Dealing with hardships

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  1. Gibiin-Udug

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    No you jumped into conclusions and I won this argument, fair and square.
     
  2. Waaqo of Punt

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  3. NotMyL

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    Sis may Allah ease your pain, the only way to get through trouble for me is prayer and dua. I hit rock bottom couple years ago due to losing a loved one and getting close to Allah is the only thing that helped me, I started to appreciate the little things in life and realized Allah doesn’t burden you beyond what you can bear. You will get through this inshAllah.
     
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  4. Muji

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    Sis you have to be stubborn. You have to keep going even when you don’t feel like it. Hope you get out of whatever it is that’s causing you to feel like this. Dm me if you need someone to talk to.
     
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  5. Muji

    Muji Staff Member Moderator

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    Walal I don’t think you have to veer too far from this forum to look for people who have ruined their lives to a comedic level. Serious question do you have an example of a thread on reddit such as the scenario you shared I’m curious..
     
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  6. Bohol

    Bohol Staff Member Moderator

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    SS ain't that serious.


    I have £5000 savings at 35. Is my life over?
    https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showthread.php?t=5880527




    25 and I feel like I will NEVER get out of debt.
    [​IMG]
     
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    Only £5000 savings at 35. :damn: Many people assume cadaan people are rich but they are bad with savings.
     
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  9. Muji

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    Read this one


    Cadan men are the biggest weirdos
     
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  10. Luciddreamer

    Luciddreamer Former self hater

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    wim hof breathing helps me calm down and stay clear headed when everything is turning to sht

    also GABA pills and magnesium

    This wont make you happy, just calm and relaxed
     
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    YourBroMoe Who the fuck am I? ギくェズー

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    I listen to music to calm myself down. Then I go through what I gotta go through one step at a time.
     
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  12. Happy_

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    Wow masha‘allah you‘re very wise, so many gems. Jazkallah kheir ❤️
     
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    Thank you huuno, may Allah ease your affairs and may you find peace and happiness barakallahu feeki for your tips ❤️ I started doing lots of self care iyo self jacayl. It‘s all about accepting yourself and working towards a better version of you. We got this ❤️
     
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    Thanks for your input, i‘ll get my vitamin D pills insha‘allah.
     
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    Thanks for sharing, may allah give you peace and happiness
     
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  16. Happy_

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    Thank you @NotMyL jazakallah kheir, You’re so right. Gotta get closer to Allah and find healing through Him.
    @Knowles thank you sweetie i appreciate it, may you find peace, love and happiness
     
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    Amin sis, also splurge on yourself. Buy your favorite bag etc Eat your favorite meals , travel. If someone in your life is bringing you a lot of negativity limit your time with them if they are a family plan your exit when you're with them. Be as self-fish as you can until you so much feel better don't let anyone make you feel bad about it.
     
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  18. Happy_

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    Yeah, true that, i need to be a lot more selfish. The good kind of selfish, thanks wlaalo
     
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    1.Re-Connect with God (Allah) or If you already connected...connect more and be patient

    2. Everyone goes through something in life...this life ain't trial free and know that your hardship is temporary just a situation/phase that will pass by

    3. Me personally when I feel down I go on the net and check out people who have it worst then me...to remind me of the blessings I got when I loose focus to remind myself that others are going through much worse struggles to humble myself

    4. Chat to your parents or elder relative tell them how you feel if they around...see what they say...our elders are more wise than you think and know things

    5. Go get a massage or hit the sauna & steam to get your head clear...excercise, swim etc

    6. Make a plan and have a goal in life and find your purpose i.e what makes you happy and how you can corporate that into your life

    7. Life is a marathon and your going to have your ups and downs its just about are you gonna quit or get up and fight and carry on...word to nipsey hussle

    Peace
     
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    Thank you for your tips, appreciate it! Will remember them. May Allah bless you! ❤️❤️❤️
     
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