Don't get married back home don't let them lie to you
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All I'm saying let the abroad marry each other and back home marry each other less confusing you can see in interracial relationship how trouble it is why would you do that to yourself and kids... At least is shame for parent to get involved in marriage abroad but here they in your business try send their kids to live with you even though they don't do that ish or say ish to local cos dey know they finished he can remarry the next day or despair say I got nothing give me my kids and they give it to him cos the female is horny on the next man and his house to destroy why think Somali looks like how it is no stable women to build house or nation with
No one hurt me I'm just telling what's happening down from people experience here for you to understand is not all that
That's all
Marry a Xalimo from backhome and you’ll wake up 7am to the smell of dalac bilaash and canjeero. Marry a western Xalimo and you’ll wake up 7am alone in bed, because your wife is a nurse and went to work 2 hours ago. If your wife is from backhome and you come to your house after work at 5PM, the house is clean and food is on the table. If she’s western one, she’s asleep when you come from work because she has night shift.
Btw the money she is making, you won’t see it. She’ll quote some ahadeeth and say your money is ours, her money is hers.
Btw the money she is making, you won’t see it. She’ll quote some ahadeeth and say your money is ours, her money is hers.
Odious Delirium
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Don't marry a halimo that works then or make her quit to marry you if she cares she'll put a side her career if she doesn't move on.
(Not all halimos in the west are about that career life)
Provided you can provide for her on your single income and there is no hadeeth were your money belongs to her she's just entitled to provision from you while your not entitled to that from her.
Been too both if so u kno they got maid to cook for them and clean the house if she poor she out their working in market or selling tea don't the men wake up early go work 6am and come back 9am for breakfast and take nap during lunch go back to work till 9pm get to eat dinner oh the house is dirt that's y they got maid remember oh if they don't give her money everyday since they get paid everyday there is problem they don't think long term they think short oh lying about her money u don't get nothin from back home she lives off you where the men back abroad live of women stop lying
Don’t get me wrong, it is the sole responsibility of the husband to provide for his household. I just don’t get Xalimos that work and don’t contribute financially. The husband isn’t getting his rights from his wife as he has to share her with her work and he isn’t getting the financial benefits as well. 90% of Xalimos that work, spend 80% of their money on their welfare-getting parents.
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5 am is standard waking up time. Maybe you are young and go to school but for adults, 5am-6am is standard.wtf?! who even gets up at 7 am?!
poor xalimo from back home about to be tortured!
That’s one long sentence Abaayo
Xalimos back home married to Western Somali men have life on easy mode. It’s the norm for back home for wives that can afford it to have maids and for them. There is no reason for them to break their backs. It’s simple economy, you lot here cannot afford to be full providers for Western women and actually provide them with the help they need to raise many kids.
As for Western Xalimos they also spend their money it on themselves and their kids. Most men in the West cannot afford to be sole provider. Even if she isn’t contributing to major bills she’s still chipping in on grocery, is buying her own clothes, hygiene products and phone bills and is paying for kids clothes and educational books. Such a man is at least saving $1500 dollars a month. As a man when you provide you’re meant to provide everything to the standards she was raised in and in this economy you lot can’t do that. You stupidly don’t take into account the until you lot can pay all the bills, her clothes, her expenses and everything, you don’t have a leg to stand on.
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Odious Delirium
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I don't either which is why I ain't marrying one unless it's part time and she ain't career focused or just something less intensive in general. If she can't fulfil her duties as a wife why marry her.
How much do you think a man needs in the UK to be able to a sole provider without the wife having financial problems? Such as having to do without basics or a drop in quality life.
I’m curious to see what you think?
What's with the abaayo u got problem with abaayos abroad Im not female for the 100x I real don't give a flying u kno what back home or abroad from both side I kno there is a mess but to label one group above the other just to make other jealous is wrong bring fact and statistics to back up your stories anyone with eyes can see what's happening don't let those passport bro lie to you
Who cares, men who are born in the west are unlikely to marry from back home anyways, most of my boys are interested in women who are in their circles, a few married ajaanibs, isku dhaqan ma nihin horta, waxyaabo qaarkood baan iska kala duwanahayn. It's getting peak though, cos we're losing our identity fast
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Has to be 100k+ for US/UK/West
There are lazy people everywhere. You never met someone who was willing to do that for you.
Raganimo muji wajibaadkaada gudo trust me naag kaa danbeyso that's really into you will do more than that with a big smile on her face
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