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[Oranges&Lemons]

You need daqan celis, I like girls ku laha, that's unheard of back home

I was born an raised in Somali actually so it's probably more common than you think. You'd never know though. Matter of fact my uncle is on here...

 

[GeelJirito]

Your family should take you to Africa and beat the lesbian demon out of you. The sheikh will marry you to make sure the lesbian demon never returns

 

[Oranges&Lemons]

First of all may Allaah bless you and protect you against all evil. Ameen.

You’re being tested with having these feelings. It makes you even feel not wanting to get married to a guy.... Maybe you don’t want to get married to the guy you’ve been hooked up with because deep down you know he wasnt your calaf? Meanwhile you kept thinking it was because you thought you might like girls... Wallaahi idk. May Allaah make this easy for you. Ameen.

Thank you so much i really hope that is the case i feel less shit after reading your post

 

[darklight]

Thank you so much i really hope that is the case i feel less shit after reading your post

have you ever had a crush/interest in a guy, or is it strictly girls?

 

[Oranges&Lemons]

have you ever had a crush/interest in a guy, or is it strictly girls?

Yes I did. But very brief in my early teens. None recently that's why I'm worried.

 

[Oranges&Lemons]

Your family should take you to Africa and beat the lesbian demon out of you. The sheikh will marry you to make sure the lesbian demon never returns

I hope you're joking

 

[Kudhufo Kadhaqaq]

I hope you're joking

No she's not joking...

 

[RICH]

Thank you so much i really hope that is the case i feel less shit after reading your post

Don’t lose hope walaal. And ignore what some are saying in your thread. They don’t understand that this is something you’re being tested with and that you’re simply are asking for some advice.

 

[darklight]

Yes I did. But very brief in my early teens. None recently that's why I'm worried.

walaal, you need to realize that you're a lesbian. there's nothing wrong with that. so stop suppressing it, and live the life you were meant to live!

if you marry a guy you don't love you'll be miserable

 

[Kudhufo Kadhaqaq]

walaal, you need to realize that you're a lesbian. there's nothing wrong with that. so stop suppressing it, and live the life you were meant to live!

if you marry a guy you don't love you'll be miserable

Prøver du å gjøre livet hennes værre elr? U evil

 

[lone]

All jokes aside, don’t marry someone you don’t love. If I remember correctly from my psych lectures, the first seven years will be a deciding factor. Most forced marriages don’t make it past that. You are only 24. You have your whole life ahead of you.


Good luck

 

[wars]

umm... your gay bro, face it.

 

[Oranges&Lemons]

walaal, you need to realize that you're a lesbian. there's nothing wrong with that. so stop suppressing it, and live the life you were meant to live!

if you marry a guy you don't love you'll be miserable

Thanks for your reply. Living as you suggest is not an option for me though... it's either umm hurairah life or marry a guy. Maybe he'll be ok with it if he has 3 other wives or something to keep him busy.

 

[darklight]

Prøver du å gjøre livet hennes være elr?

jeg prøver å hjelpe ut denne lesbiske søsteren stol på meg, hun vil være takknemlig i framtiden. ingenting bra kommer ut av å undertrykke seksualiteten sin

 

[Kudhufo Kadhaqaq]

jeg prøver å hjelpe ut denne lesbiske søsteren stol på meg, hun vil være takknemlig i framtiden. ingenting bra kommer ut av å undertrykke seksualiteten sin

Familien hennes kommer til å "disown" henne og hun kommer ikke til å være velkommen i Somaliske "community"

 

[Toxique]

walaal, you need to realize that you're a lesbian. there's nothing wrong with that. so stop suppressing it, and live the life you were meant to live!

if you marry a guy you don't love you'll be miserable

its haram and a sin but its not a major one. it doesnt even have a hadd punishment.

 

[Oranges&Lemons]

Prøver du å gjøre livet hennes værre elr? U evil

This is appreciated

 

[darklight]

Familien hennes kommer til å "disown" henne og hun kommer ikke til å være velkommen i Somaliske "community"

jeg er fult informert om det,

men hva så? jeg kommer også til å bli "disowned" fordi jeg ikke er muslim.

man har bare ett liv så hva er vitsen med å ikke leve det som man egentlig ønsker.

 

[catwoman]

So you’ve only spoken to two guys?
Why don’t you be a bit more optimistic and try speaking to more.. you never know you might find the perfect girly Somali guy there are loads out there With the body to match!!:siilaanyolaugh:

And don’t marry someone you don’t like just for the sake of it, just my 2cents..

 

[darklight]

its haram and a sin but its not a major one. it doesnt even have a hadd punishment.

oh really? one more reason to to accept being gay @Oranges&Lemons