Good luck to you. You have to get out of the mindset you have. You could possibly be passing up a really good guy just because he doesn't meet your HIGH STANDARDS at the moment. Maybe the guy who you said doesn't have a degree or a great job would treat you way better than this other guy who , yea he might have the money to buy you this and that.. but who knows he probably won't have the time to spend with you or truly bring you happiness apart from money.I want a provider , not a man to struggle with or build with. I want to live like the housewives house of Orange County. My father provided a luxury life, my mother worked but saved her money and spent daddyβs money . We lived in the best house in a gated neighborhood, went to private school, and were able to afford a lot of things. My mother is in her 50s but looks ten years younger because she had the time to care of herself and never stressed about money unlike the women she went to school with who married for love and tried to build underachieving men . Mr metrosexual make me happy momentarily but I donβt think he would make me happy for a life time .