I’ve gained a lot of weight since 2020 and I have it real bad. I used to get some level of attention prior to the weight gain and now I get zero attention from men. I don’t even get cat called anymore (not saying getting cat called is good). I used to be the type that believed the whole “love yourself” and “beauty is at every size.” It’s not really true. The better you look and thinner you are, the more respected you are. What do u guys think?