NordicSomali
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You’re not wrong, people back home think we’re rich with tons of money.
Don't get married back home don't let them lie to you
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Bro I was arguing with this Somali man he was like Somali abroad r stingy I said you don't know what we go threw since how we stingy who sends who money cos when I'm in Somali or Kenya dahabshil or any bank I see them picking up money when I'm abroad north america Europe or middle east when I go Somali banks I see Somali sending money so how r we stingy he like bro we got no money I was bullish you got money house business car you still begging abroad what's wrong with you he went quiet how come you don't help your community vice verse so u don't depend us he went quiet again I was like you guys living good of are back but soon new generation will come and stop all this old generation problem and that's what you seeing now 20-35 both gender r fleeing the country their is no one abroad funding they bad habits
Yaraye
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wtf?! who even gets up at 7 am?!
poor xalimo from back home about to be tortured!
Odious Delirium
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Nothing wrong with marrying a halimo from back home just pick right like you already have to when it comes to picking the right one in the west.
Its only an issue if you go into it blind expecting everyone to be Angels.
It's technically easier to find out about back home halimos since the network is larger and more efficient so you can get a better background check done with the help of family. Going into it blind with misconceptions about them is the issue.
Its only an issue if you go into it blind expecting everyone to be Angels.
It's technically easier to find out about back home halimos since the network is larger and more efficient so you can get a better background check done with the help of family. Going into it blind with misconceptions about them is the issue.
I think he's generalising and demonising girls from back home too much, there are innocent and modest somali women in both the west and Somalia just like how there are gold-digging balaayo qumayos in the west and Somalia. At the end it all depends on the woman and her demeanor/intentions with you.
I see where u coming with the background but have to ask yourself do those women or your relative do they know you I don't think so if they want they get you girl to marry take everything that belongs to you before and after or what you will get from your parent inheritance so I'm asking do you think they got your best interest in mind even those abroad relative r trying destroy you what makes you think your uncle aunty cousin in Somali will have your back since they lived of your parent you don't think they do it to you gullible miskeen
I'm not demonizing no one I'm stating all this back home r feminine back home r religious is not all true that in the west Somali r rude not religious is all crap too
I see more religious more feminine women in the west then I see in Somali genuine men in west then back home that's all I'm saying
At this rate @Waa dhamatay you gonna have to trademark the slogan and release T shirts bruh. Way dhamataaay for a LOT of guys in the near future
Lol who are the females gonna go for then
Who is selling class A drugs in somali
Who is making teen kill each other here and abroad
U think father in the house let his miss sell or tell his son to go kill
This is greed that is causing this problem we see back home
It's doomed so want me to lie and say your right west bad home is good then y u in the west y r more people not leaving west compare to coming west u kno y
Who is making teen kill each other here and abroad
U think father in the house let his miss sell or tell his son to go kill
This is greed that is causing this problem we see back home
It's doomed so want me to lie and say your right west bad home is good then y u in the west y r more people not leaving west compare to coming west u kno y
Hotchick12
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Why are you trying to ruin the bag for halimos back home, I have three cousins that are being financed back home, this is an income stream you are trying to take from my family
I'm not taking nothin I'm say don't believe the hype back home is not greener on the other side I forgot its sand what I'm trying say don't push this narrative and deceive the men and women abroad even in Islam doesn't allow it so you go against allah specially in marriage.. Let's be honest for once marriage is supposed be two people with good intentions to marry each other not what we seeing now all this problem can be avoided if people were honest in the beginning u got women marrying men they don't want punishing him and kids n vice verse for what because is culture
Zo206
Zoobandz aka Leech (Yungin in Charge)
Naw
Naw I need my food on the table by 8am at the very leastwtf?! who even gets up at 7 am?!
poor xalimo from back home about to be tortured!
TekNiKo
Loyal To The One True Caliph (Hafidahullah)
Can we stop the childish behavior of judging people based on their geographical location? Character is an individual thing and has nothing to do with where one is born. We’re all Somali for flip sake.
As for the finances, if you do marry from back home then yes, you will be expected to fully provide everything but how b**** made do you have to be as a man to complain about providing when that is your job and the cost of living is low there? If her parents are very poor then yes the decent thing to do is all so give them money and it won’t be a lot. That’s your children’s grandparents at the end of the day. Doing your homework helps by marrying a middle class woman. Then you don’t have to go through this.
As for the finances, if you do marry from back home then yes, you will be expected to fully provide everything but how b**** made do you have to be as a man to complain about providing when that is your job and the cost of living is low there? If her parents are very poor then yes the decent thing to do is all so give them money and it won’t be a lot. That’s your children’s grandparents at the end of the day. Doing your homework helps by marrying a middle class woman. Then you don’t have to go through this.
This not halimo posting I kno u hate the west Somali but u r west remember all I'm saying
Tell that to the locals Somali fleeing in boats
Why should you provide for the to grand parent from back home but not the grand parents from abroad
And don't tell me the back needs and abroad don't we r both in economical crisis
why should the halimo from west get nothing live of welfare and back home get everything
make it make sense
Then talk to me
the skreets.
There's alot of shy, obedient and good Somali women where you are. They are not like the ones online and Tiktok. You don't need to get one back home. A regular Somali men can get a trophy wife here. Don't worry.
