina]

In a court of law, that was not an admission, and yours is conjecture derived from mere inference, and is not permissible.

This isn’t a court of law. Just two people having a friendly debate. I’ve clocked you, no need to omit the truth. It is what it is.

See, I am not a 19 year old loitering street corners up to no good, but an adult, an imperfect one, I must admit. It would help if you could give your references their rightful context, lest misconstrued.

A kid loitering the streets is better than an adult admitting to committing or going near Zina.

Postscript:
Were you not recently advocating for the community to stand up, and help each other? The same thing for which you were lambasting me?

I’m lambasting you for your one sided takes on morality that only really includes women but not yourself when you’re engaging in the same behavior which will impact Somalis through illegitimate children, unmarriageable men and the list goes on and above all your spirituality.

Aye aye walaal. Valid point. I do not fancy having my balls chopped off.

I’m helping you now and this is my way of helping the community, practice what you preach. I’ve done my bit and your bit is not engage in one sided and performative morality. It doesn’t work and now that you’ve indirectly admitted to being ‘imperfect’ why the hell should a young Somali girl listen to you? Be worth listening to.That’s all that I’m asking.

 

[Somali_patriotic]

Personally as a known rizzler
It's definitely way easier to rizz up ajnabi women
Somali women are way too primitive but they're still beautiful tho

 

[𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈]

This isn’t a court of law. Just two people having a friendly debate. I’ve clocked you, no need to omit the truth. It is what it is.

Possibly. In all fairness, I had not engaged in any tawdry misdeeds in my teens, and do not make a habit of getting a leg over, as tempting as that might be in my travels, and try [operative] to be a 'good', worthy mere mortal; perfect, I am not.

A kid loitering the streets is better than an adult admitting to committing or going near Zina.

You would not say that had you have seen what is happening in some neighbourhoods in Minneapolis: drug peddling, teenage pregnancies, dropouts ( not as wide spread, but shockingly noticeable for a small conservative community), perhaps a conversation for another day.

I’m lambasting you for your one sided takes on morality that only really includes women but not yourself when you’re engaging in the same behavior which will impact Somalis through illegitimate children, unmarriageable men and the list goes on and above all your spirituality.

Actually, I do not hold that, and as imperfect as I am, I shall be the first to raise my hand, where I am wrong.

Do you notice how you are drawing an unproportionate comparison of influence and impact of men's misdeeds with, and against those of women? See, they are not quite the same, for the latter bears far greater impact than not. For example, with women, who are the cradle, and fabric of the family, and by extension the society, their misdeeds visit far greater devastation upon the family than those of men; this is not to discount, or minimise the damage men beget by their misdeeds, or relinguishing their responsibilities, yet as critical each is to a healthy family, and by extension society, the severity of destruction is not quite as proportionate: the former is far greater than the latter. Influence on, and impact of 'progeny' is a vital factor to consider. A society whose women lack morality or ethics, and go bad is bound to rot from the core, with no chance of recovery whereas a society whose men lack morality and ethics, and thereby doing bad collapses, with a possibility, even if slim of recovery. Could you fathom the state of our community, in the diaspora or back home, had Somali women had taken leave of their sanity, morality, and ethics the same way Somali men had? Ponder that for a second. Must dash to a meeting, and could continue a bit later.

I’m helping you now and this is my way of helping the community, practice what you preach. I’ve done my bit and your bit is not engage in one sided and performative morality. It doesn’t work and now that you’ve indirectly admitted to being ‘imperfect’ why the hell should a young Somali girl listen to you? Be worth listening to.That’s all that I’m asking.

Oh I thank you, my supreme lady!

 

[Angelina]

Possibly. In all fairness, I had not engaged in any tawdry misdeeds in my teens, and do not make a habit of getting a leg over, as tempting as that might be in my travels, and try [operative] to be a 'good', worthy mere mortal; perfect, I am not.

I do not make a habit? Are you admitting that you have engaged in it but haven’t made it into a regular thing?

You would not say that had you have seen what is happening in some neighbourhoods in Minneapolis: drug peddling, teenage pregnancies, dropouts ( not as wide spread, but shockingly noticeable for a small conservative community), perhaps a conversation for another day.

Teenage pregnancies? That happens precisely though Zina. Most Teen pregnancies I’ve heard and seen of with regards to Somali girls the father is indeed a Somali boy/man.

Actually, I do not hold that, and as imperfect as I am, I shall be the first to raise my hand, where I am wrong.

Do you notice how you are drawing an unproportionate comparison of influence and impact of men's misdeeds with, and against those of women?

Do you not see that men committing fornication are creating those women who cause devastation to their families? Who are those women sleeping with? Men. Who are those men sleeping with? Women. It takes two to tango. So are your whole argument about how it’s worse for women doesn’t hold up on a societal level.

See, they are not quite the same, for the latter bears far greater impact than not.

The latter cannot happen without the former. Women sleep with men and men sleep with women. Unless you’re talking about homosexuality, women’s ruin cannot happen without male Zina.

The act for both is equal because one cannot happen without the other. It’s basic common sense and only men riddled with misogyny cannot see that basic fact.

