Good luck to you. You have to get out of the mindset you have. You could possibly be passing up a really good guy just because he doesn't meet your HIGH STANDARDS at the moment. Maybe the guy who you said doesn't have a degree or a great job would treat you way better than this other guy who , yea he might have the money to buy you this and that.. but who knows he probably won't have the time to spend with you or truly bring you happiness apart from money.
Dating two guys at the same time
- Thread starter Emily
- Start date
Yup money =love
The only thing I donβt like about guy #2 is that he voted for Donald Trump
both could be bad a womans number one mistake is for her to assume someone is either good or bad that's where usually it goes wrong
money is not love providing isYup money =love
The only thing I donβt like about guy #2 is that he voted for Donald Trump
She seems to be a gold digger.
that's not nice to assume bad about someone
Agree with you. She's just having fun and playing with both.
I am not a gold digger
I am a hypergamous girl
Zarah broke love will not make me happy . By the way broke guys cheat on the women they build with. Men only respect women they invest money and time on. Date a man where he is at not for his potential.
But he likes her enough to promise paying for her debt and higher education. He is not being swindled and seems to know who Emily is. He deserves what he gets I think.
Personally, I wouldn't even say hello to a woman with credit card debt.
It is a bad sign. Big red flag.That's all you got from this?
What about being a pure virgin? and credit cards are haram if they have interest either way so i must agree.
What about pure virgin young man? I missed that part in the thread. I was pointing out that Mr-Conservative is not being duped. He seems to have interest and willingness to take Emily in and make her his wife with the knowledge of who she is. He knows she ain't conservative and wants to make her into his image and get her to act and practice culture as he does. The guy is willing to take a risk because of feelings he has for her. I say he should find out what Emily is made of and try his luck. With that, I don't think he is a victim or someone being lied to or undermined. You make your bed and sleep on it.
I am of the school of adults making their choices even if they want to burn in Hell.
You are a smart guy
I am definitely not using him. He sees that I have redeeming qualities. He once said to me β I donβt want your love , I just want you to respect me β . He is a transactional guy I am very nice to him and treat him with respect and he reciprocates that
By the way I donβt have that much cc debt , I can take care of it on my own.
Yes, I am a high maintenance girl .
Are you jealous?
Zoro
Come get a slice of Humble Pie
What makes you special?
If you can make the sacrifice and can give up things that aren't really a deal breaker for you in your life, and trade that with a husband whom you can rely on and trust, assuming he also keeps an open mind when it comes to pleasure, and that he is willing to satisfy you as much as he can and as you like it, I think the conservative guy is secure. Life is not about only good sex, drinking, or getting a fix. Life is short, and we won't always be healthy and young. So time to mature and move to the next phase of life.
I think you will always find pleasure and things that make you happy. Change is not bad if it leads to healthier life-style and comfort.
Just be honest with him when it comes to your expectations and don't marry him unless you are willing to make some sacrifices in habits for his love and financial security. A man is always a man but what distinguishes between them is the can-do attitude. A man needs to have motivation and ambition in life to take care of family and wife.
Just be open with him and discuss everything prior to marriage including children. Honesty is always good.
As long as he knows everything about you, past and present, You both will find joy in union if you settle down with that personal knowledge of each other.
Boogie
Islam wins doesnt take Ls Long Live Somalia πΈπ΄
You are using him by wasting his time just pick u aren't 8
