Dealing with hardships

[Gibiin-Udug]

Lost to technicality

No you jumped into conclusions and I won this argument, fair and square.

 

[Waaqo of Punt]

Read online forums (reddit & others) of people failing their exams or other hardships then you will realize your not the only 1 in that situation. It will cheer you up.

 

[NotMyL]

Sis may Allah ease your pain, the only way to get through trouble for me is prayer and dua. I hit rock bottom couple years ago due to losing a loved one and getting close to Allah is the only thing that helped me, I started to appreciate the little things in life and realized Allah doesn’t burden you beyond what you can bear. You will get through this inshAllah.

 

[Muji]

I‘m not feeling well these days and I was wondering what you guys do when you‘re feeling down. I feel very overwhelmed with my life. It‘s like one hardship after the other. I feel like drowning. So what do you do in such situations? I wanna get some inspiration. Pls no trolling. And be nice, this is serious stuff. Thank you!

Sis you have to be stubborn. You have to keep going even when you don’t feel like it. Hope you get out of whatever it is that’s causing you to feel like this. Dm me if you need someone to talk to.

 

[Muji]

Read online forums (reddit & others) of people failing their exams or other hardships then you will realize your not the only 1 in that situation. It will cheer you up.

Walal I don’t think you have to veer too far from this forum to look for people who have ruined their lives to a comedic level. Serious question do you have an example of a thread on reddit such as the scenario you shared I’m curious..

 

[Bohol]

Walal I don’t think you have too veer too far from this forum to look for people who have ruined their lives to a comedic level. Serious question do you have an example of a thread on reddit such as the scenario you shared I’m curious..

SS ain't that serious.


I have £5000 savings at 35. Is my life over?
https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showthread.php?t=5880527



25 and I feel like I will NEVER get out of debt.

 

[Muji]

SS ain't that serious.


I have £5000 savings at 35. Is my life over?
https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showthread.php?t=5880527



25 and I feel like I will NEVER get out of debt.

We need to make more financial related threads

 

[Bohol]

We need to make more financial related threads

Only £5000 savings at 35. Many people assume cadaan people are rich but they are bad with savings.

 

[Muji]

Only £5000 savings at 35. Many people assume cadaan people are rich but they are bad with savings.

Read this one

Cadan men are the biggest weirdos

 

[Luciddreamer]

wim hof breathing helps me calm down and stay clear headed when everything is turning to sht

also GABA pills and magnesium

This wont make you happy, just calm and relaxed

 

[YourBroMoe]

I‘m not feeling well these days and I was wondering what you guys do when you‘re feeling down. I feel very overwhelmed with my life. It‘s like one hardship after the other. I feel like drowning. So what do you do in such situations? I wanna get some inspiration. Pls no trolling. And be nice, this is serious stuff. Thank you!

I listen to music to calm myself down. Then I go through what I gotta go through one step at a time.

 

[Happy_]

Abaayo it depends, sabr can be of two kinds. Perseverance or acceptance and accepting Allah's qadr. Have sabr in any case and be grateful alhamdulillah that you are blessed in a multitude of ways, although you might not see it right away, with your vision temporarily clouded by the shadows of your hardship.
Just know Allah is the light of the heavens and the earth and he will show you a way and provide you with the means and companions who will help you through this passage. All you have to do is seek out the help you need. Talk to your parents, siblings, friends it might provide relief and put your struggle in perspective, which enables you tackle your problem head-on.




Alhamdulillah sister, see you're getting better already. Remember @Basra 's second point and that people could be in such predicaments that they would take up @Doosowareer 's offer although the brother genuinely meant to help out.

Some light hearted banter will also do you good. Keep being @Happy_ despite the circumstances, it's really about your state of mind, less about the state of your affairs. A smile can give you effortless relief which is half of the equation the other half requires prayer and perseverance.

You got this abaayo, I'm sure of this and in sha Allah the burden will be lifted of your shoulders.

