Confused and dont know what to do right now

[Nomad2054]

Life hack: buy female viagra and smash it in her drink and take her home. She finally get horny and let you f*ck. Worked with me plenty of times young bull

you play that game until you meet the one that makes you go

 

[Abdalla]

Thanks sxb for your reply! How do you suggest me to proceed now? Do I just accept my L and stop writing to her? Or do I talk with her and tell her how I feel and what I want and move on if we don’t share a common goal?

The thing is that I have already talked with her about how I wanna move to the next step with her and she said that she wanted to wait. It feels kind of needy to approach again with the same topic one month later.

It might be like you said that she ain’t that much into me or that she is just busy with other issues that occupy her mind. Or just that she is just as inexperienced as me in relationships and have some idea that the guy should initiate 100% of all the times.

You've already initiated and showed assertiveness, there's no need to do it again. You shouldn't pressure her as well because she seems like the type to easily say yes. You've already made your feelings clear to her. Perhaps you can be blunt with her about her personality. See how she reacts to your accusations.

She feels entitled and expects to be entertained 24/7. I think in the long run she will annoy you. Girls like her who are emotionally unavailable are toxic and she will mess you up. The way you described your relationship doesnt seem healthy at all.

You've done your part and treated her well. The choice is up to you but I would've let her go. If she's into you she will change her ways after you confronted her. Because nested birds and well-fed dogs always return to the walls of their master.

 

[Generalissimo]

You've already initiated and showed assertiveness, there's no need to do it again. You shouldn't pressure her as well because she seems like the type to easily say yes. You've already made your feelings clear to her. Perhaps you can be blunt with her about her personality. See how she reacts to your accusations.

She feels entitled and expects to be entertained 24/7. I think in the long run she will annoy you. Girls like her who are emotionally unavailable are toxic and she will mess you up. The way you described your relationship doesnt seem healthy at all.

You've done your part and treated her well. The choice is up to you but I would've let her go. If she's into you she will change her ways after you confronted her. Because nested birds and well-fed dogs always return to the walls of their master.

Yes that sounds reasonable sxb, the red flag as I’ve mentioned before is that she doesn’t initiate any contact with me and takes hours for her to answer when I write or send a snap to her but she is still active and online on the social media apps.

I’m gonna have a serious discussion with her and be upfront with how I perceive the situation and that it’s better to not waste Each other’s time if we don’t feel each other that strongly

 

[Abdalla]

Yes that sounds reasonable sxb, the red flag as I’ve mentioned before is that she doesn’t initiate any contact with me and takes hours for her to answer when I write or send a snap to her but she is still active and online on the social media apps.

I’m gonna have a serious discussion with her and be upfront with how I perceive the situation and that it’s better to not waste Each other’s time if we don’t feel each other that strongly

Yea, but not about your feelings tho, you've already made yourself vulnerable. Put her on the stand.

Godspeed.

 

[The Cushitic One]

If female finds you attractive you can get away with anything
Tbh you kids are missing out back in my middle school days we would have contest on how many female ass we slap
What do you know about nonchalantly putting your arm behind some fine honey and grabbing hand full
This me two shit fucked up everything
No homo but dudes would slap each other on the ass two in my school Brett Favre started that shit
Only white females snitch I had the luck of being in schools with very small whites so no snitching occurred everybody stayed on code

Who said ur attractive

@Generalissimo In every relationship there's one that gives more than the other. I am a giver too. However from your story it seems that you give 90%. She is just not that into you bro or she has issues that occupy her mind. You shouldn't be exhausted to save the relationship. She will drive you crazy, take your distance.

Don't be too much of a gentleman. She is not your female relative. Aint nothing wrong with grabbing a tit or two. If you don't show your affection physically, she will think that you're not into her.

LOL

 

[The Cushitic One]

Good morning texts are beta af. I wouldn't even text that to my wife. You must've been messing with poor farahs who were brought up in a single-mother household.

If I don’t get a good morning msg the nigga
Will be cancelled

He also must msg me ‘did u get home safe’

 

[Kudhufo Kadhaqaq]

If I don’t get a good morning msg the nigga
Will be cancelled

He also must msg me ‘did u get home save’

Forget about texting u "good morning" I would have just arrived at your house and fucked your brains out.

And after the brutal sweet loving waasmo, I would have kissed u on your fat Xalimo forehead and whispered "good morning quuruxley"

 

[Generalissimo]

So

Yea, but not about your feelings tho, you've already made yourself vulnerable. Put her on the stand.

Godspeed.

Sorry if I ask too many question ugaasyahow laakin how do you mean with putting her on the stand but not talking about t my own feelings? Could you give any example of how to do that

 

[The Cushitic One]

Forget about texting u "good morning" I would have just arrived at your house and fucked your brains out.

