It an old system that one party benefit. Does sound like something worth investing in.People are out here giving out cars/houses as mehrr and some are complaining about 3k :siilaanyolaugh:
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It an old system that one party benefit. Does sound like something worth investing in.People are out here giving out cars/houses as mehrr and some are complaining about 3k :siilaanyolaugh:
I'm a motherfucking man, i will take care of my god damn children yaa ahlul ximaar!
Go to work and save money for your damn "security blanket". I got my own security blanket for me and my children
Shitliimos want to spend their salary on shisha and shaah and force us innocent hardworking men to pay for everything!
Tuug tuug dhashay!
I'm a motherfucking man, i will take care of my god damn children yaa ahlul ximaar!
Go to work and save money for your damn "security blanket". I got my own security blanket for me and my children
Shitliimos want to spend their salary on shisha and shaah and force us innocent hardworking men to pay for everything!
Tuug tuug dhashay!
it's a question of chicken vs the egg.
I can ask u the same question, if u want the man to pay for everything, are u willing to assume a real wive's role, cooking, cleaning, tending to every single one of ur husband's needs without qaylo?
According to Jafari Fiqh Mahr is her right, to which her husband remains indebted unless woman forgive it (for example in case of Khul divorce or Mubarat divorce)
And should be paid in any situation and even can be asked to be paid legally by sue. Unless the woman forgive it willingly. But this may depend on laws of each country. For example in Iran the amount of meher is registered in marriage document as a legal document and the woman can sue husband for not paying it before or after the divorce. It is like any other legal debt.
Islam recommends to meher be paid as soon as possible even if no divorce happen as well as any other debt. There are some Hadith saying remaining under debt is Makrook (disliked by Islam).
I don't know how mehr worksI dont understand this.
You pay the mehr if you divorce. When that isnt the case and the husband dies he leaves them everything he owns not just the 3k. Nobody gon ask a dead man for mehr
On top of the 10k?It an old system that on party benefit. Does sound like something worth investing in.
I like the way you thinkaccording to this a woman can ask for her mehr AFTER the divorce but because debt is looked down upon in islam as one's time on earth is not guaranteed it's recommend to pay it as soon possible but yes she can demand money after the divorce and its her RIGHT to receive such payment provided you have agreed upon it before you both entered into the marriage , its not that deep tbh i feel when a girl has found a guy she truly wants to be with she wouldn't burden him more than he can handle......i hope.
I don't know how mehr works
I don't expect 20k mehr, bring whatever you can afford. You will however sign a piece of paper that says everything I make its my money and everything you make is our money. The day you start to get curious about my income, I will slap that paper in your face.
As for the mehr bring on 500 if you want
What will I get for paying that?On top of the 10k?
I don't expect 20k mehr, bring whatever you can afford. You will however sign a piece of paper that says everything I make its my money and everything you make is our money. The day you start to get curious about my income, I will slap that paper in your face.
As for the mehr bring on 500 if you want
Nacalaa I misread what you wrote. If we make the same amount both of what we make is OUR money. Let's be serious for a moment.I don't expect 20k mehr, bring whatever you can afford. You will however sign a piece of paper that says everything I make its my money and everything you make is our money. The day you start to get curious about my income, I will slap that paper in your face.
As for the mehr bring on 500 if you want
I wouldn't mind putting down £10k if she was worth it. Trouble is, most Somali females aren't worth even a quarter of that.
No intelligent female would ask you to break the bank on a meher and wedding.
What's the highest you'd payWhat will I get for paying that?
It doesn't have to be 50/50, in fact actions and work can never be 50/50. One person will be doing more than other. I just think somali culture doesn't put any responsibility on women when it comes to marriage. She'll get married without having spent a penny and that's a problem.Ive never said I want the man to pay for everything though. I just believe the traditional roles are the prime roles, obviously they should help eachother out in those things. I just think 50/50 is strange and not even realistic.