10k isnt much of a safety net tho... are we judging women who want to assure they'll be financially stable.£10k of the queens money max. If she wants more then she ain't the one
Btw I think most women don't understand the true purpose of a Mehr and how it is a safety net in case the marriage falls apart.
If a woman is already thinking of the fact that the relationship isn't going to work by demanding more than that then there is no point. It's called a self-fulfilling prophecy. It shouldn't the 10k it should be relative to how much a man makes. If a dude earns 45k and his wife to be makes the same she shouldn't demand 25k cos that's more than 50% of his yearly income. It should be relative.10k isnt much of a safety net tho... are we judging women who want to assure they'll be financially stable.
3k take it or leave it ya suugo smelling donkey!
Yaa ahlul ximaar!
Bbbut i need a safety net baqbaqbaq
Go get a job and save your money ! Safety net my ass
The audacity
10k?!
True but many of us are realistic people ya digg...If a woman is already thinking of the fact that the relationship isn't going to work by demanding more than that then there is no point. It's called a self-fulfilling prophecy. It shouldn't the 10k it should be relative to how much a man makes. If a dude earns 45k and his wife to be makes the same she shouldn't demand 25k cos that's more than 50% of his yearly income. It should be relative.
I think the safety net is for stuff like if something was to happen to you unexpectedly. Are you okay with leaving ur fam 3k3k take it or leave it ya suugo smelling donkey!
Yaa ahlul ximaar!
Bbbut i need a safety net baqbaqbaq
Go get a job and save your money ! Safety net my ass
The audacity
10k?!
Yh bit in the modern day there isn't so much of a need for a "safety net" as in the old days. I'm the past a woman in Somalia had no wealth whatsoever so it made complete sense to give her and her family 100 or so camels. Asking for 20k is just a drag and a waste of time. You'll have to be making atleast 80k to spend that much on a Mehr which a huge portion of young men don't make if we're being a realist too.True but many of us are realistic people ya digg...
That's understandable which is why I think if there's real feelings involved both parties would be willing to compromise. Are there actually people out there who fight over mehr cuz I only see that shit online.Yh bit in the modern day there isn't so much of a need for a "safety net" as in the old days. I'm the past a woman in Somalia had no wealth whatsoever so it made complete sense to give her and her family 100 or so camels. Asking for 20k is just a drag and a waste of time. You'll have to be making atleast 80k to spend that much on a Mehr which a huge portion of young men don't make if we're being a realist too.
I think the safety net is for stuff like if something was to happen to you unexpectedly. Are you okay with leaving ur fam 3k
When you get married it's a process of becoming one so that safety net of yours is also hersWell she better work her ass off and build her own safety net before marriage bc i got mine
Never marry a xaliimo unless she has 20k in her bank account
Wait a minute
I'm a god damn genius!
I think i just solved this problem
Thats right es, build ya own god damn safety net
Yh if she isn't willing to compromise then she ain't the one. That's my motto. There are women who see Mehr as a a come up and compete with friends and family in who can get the highest Mehr. It's a real issue in the community. I can't take a woman seriously if she prioritises the amount of the Mehr over other factors of a marriage.That's understandable which is why I think if there's real feelings involved both parties would be willing to compromise. Are there actually people out there who fight over mehr cuz I only see that shit online.
Yes they dodo xalimos in the west also ask for mehr ? I haven't heard such practices like that in the US
When you get married it's a process of becoming one so that safety net of yours is also hers
true thatWell she better work her ass off and build her own safety net before marriage bc i got mine
Never marry a xaliimo unless she has 20k in her bank account
Wait a minute
I'm a god damn genius!
I think i just solved this problem
Thats right es, build ya own god damn safety net
But if you're already expecting your husband to be an Ashy Abdi then why marry him in the first place? And wouldn't it be better to put the money in buying a house or something more worthwhile?Just because your reer baadiye mothers were worth less doesn't mean we have to compromise. The world is changing. You can't do anything with 5k or even 10k. You can't even start a business for your children once the useless Ashy Abdi husband kicks the bucket. Do you even want dowry means? Dowry is for the woman incase the husband dies, that's her security blanket for her and the kids. All these talks about 5k take it or leave it, think about your future children, you incompetent piglets.
P.s
I might have went too far with the reer baadiye mother. Ooopsies.