Do you know any Somalis that has a step father that isnt Somali?

[Sigmundd]

If the man of the house is not your biologically father that u came from, you are a homosexual

Your strange. I think your genuinely trolling because no normal person would ever utter this. Homosexuality is a devious thing and for you to say such thing to a step dad to his son is quite disgusting, fear Allah.

 

[FortniteLover]

Your strange. I think your genuinely trolling because no normal person would ever utter this. Homosexuality is a devious thing and for you to say such thing to a step dad to his son is quite disgusting, fear Allah.

I'm saying to me. It's just an opinion.

 

[Tenz]

If he treats the children good there's nothing wrong with calling him "dad"

If it’s not biological you shouldn’t call him dad.

 

[Sigmundd]

I'm saying to me. It's just an opinion.

Your opinion is wrong and you know this.

 

[Sigmundd]

If it’s not biological you shouldn’t call him dad.

In islam is fine to do that as long as you dont attribute your step father lineage to yourself since that's haram.

 

[marcellady]

mums getting pounded by a guy that I didn't even come from

You need immediate help. I’m not even kidding

 

[killerxsmoke]

I have seen few but I'm very curious as to how this ajanabi step father treats his somali step children if you know any?. And to those step children do you feel inclined towards his ethnicity, and what is his ethnicity?

I have an aunt that married an Italian but later they got a divorce, she had 3 children with him. Then she end up marrying a Pakistani

 

[Sigmundd]

I have an aunt that married an Italian but later they got a divorce, she had 3 children with him. Then she end up marrying a Pakistani

Nah I'm only talking about those with full somali children that remarried an ajanabi. I don't really care for those that married an ajanabi and have mixed kids. It's interesting for the full Somali children since they have a somali abo and have qabil so I wonder how their father feels about this. They must be fuming.

 

[FortniteLover]

Your opinion is wrong and you know this.

I'm just stating my opinion and putting myself in that guys shoes. I'd feel homo

You need immediate help. I’m not even kidding

I'm genuinely being serious bar the vulgarness. Take the last sentence out I would genuinely be humbled. It would resolve a lot of disputes as I'd just be a boy. As time goes I'd get over it but I'd still think of myself as a hoe.

 

[Sigmundd]

I'm just stating my opinion and putting myself in that guys shoes. I'd feel homo

I'm genuinely being serious bar the vulgarness. Take the last sentence out I would genuinely be humbled. It would resolve a lot of disputes as I'd just be a boy. As time goes I'd get over it but I'd still think of myself as a hoe.

Yh your a troll. I wasted going back and forth with you smh.

 

[FortniteLover]

Yh your a troll. I wasted going back and forth with you smh.

I was trolling and maybe overexaggerating before but I'm actually being sincere in that last message. Even ask the guy with the mixed step father he probably felt awkward and emasculated at first. Its like a innate human response to having a new head honcho of the house. You still think of urself as your father son but u take orders from someone else so it takes time to become accustomed to.

 

[Sigmundd]

I was trolling and maybe overexaggerating before but I'm actually being sincere in that last message. Even ask the guy with the mixed step father he probably felt awkward and emasculated at first. Its like a innate human response to having a new head honcho of the house. You still think of urself as your father son but u take orders from someone else so it takes time to become accustomed to.

Yeah I get that part but why add "homo" to this, at least say uncomfortable or like you said "emasculated" since your now under the household of an ajanabi man and not your abo which kind of makes sense.

 

[FortniteLover]

why add "homo" to this

Yeah, I think I used the wrong word. My thought process was that if a son has this sense of adoration, love, and respect for another man like he does for his biological father, he has to be homosexual. But I think that was a non-sequitur and inconsiderate on my part. I regret adding the homosexual part.

 

[Sigmundd]

Yeah, I think I used the wrong word. My thought process was that if a son has this sense of adoration, love, and respect for another man like he does for his biological father, he has to be homosexual. But I think that was a non-sequitur and inconsiderate on my part. I regret adding the homosexual part.

