Don't get married back home don't let them lie to you

[Abdalla]

Xalimos back home married to Western Somali men have life on easy mode. It’s the norm for back home for wives that can afford it to have maids and for them. There is no reason for them to break their backs. It’s simple economy, you lot here cannot afford to be full providers for Western women and actually provide them with the help they need to raise many kids.

As for Western Xalimos they also spend their money it on themselves and their kids. Most men in the West cannot afford to be sole provider. Even if she isn’t contributing to major bills she’s still chipping in on grocery, is buying her own clothes, hygiene products and phone bills and is paying for kids clothes and educational books. Such a man is at least saving $1500 dollars a month. As a man when you provide you’re meant to provide everything to the standards she was raised in and in this economy you lot can’t do that. You stupidly don’t take into account the until you lot can pay all the bills, her clothes, her expenses and everything, you don’t have a leg to stand on.

Your husband never woke up to the smell of dalac bilaash in the morning. You have no perspective.

 

[Angelina]

Your husband never woke up to the smell of dalac bilaash in the morning. You have no perspective.

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[Kalsoon]

Don't do it you. You just ATM machine to those women. Even the local are having trouble with the Somali women back home most of their marriage last less then 1 year with you abroad 3-5 year max they not wife material back home they are known for getting married divorce married divorce
the local ends up not paying her nothin taken the kids away where as you they force you to pay for not your children but her family children her future husband kids once he leave them too man
your kids will hate you but once they get old expect you finance them is not worth it plus you hear stories of men and women bring their spouse how they turn on them it's not worth it too much headache even though the system is not there to destroy is your family and her family that will

Some people only learn through experience

 

[Abdalla]

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[kulane]

Marrying in Somalia wouldn't be bad if the majority of females there were chaste and religious. But they are not, so that's the problem. Sometimes they behave worse than some gaalo women. Just awful.

 

[LEThimCOOK]

If she’s not bringing me farxal with my meal, I don’t want it

 

[Yaraye]

@Yaraye I am not dissing nurses, but you nurses are difficult people

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[Odious Delirium]

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[Bari🐍]

Marrying in Somalia wouldn't be bad if the majority of females there were chaste and religious. But they are not, so that's the problem. Sometimes they behave worse than some gaalo women. Just awful.

I know for a fact you haven't stepped foot in the country. You're in your mother's basement slandering millions of women based off tiktok. You really said that the majority of Somali women back home are not virgins or religious, what a loser you are to so blatantly lie

 

[Yaraye]

5 am is standard waking up time. Maybe you are young and go to school but for adults, 5am-6am is standard.

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[Abdalla]

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become stay at home mum like @Angelina

 

[kulane]

I know for a fact you haven't stepped foot in the country. You're in your mother's basement slandering millions of women based off tiktok. You really said that the majority of Somali women back home are not virgins or religious, what a loser you are to so blatantly lie

What ? I think it's you who hasn't visited Somalia lately. For a muslim country Somalia is very liberal sexually. Both genders hang out with each other and touch each other in public. Your average western somali person is way more shy and timid compared to people living in Somalia. Sad to burst your bubble but that's the truth.

 

[Bari🐍]

What ? I think it's you who hasn't visited Somalia lately. For a muslim country Somalia is very liberal sexually. Both genders hang out with each other and touch each other in public. Your average western somali person is way more shy and timid compared to people living in Somalia. Sad to burst your bubble but that's the truth.

What are you talking about, I lived in Qardho/Boosaaso for a few years and I visit frequently. You nasty degenerates are now trying to say Somalia is a "sexually liberal" country authibillah. Go seek help you pervert.

 

[Abdalla]

My friend went back home to marry a young Xalimo. He sends me every now and then a video of how his diner table looks like when he arrives from work.

‘War Cabdallow meeshaa kasoo carar’ That’s what he always says when he sends me the video. This is just a regular Wednesday

Everything is ready, the only thing that is not ready is tea which will be made on the spot because ‘I like my tea hot’ ( his literal wording)

 

[Yaraye]

My friend went back home to marry a young Xalimo. He sends me every now and then a video of how his diner table looks like when he arrives from work.

‘War Cabdallow meeshaa kasoo carar’ That’s what he always says when he sends me the video. This is just a regular Wednesday

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Everything is ready, the only thing that is not ready is tea which will be made on the spot because ‘I like my tea hot’ ( his literal wording)

Mashallah, it looks gorgeous. They must be newlyweds or not have children

 

[LEThimCOOK]

My friend went back home to marry a young Xalimo. He sends me every now and then a video of how his diner table looks like when he arrives from work.

‘War Cabdallow meeshaa kasoo carar’ That’s what he always says when he sends me the video. This is just a regular Wednesday

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Everything is ready, the only thing that is not ready is tea which will be made on the spot because ‘I like my tea hot’ ( his literal wording)

What a lucky bastard

 

[Abdalla]

Mashallah, it looks gorgeous. They must be newlyweds or not have children

They’re married 5 years now. She bore him 3 kids. He married her when she was 17.

As I said that’s a regular Wednesday for him.

What a lucky bastard

No buuq. No drama. No gaajo.

 

[Dualke]

They’re married 5 years now. She bore him 3 kids. He married her when she was 17.

As I said that’s a regular Wednesday for him.




No buuq. No drama. No gaajo.

Did he grow up in the west?
Is she from the baadiyo or urban?

 

[Abdalla]

What ? I think it's you who hasn't visited Somalia lately. For a muslim country Somalia is very liberal sexually. Both genders hang out with each other and touch each other in public. Your average western somali person is way more shy and timid compared to people living in Somalia. Sad to burst your bubble but that's the truth.

That’s bullshit. I went backhome once and saw this dime in Garowe. We had eye contact for a while. Like a ciyaal suuq I winked at her and she yelled ‘YAHUU’.

I kept moving.

 

[Abdalla]

Did he grow up in the west?
Is she from the baadiyo or urban?

Yes, grew up here. He has a good job, university degree. She’s from urban.