Wow masha‘allah you‘re very wise, so many gems. Jazkallah kheir

 

[Happy_]

I am going through the same thing right now. It is so hard to be positive. I try to look at how far i've came in the past, i thought i couldn't go in anymore yet i did. As the saying goes This too shall pass. Try to look at people in worse in condition than you it will remind you to be thankful.Prayer and moderate exercise helps me . I make sure i look pretty and smell good by wearing my favorite perfumes. Don't neglect yourself. Don't over share your problems with people a lot of them are going through their own struggles some of them will be happy that your struggling too, this is sadly true.just keep swimming.

Thank you huuno, may Allah ease your affairs and may you find peace and happiness barakallahu feeki for your tips I started doing lots of self care iyo self jacayl. It‘s all about accepting yourself and working towards a better version of you. We got this

 

[Happy_]

wim hof breathing helps me calm down and stay clear headed when everything is turning to sht

also GABA pills and magnesium

This wont make you happy, just calm and relaxed

Thanks for your input, i‘ll get my vitamin D pills insha‘allah.

 

[Happy_]

I listen to music to calm myself down. Then I go through what I gotta go through one step at a time.

Thanks for sharing, may allah give you peace and happiness

 

[Happy_]

Thank you @NotMyL jazakallah kheir, You’re so right. Gotta get closer to Allah and find healing through Him.
@Knowles thank you sweetie i appreciate it, may you find peace, love and happiness

 

[Halimo-2018]

Thank you huuno, may Allah ease your affairs and may you find peace and happiness barakallahu feeki for your tips I started doing lots of self care iyo self jacayl. It‘s all about accepting yourself and working towards a better version of you. We got this

Amin sis, also splurge on yourself. Buy your favorite bag etc Eat your favorite meals , travel. If someone in your life is bringing you a lot of negativity limit your time with them if they are a family plan your exit when you're with them. Be as self-fish as you can until you so much feel better don't let anyone make you feel bad about it.

 

[Happy_]

Amin sis, also splurge on yourself. Buy your favorite bag etc Eat your favorite meals , travel. If someone in your life is bringing you a lot of negativity limit your time with them if they are a family plan your exit when you're with them. Be as self-fish as you can until you so much feel better don't let anyone make you feel bad about it.

Yeah, true that, i need to be a lot more selfish. The good kind of selfish, thanks wlaalo

 

[Somalihustler]

I‘m not feeling well these days and I was wondering what you guys do when you‘re feeling down. I feel very overwhelmed with my life. It‘s like one hardship after the other. I feel like drowning. So what do you do in such situations? I wanna get some inspiration. Pls no trolling. And be nice, this is serious stuff. Thank you!

1.Re-Connect with God (Allah) or If you already connected...connect more and be patient

2. Everyone goes through something in life...this life ain't trial free and know that your hardship is temporary just a situation/phase that will pass by

3. Me personally when I feel down I go on the net and check out people who have it worst then me...to remind me of the blessings I got when I loose focus to remind myself that others are going through much worse struggles to humble myself

4. Chat to your parents or elder relative tell them how you feel if they around...see what they say...our elders are more wise than you think and know things

5. Go get a massage or hit the sauna & steam to get your head clear...excercise, swim etc

6. Make a plan and have a goal in life and find your purpose i.e what makes you happy and how you can corporate that into your life

7. Life is a marathon and your going to have your ups and downs its just about are you gonna quit or get up and fight and carry on...word to nipsey hussle

Peace

 

[Happy_]

1.Re-Connect with God (Allah) or If you already connected...connect more and be patient

2. Everyone goes through something in life...this life ain't trial free and know that your hardship is temporary just a situation/phase that will pass by

3. Me personally when I feel down I go on the net and check out people who have it worst then me...to remind me of the blessings I got when I loose focus to remind myself that others are going through much worse struggles to humble myself

4. Chat to your parents or elder relative tell them how you feel if they around...see what they say...our elders are more wise than you think and know things

5. Go get a massage or hit the sauna & steam to get your head clear...excercise, swim etc

6. Make a plan and have a goal in life and find your purpose i.e what makes you happy and how you can corporate that into your life

7. Life is a marathon and your going to have your ups and downs its just about are you gonna quit or get up and fight and carry on...word to nipsey hussle

Peace

Thank you for your tips, appreciate it! Will remember them. May Allah bless you!