And after the brutal sweet loving waasmo, I would have kissed u on your fat Xalimo forehead and whispered "good morning quuruxley"

 

[Kudhufo Kadhaqaq]

I know u want it babe A tall, dark, handsome and strong Brawler like me don't play around my waaqoyi queen

 

[Abdalla]

So


Sorry if I ask too many question ugaasyahow laakin how do you mean with putting her on the stand but not talking about t my own feelings? Could you give any example of how to do that

I think you like her too much to just walk away. I assume you need a closure or else you'll always wonder whether she likes you or not. By putting her on the stand, you'll have to interrogate her. Ask her why doesn't she initiate any conversations, why does she take forever before she responds, ask her whether she likes you? Let her see the other Sade side of you ( pun intended)

She already knows how you feel about her but I guess for you to move on you should find out how she feels about you. But just remember that she will use this tough discussion you'll have with her as an experience for her upcoming relationships. She use this to communicate better with other guys. You're making another man's life easier by putting her on the stand. It's a double edged sword.

 

[The Cushitic One]

I know u want it babe A tall, dark, handsome and strong Brawler like me don't play around my waaqoyi queen

The heat is making u too horny

Go watch some youporn sxb

 

[Generalissimo]

I think you like her too much to just walk away. I assume you need a closure or else you'll always wonder whether she likes you or not. By putting her on the stand, you'll have to interrogate her. Ask her why doesn't she initiate any conversations, why does she take forever before she responds, ask her whether she likes you? Let her see the other Sade side of you ( pun intended)

She already knows how you feel about her but I guess for you to move on you should find out how she feels about you. But just remember that she will use this tough discussion you'll have with her as an experience for her upcoming relationships. She use this to communicate better with other guys. You're making another man's life easier by putting her on the stand. It's a double edged sword.

Always as sharp and eloquent in your thoughts my MJ mentor

You reckon that this relationship has come to its end now or is there any chance of building on this foundation?

Her explanation when we went one month without any communication is that she thought I was not serious with her and just seeing her as an temporary thing. Could her passivity when it comes to initiating be some sort of “testing” to see if I will be “serious” with her and try to make her a priority?

I swear this is taking to much of my energy and time ilaahay baan ku dhaarshay

 

[Kudhufo Kadhaqaq]

The heat is making u too horny

Go watch some youporn sxb

Only cucks watch . I want a real woman like u in my life amore

You are my heat

 

[Emily]

No problem, honesty is better than sugarcoating the truth.

The biggest red flag right now is that she really takes her time replying to messages. It takes almost 2-3 hours for her to respond and the thing is that I can see that she is online and active on Instagram, Snapchat and Facebook. And while she doesnt open my snaps, you can see that she is sending other people snaps. So either she is with friends and doesn’t want to reply when she is not alone or she doesn’t prioritize replying to me that much.



I mean I try to respond as fast as possible when I can even when I’m out with my friends and chilling.

Bro she is not that into you. You are better off without her. Block her, find something to make yourself busy.
I swear if you continue letting her play with your emotions like this someday she will tell you the truth flat out and you will get hurt really bad. Smh you are ignoring all the red flags

 

[Generalissimo]

Bro she is not that into you. You are better off without her. Block her, find something to make yourself busy.
I swear if you continue letting her play with your emotions like this someday she will tell you the truth flat out and you will get hurt really bad. Smh you are ignoring all the red flags

I realize now that my behavior in this relationship is just insecure and needy. If a relationship is just causing you sleepless nights and stress it’s better to be single and work on your self until you meet the next girl.

Laakin is blocking her and just going silent on her the best course of action here? We live literally one street across each other, study in the same uni in different departments and work in the same company. Too many common friends between us.

 

[Emily]

I realize now that my behavior in this relationship is just insecure and needy. If a relationship is just causing you sleepless nights and stress it’s better to be single and work on your self until you meet the next girl.

Laakin is blocking her and just going silent on her the best course of action here? We live literally one street across each other, study in the same uni in different departments and work in the same company. Too many common friends between us.

Yes block her ass. You’ve already done your part. If she has feelings for you she knows where to find you.

 

[amboli]

She's in her early 20s so she probably isn't interested in marriage yet. Maybe she just wants to have some fun.

Next time you see her go somewhere private and have a make out sesh.

 

[FendiFanatic]

you play that game until you meet the one that makes you go

i could use gender neutral viagra. All that will happen is that we will both be horny

 

[Nomad2054]

i could use gender neutral viagra. All that will happen is that we will both be horny

there is such a thing now hot danm