Do Somali girls divorce just for clout?

[Abdalla]

I know your intention is to be an agitating joker but I'm not taking the bait. Though I believe it was in poor taste to wish someone 'divorce'. Particularly one who has never been married and is circumspect about the topic of marriage. But if you are interested to know my views. I see marriage as a lifelong endeavour that should involve personal growth/development over ones life course. As for my familial history (there hasn't been a divorce to date). I would urge you to implore women to try their best to find the right fit for marriage, do what they can to effectively communicate and ideally stay married (God willing).

I haven't given my opinion on the topic of divorce, I just commented on a vlogger that immensely agitates me due to her inauthenticity. I know you're wary and quite unwilling when it comes to marriage, thats why I never cut too deep in our friendly exchanges on this topic.

I disagree with your view on divorce. You're giving marriage a much higher status than it deserves. You elevate it to the point that disappointment is bound to happen. I'm belong to the school of thought that if it is not working out, walk away. No need to uphold the illusion that marriage is a lifelong endeavour, sometimes it's temporarily. Don't fight for a life God hasn't chosen for you.

Nope. She’s late 20’s

Youre too positive in everything. She's not comfortable speaking English, she's holding back to speak Somali.

 

[Desert Flower]

Youre too positive in everything. She's not comfortable speaking English, she's holding back to speak Somali.

Ma fahmiin. You said she’s in her 30’s when I simply said she isn’t and is in fact in her late 20’s. Source: she said so herself. She’s Norwegian so that’s probably why you think she’s not comfortable speaking English. She sounds fine.

 

[Abdalla]

Ma fahmiin. You said she’s in her 30’s when I simply said she isn’t and is in fact in her late 20’s. Source: she said so herself.

You don't want to understand.

 

[Desert Flower]

You don't want to understand.

Check my edits. What is there to understand? Yaab badana.

 

[Abdalla]

Check my edits. What is there to understand? Yaab badana.

I'll await the verdict of @SilverL

 

[Octavian]

They are divorced for two reasons.

They gotta make some pocket change for the busride

 

[bluebird]

She talks slowly to maintain a certain accent.

Guesstimate her age. I'd say 35 at the time of recording

33 ish. with the accent I can't tell since I don't know a lot about british accents

 

[Abdalla]

33 ish. with the accent I can't tell since I don't know a lot about british accents

Thank you. @Desert Flower apologise to me.

Its a fake accent BTW

 

[bluebird]

Thank you. @Desert Flower apologise to me.

did she say she's in her late 20s? she could be. also not saying she's lying, but late 20s is usually code for something.

 

[Sophisticate]

I haven't given my opinion on the topic of divorce, I justst commented on vlogger that immensely agitates me due to her inauthenticity. I know you're wary and quite unwilling when it comes to marriage, thats why I never cut too deep in our friendly exchanges on this topic.

I disagree your view on divorce. You're giving marriage a much higher status than it deserves. You elevate it to the point that disappointment is bound to happen. I'm belong to the school of thought that if it is not working out, walk away. No need to uphold the illusion that marriage is a lifelong endeavour, sometimes it's temporarily. Don't fight for a life, God hasn't chosen for you.

Youre too positive in everything. She's not comfortable speaking English, she's holding back to speak Somali.

I don't enter into contracts with the intention of terminating them down the road. I would like to think most people have that in mind. The only grounds I see for divorce are severely extenuating circumstances. I do not have an idyllic viewpoint but I think marriage needs constant work/maintenance. It's not something to be entered into whimsically and tossed aside. I believe that's where we differ. A starter marriage is not my intention. The lifespan for marriage to me is until the grave. If not, I would rather stay unmarried and unattached. In this way, I'm either or. But thank you for your opinion.

 

[Abdalla]

did she say she's in her late 20s? she could be. also not saying she's lying, but late 20s is usually code for something.

This is why I was waiting for your judgement, you see things. No 21 yo says I'm early 20s...

 

[bluebird]

This is why I was waiting for your judgement, you see things. No 21 yo says I'm early 20s...

true. Thats why we have relatives who the age gap between us grows shorter each year

 

[Abdalla]

I don't enter into contracts with the intention of terminating them down the road. I would like to think most people have that in mind. The only grounds I see for divorce are severely extenuating circumstances. I do not have an idyllic viewpoint but I think marriage needs constant work/maintenance. It's not something to be entered into whimsically and tossed aside. I believe that's where we differ. A starter marriage is not my intention. The lifespan for marriage to me is until the grave. If not, I would rather stay unmarried and unattached. In this way, I'm either or. But thank you for your opinion.

To the grave...you have a romanticised view of marriage. The perfectionist in you comes out, going to the extreme to make it work. Even at the expense of your own happiness and sanity.

 

[Sophisticate]

To the grave...you have a romanticised view of marriage. The perfectionist in you comes out, going to the extreme to make it work. Even at the expense of your own happiness and sanity.

I never compromise my well-being for men. Trust me on that brother. I've always prized my peace of mind.

I don't think it's fair to make your spouse responsible for your happiness. That is a tall order and it's kind of contingent on the individual to do that for themselves. And the aim is to pursue someone with sharaf which is somewhat agreeable, emotionally stable and mature. And leave the rest up to IIahi.

 

[Afrique]

They never pass 25-27 except sophisticate

I'm 36 and proud.

 

[Samaalic Era]

I'm 36 and proud.

I thought you were 20

 

[Abdisamad]

I'm 36 and proud.

You are shittin me right

 

[Abdisamad]

I thought you were 20

My guess would be 29-31

 

[Desert Flower]

did she say she's in her late 20s? she could be. also not saying she's lying, but late 20s is usually code for something.

Shes 28-29.

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[Afrique]

I thought you were 20

Why would I be 20 when I'm so intelligent. Do I act childlike?

Anyway to address the topic of the OP a lot of these girls lack social networks they can rely on to give sage advice hence why they are running to internet friends. My guess is they will regret this when their future employer finds this.