Do you take the first step to reconcile in your relationship?

Pettiness and grudges are for women not men.

Any argument that transpires between a couple no one is ever 100% correct or 100% at fault.

So if for e.g she is 90% at fault but not mature enough to own up like the majority of women today

I will be the bigger person immediately and apologise for everything including on behalf of herself to myself in silence.

When you do this properly, your status and rank is elevated automatically and her libido and desires for you increases.

Being petty and argumentative is a feminine trait, it's beta in nature and shows deep levels of inadequacy about your manhood.

You're suggesting he apologize. wow. I was scared to read your message at first. there are some improvements. Well done darling. Well done !

@Abdalla Are you into drama ? :farmajoyaab:
 

NotMyL

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People, I came all the way from Singapore for her
I wasted above 4k just to stay with her
I broke all my plans, just so i can be with her
I Even took an intermission from Uni, so i can be with her

Yet, she is the one that's complaining

:wowsweat:
How long have you guys been married? This relationship sounds really dysfunctional :holeup:
 

Abdalla

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You miss your ex, don’t you :icon lol:

Lol boy it sounds like you miss your ex, maybe you’re doing this to get out of the relationship and get back with your ex

Ex is an ex for a reason. But my ex would call me for hours if she knew I was mad. Just saying.

Anyways I tried to be the bigger man but I'm having technical problems. Maybe it's a divine signal not to reach out.

From a scale from 1-10 how bad is the things she has down? If it’s forgivable, talk to her face to face,
explain it from your point of view and work together. If she’s still hard headed cut her sxb.
May allah save your marriage and make it easy for the both of u. Ameen

She's not my wife. But Ameen.
You're suggesting he apologize. wow. I was scared to read your message at first. there are some improvements. Well done darling. Well done !

@Abdalla Are you into drama ? :farmajoyaab:

I hate drama, buuq iyo qeylo. Cut off lots of people because u want my peace

Is this Mrs Afghanistan?

Stop fishing for info.
 

Calaf

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Ex is an ex for a reason. But my ex would call me for hours if she knew I was mad. Just saying.

Anyways I tried to be the bigger man but I'm having technical problems. Maybe it's a divine signal not to reach out.



She's not my wife. But Ameen.


I hate drama, buuq iyo qeylo. Cut off lots of people because u want my peace



Stop fishing for info.
Its a test, which shall pass God Wiling
Why Am I talking?
 

NotMyL

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May Allah place barakah in your marriage and safeguard you from ever turning into a homewrecker.
Amiin, but what’s with your home-wrecker obsession lately? Dare I say you hate home-wreckers more than fat women now :siilaanyolaugh:
 
Ex is an ex for a reason. But my ex would call me for hours if she knew I was mad. Just saying.

Anyways I tried to be the bigger man but I'm having technical problems. Maybe it's a divine signal not to reach out.



She's not my wife. But Ameen.


I hate drama, buuq iyo qeylo. Cut off lots of people because u want my peace



Stop fishing for info.

I hope your situation improves. All the best @Abdalla .
 

Calaf

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Honestly, @Abdalla, try your best to reconcile with your wife, even she doesn't
Coming from me is kinda weird, but forget about the past and think of the jewel you have now
Even if shes wrong, just swallow your anger
All the best Brother, may Allah be with you
 

VixR

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Wow didn't know that. All the best recovering from that loss
I’m recovered. I was having weird problems tbh. It’s my first relationship after it, and it’s been a learning curve. Honestly, I got lucky. I think most guys would’ve not have the right mindset to deal with the process.

Call her using a real phone. Honestly, I think she should care about your feelings, but it’s hard to judge w/o actually knowing what happened. So reach out to her using a real phone, tell her how you feel w/o apologizing, and see how she responds to your feelings. Matter of fact, don’t call her, do it in person, but in a private setting.
 

Calaf

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if she let you go silent for 2 weeks she dont like u like that lol
The silent is for an reason
Wallahi if it was something else, i would be begging on my knees
But she wants me to drop uni
like :mugshotman:
 

Abdalla

Medical specialist in diagnosing Majeerteentitis
Prof.Dr.Eng.
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Honestly, @Abdalla, try your best to reconcile with your wife, even she doesn't
Coming from me is kinda weird, but forget about the past and think of the jewel you have now
Even if shes wrong, just swallow your anger
All the best Brother, may Allah be with you

I gave in long time ago walahi. I opened our whatsapp chat and typed in some gibberish. On whatsapp you can see when someone else is typing like Abdalla is typing.... But instead I don't send it, I leave it until they notice and say 'what are you typing for so long'

That's my to go to strategy and I want to send a signal. It usually works. But this one is a different breed.
 

NotMyL

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Honestly, @Abdalla, try your best to reconcile with your wife, even she doesn't
Coming from me is kinda weird, but forget about the past and think of the jewel you have now
Even if shes wrong, just swallow your anger
All the best Brother, may Allah be with you
You should do the same lol you’re even in worse situation since you are married at least he’s just dating.
 

Tukraq

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The silent is for an reason
Wallahi if it was something else, i would be begging on my knees
But she wants me to drop uni
like :mugshotman:
yeah you got to win that argument but should have opened up the convo the same night wtf, 2 weeks:bell: sxb thats very long, women usually cant stand the silent treatment for a couple hours without being highly emotional(anger or crying) and getting you to speak
 

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