Do you think it's okay to date?

Would you date?


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Gambar

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I wont bullshit you and tell you i havent dated because of Islam. I just dont find most girls attractive. As in i find most girls physically attractive but its stops there. I hate small talk and family gatherings. I couldn't date a girl because of all the bullshit that comes attached. As in: going out together, meeting family members...
With Islam, i try to follow the salafi methodology. May Allah guide us all.
Are you cold?
 

Noir

Isaaq Elitist
Currently the nr1 reason why so many Muslim youth join Islamic terrorist groups is the promise to rape all woman of any age freely:idontlike:.
Can Muslim men get anymore pathetic?:snoop:

Poor the few brainwashed sisters who join them believing they are equal to men and then get gangbanged.Islam isn't for woman.:faysalwtf:
 

fox

31/12/16 - 04/04/20
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That is every MUSLIM male.:ayaanswag:There is a reason why most Islam leavers are woman.Its a religion made for men with abnormale behaviors or ugly as f*ck guys...how else can they get woman:mahubowtf:
Everyday i thank the west for existing and bringing empowerment to all woman around the world:samwelcome:
You could say abnormal:lolbron:I was diagnosed with aspergers when i was 7.
Are you cold?
Dont think so. I can easily hold a conversation.
 

paramedic

Call me ayeeyo
Currently the nr1 reason why so many Muslim youth join Islamic terrorist groups is the promise to rape all woman of any age freely:idontlike:.
Can Muslim men get anymore pathetic?:snoop:

Poor the few brainwashed sisters who join them believing they are equal to men and then get gangbanged.Islam isn't for woman.:faysalwtf:

Okay Jimothy we get it, you're an atheist.
 

Zeus

STYLIN
Dating is haram and leads to zina. It doesn't matter if it's in a public place either, you'll be tempted to slip off your shoes when having dinner and tickle her vag with your toes.
 

Noir

Isaaq Elitist
Somali guys in the West may as well be non-pork eating normal guys.

But tell me, has one hurt you that bad?
Good for you sistah:siilaanyosmile:
Nope,I'm just informing sisters out of the good of my heart,I guess?:ayaanswag: Just dont like to see female muslims in general.:hillarybiz: Its so stupid how they worship the most misogynistic piece of literature.:liberaltears:
 

TooMacaan

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It seems that I have a different definition of dating and arranged marriage.

So then for Somalis, what IS dating? My crew had a lot of Pakistanis and their idea of arranged marriage is just a short meeting with the guy your parents chose for you.

For Somalis, arranged marriage is more of a suggestion your parents or relatives made about a person, and then with your mahram you meet up with them a couple of times to discuss your compatability.

So then dating for you is just doing that but without the Mahram?
Yea, basically; the whole Mahram thing is too awkward for me.
As for what I consider the concept of "dating" to be, it would depend on what I was looking for I guess (i.e. what stage of life I'm in). If I was allowed to date in my teens, I obviously wouldn't be doing it with the intention of marriage but I'd still be preparing myself for future 'marriage life': understanding my boundaries, knowing what kind of personality I'm compatible with, knowing what I want/don't want in relationships [some things require first hand experience], being comfortable around non-Mahram men, developing communication skills in an intimate relationship setting, non s-xual romantic enjoyment/companionship, etc.

Also, dating doesn't necessarily have to be exclusive...you can date multiple guys simultaneously in order to cut the "interview" time and narrow down the serious options. And personally, I'd want to live with the person for at least a year as well before I make "forever" vows. Meeting a couple times is not enough to "discuss your compatibility" imo.
 

paramedic

Call me ayeeyo
Dating is haram and leads to zina. It doesn't matter if it's in a public place either, you'll be tempted to slip off your shoes when having dinner and tickle her vag with your toes.

Listen to this guy, his receding hairline made some space for his profound wisdom
 

Zeus

STYLIN
Listen to this guy, his receding hairline made some space for his profound wisdom
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Good for you sistah:siilaanyosmile:
Nope,I'm just informing sisters out of the good of my heart,I guess?:ayaanswag: Just dont like to see female muslims in general.:hillarybiz: Its so stupid how they worship the most misogynistic piece of literature.:liberaltears:

:farmajoyaab: how are your cadaans treating you or how did they
 

VixR

Veritas
Voted: Yes, I need to date to know the person.

Dating is essential. It's actually not enough to know what you're getting into. IMO, anything less is carelessness TBH.
 

TooMacaan

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Well islamically it is supposed to be fairly formal. The point should be made at the beginning that you're meeting with the intention for marriage.


I call that the friend zone :icon lol:
Ah ok, I see, you're approaching it from a religious perspective then.
That personally wouldn't work for me.

The friend zone doesn't exist:mybusiness:
(also, I said non-platonic lol)
 
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