I can live in the west without doing Dawah or business or educationTake all your relatives to Somalia for hijrah and I guarantee you there would be no more quarrel.
only 3 reasons a Muslim is allowed to live in the west.
1. Dawah to non muslims
2. trading/business in non Muslim lands
Allah says you are collecting sins if you don’t fall into these categories.
Maybe your relative has sins and Satan has taken advantage of her.
you can pm me if you want I help Somalis make hijrah back to Somalia.
I dont a d wont live on muslims lands since i dont have live where i dont want