Yh no probs homosexual is literally you having feelings for the same gender. This obviously isn't the case with the step dad and step son. It's simple the step father stepped in as the father figure and the step son in return is appreciative of his step dad role in his life and highly respects him because of it. That is a healthy relationship that everyone should look up to.

 

[ugaaskiminnesota]

I knew one he had a daughter with the girl he seemed to be cool, he was religious, he did have a criminal past, so Somalis around my circle were low-key against the marriage(also cause he's ajnabi), but generally he was around everybody. But then the guy went crazy and was telling somalis in the community to leave the country and get rid of their American passports since its "gaalo passports" the girl divorced him cause he went insane he left to some west African country I think Ghana or Nigeria, and the kids he was step father too are older then me, one was a F up the girl he was a step father has a nice career in faang now. The only son he had with her has no contact with him.

 

[𐒖𐒐𐒈𐒝𐒑𐒛𐒐𐒘_200]

I knew one he had a daughter with the girl he seemed to be cool, he was religious, he did have a criminal past, so Somalis around my circle were low-key against the marriage(also cause he's ajnabi), but generally he was around everybody. But then the guy went crazy and was telling somalis in the community to leave the country and get rid of their American passports since its "gaalo passports" the girl divorced him cause he went insane he left to some west African country I think Ghana or Nigeria, and the kids he was step father too are older then me, one was a F up the girl he was a step father has a nice career in faang now. The only son he had with her has no contact with him.

West african not surprised
𐒔𐒖𐒓𐒜𐒒𐒏𐒖 𐒈𐒝𐒑𐒛𐒐𐒘𐒕𐒜𐒆 𐒓𐒛 𐒊𐒘𐒐𐒐𐒝𐒕𐒘𐒒 𐒌𐒓𐒇𐒈𐒖𐒆𐒖 𐒇𐒜𐒇 𐒌𐒖𐒐𐒁𐒜𐒆𐒏𐒖 𐒖𐒍𐒇𐒘𐒏𐒖

 

[ugaaskiminnesota]

West african not surprised
𐒔𐒖𐒓𐒜𐒒𐒏𐒖 𐒈𐒝𐒑𐒛𐒐𐒘𐒕𐒜𐒆 𐒓𐒛 𐒊𐒘𐒐𐒐𐒝𐒕𐒘𐒒 𐒌𐒓𐒇𐒈𐒖𐒆𐒖 𐒇𐒜𐒇 𐒌𐒖𐒐𐒁𐒜𐒆𐒏𐒖 𐒖𐒍𐒇𐒘𐒏𐒖

He was African American, not an African immigrant

 

[correct]

I've heard of a story from Birmingham that a Somali lady with a full Somali child from her previous marriage who went and married a ajnabi guy who went on to repeatedly the child. This story was quite big and even big Sheikh from Birmingham called Abu Khadija got involved to stop it going to police/courts.

 

[𐒖𐒐𐒈𐒝𐒑𐒛𐒐𐒘_200]

I've heard of a story from Birmingham that a Somali lady with a full Somali child from her previous marriage who went and married a ajnabi guy who went on to repeatedly the child. This story was quite big and even big Sheikh from Birmingham called Abu Khadija got involved to stop it going to police/courts.

Yes i heard of that case years ago very from Somali net forum back in the mid 2000's sad walaahi

 

[Leila]

In Islam, you can't call your step father "abo". It isn't in our deen or culture to do so, but that doesn't mean they can't be a father figure to you. For example the prophet pbuh was raised by a habesha woman called "Umm ayman". The prophet pbuh called her "his second mother", and loved her very much. They were family

I call my stepfather ‘Aabo’ and he says the same thing to me, he has raised me since I was 2. Everyone knows I’m not his biological daughter and I always claim my own lineage but I call him Aabo same way that some Somali people call an elderly lady Hooyo or Maamo out of respect.