Do you take the first step to reconcile in your relationship?

I love this Somali proverb.


If you see someone who’s bleeding and saying they were wronged, don’t believe them, who knows they might have killed the other person.


We need to also hear her side of the story.
ok now say it in somali
 

kickz

Engineer of Qandala
SIYAASI
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I always take the first step to reconcile with my lady if she's mad. I'm not petty. Always the bigger man.

How do you behave after a fight? Silent treatment?

Virgins stay out of this thread :ufdup:

Just give her one of these :pachah1:

 
It's not gender specific. Lol

@sophisticate

I think I know what you mean. I’ve seen a couple of Somali guys who consider themselves alpha men and when they go out, they act towards females like they’ve been released from a long stint in one of your jails. Mind you these guys are married or engaged to Somali girls. With an attitude of the “gaal girl” is only for baashaal. That’s why it doesn’t surprise me our divorce rates are too high. Being asxual would’ve done them massive help.
 
@sophisticate

I think I know what you mean. I’ve seen a couple of Somali guys who consider themselves alpha men and when they go out, they act towards females like they’ve been released from a long stint in one of your jails. Mind you these guys are married or engaged to Somali girls. With an attitude of the “gaal girl” is only for baashaal. That’s why it doesn’t surprise me our divorce rates are too high. Being asxual would’ve done them massive help.

Being asexual would mean no marriage. And white girls are baashaal. Stop being a playa hater. You remind me of the somali who guilt tripped me for messing with this mix raced jew and only go after her once I let it go
 
Being asexual would mean no marriage. And white girls are baashaal. Stop being a playa hater. You remind me of the somali who guilt tripped me for messing with this mix raced jew and only go after her once I let it go

@Jaydaan

I’ve no problems with two single consenting adults having a go at one another, but why would one get engaged or married for only to chase other women? The guys I met here think it is like a trophy hunting. Get married and show loyalty and respect to your woman, or don’t get married and chase dirac. Sometimes, I’m forced to read them Hadiths and Koran because in most cases, I know to the girl that they’re married or engaged to. Nothing good will come out of a home based on lies and cheating.
 

halwa

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You should always be the bigger person and hash things out. It is not rocket science. Btw, stop bragging. We all know you hold grudges.
 

Abdalla

Medical specialist in diagnosing Majeerteentitis
Prof.Dr.Eng.
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@Abdalla youre so mature MashaAllah
Like Prophet Mohamed said ‘the best of you are those who are the best to their women’

I've been super good to her. Make her laugh all the time to the point she has to wipe her tears, kept her company when her aunt was hospitalised. On our first day of talking she testified that I had good character (dabeecad).

You should always be the bigger person and hash things out. It is not rocket science. Btw, stop bragging. We all know you hold grudges.

People said that I chased you away from sspot.
 

halwa

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I've been super good to her. Make her laugh all the time to the point she has to wipe her tears, kept her company when her aunt was hospitalised. On our first day of talking she testified that I had good character (dabeecad).



People said that I chased you away from sspot.


You did.
 

Calaf

Veni Vidi Vici
2022 CHESS CHAMP
GENERALISSIMO
VIP
Why wouldn't you have discussed with her about your goals(uni) before you got into these crisis?
How could I, most of the time that I was married, i was aboard
When I try to explain it to her, she gives me the silent treatment
When I try to apologize, i get stuff thrown at me
I don't even know what else to do

What do you expect from benadiri their marriage fate is sealed as soon as that umbilical cord is cut.
Who's the Benadiri?
 
I always take the first step to reconcile with my lady if she's mad. I'm not petty. Always the bigger man.

How do you behave after a fight? Silent treatment?

Virgins stay out of this thread :ufdup:

I'll kiss her feet if she's cash mama
#moneytalks#brokemamasout
 

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