Your kids aren't an extension of you, they are their own person and will make they own choices plus think differently from you, if you can't accept that and love them regardless then you shouldn't have kids, I agree with the guy.
Nope. He needs to learn what “unconditional” means. I will always make my home a safe space, no matter the differing views.
People who make this argument are incredibly low IQ or just flat out liars.
Even both of you I guarantee are willing to disown your children given the right circumstances.
It's just a matter of how extreme you think their views and actions are before you see fit to disown them.
This standard you place is completely arbitrary and dependent on the individual.
If your child told you he will turn into a c0on for some racist nazi party because he believes he is inferior and is willing to tolerate anything that group does to him (by anything I mean ANYTHING). you would disown your child. Obviously this isn;t to say you would try to help them and guide them, but once they become adults and show no sign of changing you would give up on them and wouldn't tolerate their actions.
To a muslim, leaving islam is one of the worst possible sins you can commit as you willingly put yourself to eternal damnation and is no different than the aforementioned example. This is why I think your take is completely low IQ because you people struggle to think past your own perspective.
Why would any muslim (someone who believes in god and the afterlife) ever be willing to enable their child in completely throwing away their eternal afterlife for the sake of the dunya. Even if you are not muslim yourself, you cannot seem to think from that perspective?