Do you blame somali parents for raising their kids in the ghetto?

[babooshke]

Because the truth of the matter is that, a lot of these kids that do wrong end up being products of their environment.

You can't raise your kids around violence and criminality then get surprised when they get caught up in it

 

[BetterDaysAhead]

many came as poor refugees sxb they had no other choice but to live in the ghetto

 

[Abdi Nur]

Because the truth of the matter is that, a lot of these kids that do wrong end up being products of their environment.

You can't raise your kids around violence and criminality then get surprised when they get caught up in it

You didnt see hoyoos picking up items during the riots...they aint worried about parenting

 

[Gambar]

That’s all they can afford what can they do? Their children are fed, clothed and never go without so why are they ending up in the streets as if they are forced to? Somalis have a family structure. The ones who go into the street life are just imitating what they see.

 

[Gojo Satoru]

Yes. It's been 30 years and a lot of somali families are still stuck in the same ghetto they first immigrated to

 

[soomaa]

not only were parents so serious about parenting that they would raise their kids in the ghetto, they also chose to be single parents too!

 

[babooshke]

I know everyone is mentioning refugees.

But, I know a lot of us knew Somali families that could have done MUCH BETTER in life but were content with the bottom of the western totempole.

 

[soomaa]

That’s all they can afford what can they do? Their children are fed, clothed and never go without so why are they ending up in the streets as if they are forced to? Somalis have a family structure. The ones who go into the street life are just imitating what they see.

This constant 'we had no other choice' narrative has got to end. It teaches kids to accept their circumstances as its the best they can do. Somalis constantly using 'we had no other choice' to justify their stupid choices. Damn right you had a choice. That was your child and you want to keep making excuses for not raising them properly.

 

[SociallyAwkwardFarax]

Because the truth of the matter is that, a lot of these kids that do wrong end up being products of their environment.

You can't raise your kids around violence and criminality then get surprised when they get caught up in it

Them being raised in the ghetto isn't the parents fault. Not paying attention to what they doing outside of home is their fault. From what I seen, a lot of kids these days hang around outside without their parents knowing where they are or what they're doing.

 

[Reformed J]

Absolutely

 

[Octavian]

Because the truth of the matter is that, a lot of these kids that do wrong end up being products of their environment.

You can't raise your kids around violence and criminality then get surprised when they get caught up in it

I blame the civil war it fucked them up real good most of them were kids when shit went down can't expect damaged people to raise well functioning members of society when they themselfs have all sorts of scars

 

[Crow]

The problem is Somalis use free range parenting, where kids can enter and leave the house as they please, as opposed to the helicopter parenting of cadaans, where every movement of children is closely supervised. Free range parenting works back home where there are lots of positive role models and the saying that 'it takes a village to raise a child' is true. It doesn't work in a degenerate environment.

 

[TekNiKo]

Absolutely look at the Arabs, Hindis and Chinese. They stay in public housing for max 3 years and bounce. Its only the low IQ Somalis and Madows that languish in these ghettos for decades

 

[Gambar]

This constant 'we had no other choice' narrative has got to end. It teaches kids to accept their circumstances as its the best they can do. Somalis constantly using 'we had no other choice' to justify their stupid choices. Damn right you had a choice. That was your child and you want to keep making excuses for not raising them properly.

Their grown kids should get them out of the ghetto. I’m talking about when they first arrive.

The problem is Somalis use free range parenting, where kids can enter and leave the house as they please, as opposed to the helicopter parenting of cadaans, where every movement of children is closely supervised. Free range parenting works back home where there are lots of positive role models and the saying that 'it takes a village to raise a child' is true. It doesn't work in a degenerate environment.

They raise their kids as if they’re in Somalia. The difference is in Somalia there is no concept of childhood and the children are responsible. Somali parents in the West treat their kids like they’re sacsac.

 

[Shmurda]

Absolutely look at the Arabs, Hindis and Chinese. They stay in public housing for max 3 years and bounce. Its only the low IQ Somalis and Madows that languish in these ghettos for decades

Stop capping timojileecs will stuff 30 niggas into a 4 bedroom house in the hood and split rent between them all

 

[TekNiKo]

Stop capping timojileecs will stuff 30 niggas into a 4 bedroom house in the hood and split rent between them all

Those are the new immigrants just check out how many houses and businesses they own in Brampton. They are far ahead of us sxb lets not lie

 

[bluebird]

The problem is Somalis use free range parenting, where kids can enter and leave the house as they please, as opposed to the helicopter parenting of cadaans, where every movement of children is closely supervised. Free range parenting works back home where there are lots of positive role models and the saying that 'it takes a village to raise a child' is true. It doesn't work in a degenerate environment.

exactly. it doesn't need to be helicopter parenting either lol. but growing up I used to be shocked at how the kids who came to the country in the mid 2000s within a few years were already done for. Their parents are so miskiin they had zero clue about anything the kids did. They just fed them and gave them a place to stay pretty much. nothing worse than kids raisee by the hood.

 

[Parailia somalensis]

The reer mahad Canadian Minister used to live in the hood before he got educated and left. Majority of the Somalis trapped in the hood can get out if they learn a skill. They can even learn to be a chef which takes less than 2 years.

 

[Cam]

No. After a certain point you should want to do better though and move out. Some Somalis seem to think they own their homes in public housing. Passing it down among the family & shit

 

[Marcus]

Aren't most Somali men in the US truck divers? They have no excuse to stay in the ghetto.