For example, with women, who are the cradle, and fabric of the family, and by extension the society, their misdeeds visit far greater devastation upon the family than those of men;

this is not to discount, or minimise the damage men beget by their misdeeds, or relinguishing their responsibilities, yet as critical each is to a healthy family, and by extension society, the severity of destruction is not quite as proportionate: the former is far greater than the latter. Influence on, and impact of 'progeny' is a vital factor to consider.

Again, I’ll repeat what I wrote in the paragraph above. Are those men still not sleeping with the very women who are damaging their families? Are those men not still creating a trail of broken families and illegitimate children?

I can easily twist your argument to suggest it’s worse. Why? Because one man can impregnate hundreds of women and upon his wreckage can ruin society a lot more than one woman who can only be impregnated by one man. A man can create thousands of illegitimate fatherless and tribeless children thus ruining society.

Also, STIs don’t discriminate and in the Somali community, most cases of HIV are because of men who think they can sleep around and then bring it to their wives. I’m sure you’ve heard of the cases of men working in other Sub-Saharan countries and then going back to Somalia.

Your mentality is due to unchecked misogyny. A clever man like yourself is so consumed by a lack of accountability of your gender that you automatically forget the dire issues of Zina of men. I get that you’re saying that it’s bad for men but worse for women, but it’s common sense to know that if men commit Zina then obviously women will be their partners in crime. You can’t have one and not the other.

Also, going back to the points I made earlier, a man sleeping around would be sleeping around with the sisters of other men thus breaking the household of other men hence ruining society. When you downplay men’s Zina and thus normalize it, what makes you think your sisters and cousins are safe? Are those men not going to try it on women outside of his family?

A society whose women lack morality or ethics, and go bad is bound to rot from the core, with no chance of recovery whereas a society whose men lack morality and ethics, and thereby doing bad collapses, with a possibility, even if slim of recovery.

How can such a society recover? Who are these men sleeping with? Are they gay? Are they sleeping with each other? Do you see how you lack any form of common sense? In ancient societies in which average women were virgins whilst men slept around those were societies in which Prostitution and homosexuality was rampant and seen as a necessary evil. Is that what you advocate? Because you can’t have immoral men without creating a subsection or class of immoral women. That’s what happens when you only police women. There is a reason why Islam has strict hadd laws for both men and women.

It’s clear to me you haven’t thought properly about what you’re saying.

Could you fathom the state of our community, in the diaspora or back home, had Somali women had taken leave of their sanity, morality, and ethics the same way Somali men had? Ponder that for a second. Must dash to a meeting, and could continue a bit later.

Oh I thank you, my supreme lady!

Men for the most part are the leaders of society and back home despite their being a bit of debauchery here and there, most men for the most part are virgins upon marriage. We don’t have a culture of men thinking it’s acceptable to sleep around if they did many girls wouldn’t be virgins as who are they going to sleep with? Once that thinking becomes rampant, society will be destroyed like Ancient Rome or Greece. Like I said, there is a reason why Islam has a 0 tolerance for men’s Zina as well and why you’d be whipped and stoned in dunya as well. Man’s world or not.

 

[Odious Delirium]

@Angelina @𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈
What has objectively a worse impact on society as a whole promiscuity of men or women?

 

[Angelina]

@Angelina @𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈
What has objectively a worse impact on society as a whole promiscuity of men or women?

Both. One cannot happen without the other which is why I think men who yapp on about how it’s worse for women aren’t the brightest. Are men gay? Are they engaging in homosexuality? Who are these men sleeping with? You can’t separate an act that takes two unless you believe in creating a class of women who there to be used by men, AKA prostitution.

Also, another point that people conveniently forget is that one male Zani can cause more damage than one female Zani. One man can impregnate 1000s of women and create a whole mini village of illegitimate children with no father.

 

[Odious Delirium]

Both. One cannot happen without the other which is why I think men who yapp on about how it’s worse for women aren’t the brightest. Are men gay? Are they engaging in homosexuality? Who are these men sleeping with? You can’t separate an act that takes two unless you believe in creating a class of women who there to be used by men, AKA prostitution.

Ok next question how does the promiscuity of men affect women if at all in your opinion and how does the promiscuity of women affect men if at all in your opinion?

 

[Angelina]

Ok next question how does the promiscuity of men affect women if at all in your opinion and how does the promiscuity of women affect men if at all in your opinion?

What are you getting at? In terms of promiscuous behavior in a marriage? The way adultery impacts men is different to how it impacts women. But Islamically, the kid of a married female adulterer unless the husband engages in L’iaan is still the husband’s. The male Zani gets nothing. Hence even then, the child is still considered to be from the marriage bed.

 

[Odious Delirium]

What are you getting at? In terms of promiscuous behavior in a marriage? The way adultery impacts men is different to how it impacts women. But Islamically, the kid of a married female adulterer unless the husband engages in L’iaan is still the husband’s. The male Zani gets nothing. Hence even then, the child is still considered to be from the marriage bed.

No I'm talking soically in general muslim and non Muslims alike. I saw this tt the other day and thinking about the convo yesterday about the different relationship dynamics has made me see things in this context with more nuance.