Do you take the first step to reconcile in your relationship?

[Abdalla]

I always take the first step to reconcile with my lady if she's mad. I'm not petty. Always the bigger man.

How do you behave after a fight? Silent treatment?

Virgins stay out of this thread

 

[Mckenzie]

If you're married it should always be the man. You took her away from her family, her life and put her through pregancy that deforms her body. Swallowing your pride is the least way of showing love.

If you're just dating and you argue several times, she needs to wo(man) up and it's a test for you whether or not she seeks approval from other males if you've made her mad.

 

[NotMyL]

I’m really good at apologizing after he admits he was wrong, it was a struggle at the beginning but he realized there is no winning if he doesn’t apologize first.

 

[Abdalla]

it's a test for you whether or not she seeks approval from other males if you've made her mad.

It's good to be prideful but not when it comes to women. Let her have her pride. Don't play games with your anger, or else she won't know when you are real mad or not.

I didn't get your last part.

 

[Abdalla]

I’m really good at apologizing after he admits he was wrong, it was a struggle at the beginning but he realized there is no winning if he doesn’t apologize first.

Apologise for what. 9/10 it's her fault. Women are so silly. What if he puts her on silent treatment because she didn't fulfil a promise?

Does he really have to apologise? Is sending signals enough?

 

[VixR]

I need time after a fight and space, but sometimes if you’re not admitting wrong at that heightened moment when it mattered to say something and I’ve walked away, it’s another tack on them. At the same time, I’ve learned pretty quick apologies are nothing without action. Just watch and see if they follow through instead of throwing flowers and gifts at the problem. If they’re trying match my reaction for some wrong they did, it’s best to cut your losses. You’re dealing with an unstable character who’s probably capable of taking your life.

 

[NotMyL]

Apologise for what. 9/10 it's her fault. Women are so silly. What if he puts her on silent treatment because she didn't fulfil a promise?

Does he really have to apologise? Is sending signals enough?

I feel like I’m right all the time, of course I know that's not always the case but it’s just easier if he just apologizes. It’s saves us both the time, also silent treatment doesn’t work when you live with the person, I think that would make me even more upset. When we were dating he was the type to fight with me on things, like we would be arguing hours at times but now he learned :siilaanyosmile:

 

[NotMyL]

I would try to break the ice, but never would be the first to apologize
If she continue then fine by me

Waale you’re in for a rude awakening

 

[Abdalla]

You guys don't understand. I didn't do anything wrong, I was WRONGED. Wa la ixumeeyey, si xun. She's not mad at me, I'm mad at her. I left her on read. If she was mad at me and left me on read, I would surely contact her. Lakiin this balaayo qumayo didn't reach out. So you're saying I should still reach out to her? f*ck that

 

[Calaf]

Waale you’re in for a rude awakening

How
I ain't chatting to my wife after 2 weeks, yet , waale I am living life
I gave her the chance to apologize, but she lost the slot

 

[saredochani10]

You guys don't understand. I didn't do anything wrong, I was WRONGED. Wa la ixumeeyey, si xun. She's not mad at me, I'm mad at her. I left her on read. If she was mad at me and left me on read, I would surely contact her. Lakiin this balaayo qumayo didn't reach out. So you're saying I should still reach out to her? f*ck that

How old are y'all ? Are you a teen ?

Call her and have a proper conversation and tell her what she did wrong.

 

[Doctor farxaan]

Nah I’m not a simp. I will only apologise if I was wrong

 

[Abdalla]

f*ck I gave in. Tried to call her on through whatsapp (Wi-Fi is cheaper). But walahi the Haq came through. I think something is wrong with whatsapp because none of my calls are going through. I tested by calling someone else.

Al-Haq doesn't want me to simp. Case closed people

 

[Calaf]

Nah I’m not a simp. I will only apologise if I was wrong

Even if i was wrong, I would not apologize first

 

[Abdalla]

How old are y'all ? Are you a teen ?

Call her and have a proper conversation and tell her what she did wrong.

I'll be as ignorant as two niggaz from rival gangs in the cold streets of Detroit

 

[Abdalla]

How
I ain't chatting to my wife after 2 weeks, yet , waale I am living life
I gave her the chance to apologize, but she lost the slot

My nigga, you didn't talk to your wife in two weeks? I'm fearing for my life for leaving mine on read for 6 hours

 

[VixR]

You guys don't understand. I didn't do anything wrong, I was WRONGED. Wa la ixumeeyey, si xun. She's not mad at me, I'm mad at her. I left her on read. If she was mad at me and left me on read, I would surely contact her. Lakiin this balaayo qumayo didn't reach out. So you're saying I should still reach out to her? f*ck that

When you say you were wronged, why do I get the feeling you just think you were, but she has no idea?

You seem like the kind of guy who feels wronged over random, unexpected things.

 

[NotMyL]

How
I ain't chatting to my wife after 2 weeks, yet , waale I am living life
I gave her the chance to apologize, but she lost the slot

I’m confused, are you married? Is this hypothetical or you’re actually fighting with your wife now?

 

[Doctor farxaan]

Even if i was wrong, I would not apologize first

Brother that’s to much

 

[Calaf]

I’m confused, are you married? Is this hypothetical or you’re actually fighting with your wife now?

I am currently having an dispute with her