Do you know any Somalis that has a step father that isnt Somali?

[Sigmundd]

I have seen few but I'm very curious as to how this ajanabi step father treats his somali step children if you know any?. And to those step children do you feel inclined towards his ethnicity, and what is his ethnicity?

 

[NidarNidar]

Never heard of it, my grandmother never officially got divorced, she just left him, he had 3 other wives(yes he was a sheikh), she just took care of her children and her business.

I have seen women marrying their dead husband's brother, not sure how common it is now, but seen it with the older generation.

 

[Sigmundd]

Never heard of it, my grandmother never officially got divorced, she just left him, he had 3 other wives(yes he was a sheikh), she just took care of her children and her business.

I have seen women marrying their dead husband's brother, not sure how common it is now, but seen it with the older generation.

I'm talking about ajanabi step parent. I'm curious if anyone on this forum knows any or is themselves a product of a ajanabi step parent

 

[𐒖𐒐𐒈𐒝𐒑𐒛𐒐𐒘_200]

I have seen few but I'm very curious as to how this ajanabi step father treats his somali step children if you know any?. And to those step children do you feel inclined towards his ethnicity, and what is his ethnicity?

What a weirdo question

 

[Espaa_]

I have a step grandfather who is italian if that counts (my mums stepdad)

 

[Sigmundd]

What a weirdo question

How is that a weird question? they do exist you are aware of that?

 

[Sigmundd]

i've got a cousin with a yemeni step father he is chill but then again yemenis aren't really ajnabis in the traditional sense tbh

Yh Yemenis are chill.

 

[Sigmundd]

I have a step grandfather who is italian if that counts (my mums stepdad)

That kinda counts but I'm more of talking about a step father I want to know the experience and that.

 

[El Nino]

I have a step grandfather who is italian if that counts (my mums stepdad)

Those times were crazy, unimaginable in this day and age.

 

[FortniteLover]

I'd hate life if I had a step father that wasn't Somali. How can you look an ajnabi nga in the eyes and call him dad. That shits revolting

 

[Sigmundd]

I'd hate life if I had a step father that wasn't Somali. How can you look an ajnabi nga in the eyes and call him dad. That shits revolting

If he treats the children good there's nothing wrong with calling him "dad"

 

[FortniteLover]

If he treats the children good there's nothing wrong with calling him "dad"

It's disgusting. I would never do that. Its treason

 

[Sigmundd]

It's disgusting. I would never do that. Its treason

So if a Somali woman remarried because her former partner was abusive and the man she married is ajanabi and he treats the children well that's treason? how? and the children aren't denying their biological father. They say "dad" out of respect since he's taken on the role.

 

[𐒖𐒐𐒈𐒝𐒑𐒛𐒐𐒘_200]

So if a Somali woman remarried because her former partner was abusive and the man she married is ajanabi and he treats the children well that's treason? how? and the children aren't denying their biological father. They say "dad" out of respect since he's taken on the role.

She is vile and selfish for remarrying a non Somali man.

 

[FortniteLover]

So if a Somali woman remarried because her former partner was abusive and the man she married is ajanabi and he treats the children well that's treason? how? and the children aren't denying their biological father. They say "dad" out of respect since he's taken on the role.

Nah thats mank. I pity those kids. How can you have more than one dad. That's crazy

 

[Sigmundd]

Nah thats mank. I pity those kids. How can you have more than one dad. That's crazy

Don't blame the children tho. And what do you expect the mother to do be single for the rest of her life.

 

[Sigmundd]

She is vile and selfish for remarrying a non Somali man.

Maybe she had a bad experience with her previous Somali husband and when you have a negative experience you don't want to risk marrying someone from the same ethnicity and be treated badly again hence why they opt for an ajanabi.

 

[Shidanem]

So if a Somali woman remarried because her former partner was abusive and the man she married is ajanabi and he treats the children well that's treason? how? and the children aren't denying their biological father. They say "dad" out of respect since he's taken on the role.

Imagine some Somali kid calling a his White Step-dad, who stepped up, "Abo".

I'm sorry, that's just revolting.

 

[Sigmundd]

Imagine some Somali kid calling a his White Step-dad, who stepped up, "Abo".

I'm sorry, that's just revolting.

I know is something that we aren't used to and basically out of the ordinary but we shouldn't call it revolting rather it's shocking to many including myself but it does happen.

 

[Unicorn]

Never seen it. The few somali girls married to ajanabi never had kids with somali guys