As I mentioned to
@Abdalla I'm not fully informed on everything that happened. I do know that darood on darood inter-clan strife occurred. I know some sub-clans were more subjugated than others, and this was also in part due to the government wishing to keep some grip on power, that they were quickly loosing. I don't think in those times apart from a few, darood were looking out for each other, as sad as it is. There was some success in stoking the inter-clan fires.
I think it's important for history to be spoken about, and to have historical monuments and to analyse what went wrong. Because 30 odd years later, excuse my language but the countries still a shithole. I would also like to know more about caydiid and the hawiye conflict, all I really know is of destruction, it seems even the hawiye sub-clans fought each other ruthlessly.
I also experienced the same back home. Everywhere I went people were quite interested by what qabiil I was but never negatively. In fact in Hargeisa and other cities, people assumed initially I was a southerner because of the way I wore my hijaab and because I would always say 'wa meqaa' in shops. Yet nothing, nada not a second glance. I was corrected by others to say 'wa imisa' though.
On the other hand, in the west, Somalis have made qabiil a handbook to navigating life. It's shocking the lengths people go to or can know you. I've had an older Somali figure out not only my qabiil but my maternal uncle too one time, from the most obscure information. The clannism is endemic throughout the west unfortunately.
Do you think the previous generation brushed their issues under the rug? I think they were more resilient than us mentally.