Confession... Get your shaax and biscuits for this one

[catwoman]

I don't wanna be torn to pieces on here lol I came in peace so no details. Just think what do you find appealing in a girl and it's probably the same things. I'd rather not do labels it's hard enough already but people I've been attracted to have been 80%girls 20%guys

Sure. Sis I’m sure we all have seen attractive people in our genders. It’s not a crime to think that people are good looking. Angelina Jolie is my all time girl crush that I’m sure a lot of girls find to be attractive.
The fact that you 20% of boys are attractive to you means that you are open minded af and half way there as there are a lot of trash men out there kkkk
Just keep looking. Good luck

 

[Oranges&Lemons]

what city you at . i will stick my foot up ur arse . i'm guessing u r in hoeland. i know some bad pple over there who can make ur life a living hell on this earth. !!!

Dude chill why are you taking MY unfortunate situation so personal like damn

 

[Oranges&Lemons]

Sure. Sis I’m sure we all have seen attractive people in our genders. It’s not a crime to think that people are good looking. Angelina Jolie is my all time girl crush that I’m sure a lot of girls find to be attractive.
The fact that you 20% of boys are attractive to you means that you are open minded af and half way there as there are a lot of trash men out there kkkk
Just keep looking. Good luck

Oh sorry I just assumed you were male. Thanks for the advice

 

[Suave]

Please don't be mean I've not told anyone before. I just wanna get it off my chest but I would still really appreciate whatever advice. So...

I'm 24(F) living with my family. I've never been interested in boys much when I was younger and I've always been single. When I was 19, I had a crush. And it was on another GIRL. I didn't even realise what was going on until it happened again when I was 20...on another girl.
Last year, I met a someone (I won't torture you with the details). I convinced myself it was nothing and I'd get over it quick. It's been 8months (the longest so far) and I still can't look her in the eye - it is that intense. I had to stop going to the places I would expect to see her. You might think I'm ciyaalsuuq but I'm far from it. I pray 5 times a day, I wear full hijab, I very rarely lie or backbite, I've memorised the Qur'an and I attend islamic lectures regularly. Bear in mind I've never acted on these feelings and never did anything to encourage it. In fact, I've slowly drifted away from friends for this reason over the years... because I was afraid they'd see what I'm like.
Years ago, my father brought up the topic of marriage and we agreed to leave it until I graduated. Now, it has been a while since I graduated and my parents are asking questions. They tried to set me up with the son of a family friend and we went on a 'date'. Omg it was awful! He ticked every box but all I could think about was when I could leave. Recently, my friends set me up with a drop dead gorgeous guy and it's the same thing -I just couldn't connect with him on an emotional level. I got so excited that I'm like a normal girl for once going on a date but the minute he opened his mouth, I was like nope. And the thought of marriage to a guy... for the rest of my life is so scary to me. Like a prison. I'm certain it will end in divorce. Maybe it's got something to do with the fact that I have so many shitty men in my family... I don't know. Anyway, I almost ended up agreeing to marry that son of the family friend for the sake of my family and this 'situation' but then I stopped myself after praying istikhara because it wasn't fair on him. And I know I'd be miserable in a marriage but my family won't leave me alone. They're gossipping about me already smh.

Suppressing your feelings will only lead to misery, you're just denying yourself happiness.

 

[Crow]

I am disappointed in the Muslims in this thread. When a slave owning nazi like myself has more compassion and knowledge of the deen than you, you need to give yourself good look in the mirror.

A strong Muslim woman comes here looking for advice on a very difficult problem and most of you laugh and insult her instead of helping.


f*ck this site.

 

[Puntlandtheglorious]

The Jews are manipulating us by dumping toxic in our food and air which makes us feel stuff for different gender but thank god I have a strong will

 

[Ugbaad Geel]

Suppressing your feelings will only lead to misery, you're just denying yourself happiness.

Are you homosexual??

 

[Suave]

I am disappointed in the Muslims in this thread. When a slave owning nazi like myself has more compassion and knowledge of the deen than you, you need to give yourself good look in the mirror.

A strong Muslim woman comes here looking for advice on a very difficult problem and most of you laugh and insult her instead of helping.


f*ck this site.

So ironic of you biggest troll on this site.

Are you homosexual??

I'm not.

 

[Oranges&Lemons]

The Jews are manipulating us by dumping toxic in our food and air which makes us feel stuff for different gender but thank god I have a strong will

Omd looooooool

 

[Shadow]

Imagine this was a gay nigga

He'd be crucified on here

 

[Crow]

Are you referring to me?

No.

 

[Ugbaad Geel]

So ironic of you biggest troll on this site.


I'm not.

From the looks of it the OP mainly is having homosexual feelings towards women and she seems to in a struggling situation.

"Suppressing your feelings will only lead to misery"

This isn't a question love wallaal these feelings should be non-existent to begin with, it just sounded like you were acknowledging this "homosexuality phase (or whatever to call it), she is going through." that's why asked.

 

[Shadow]

From the looks of it the OP mainly is having homosexual feelings towards women and she seems to in a struggling situation.

"Suppressing your feelings will only lead to misery"

This isn't a question love wallaal these feelings should be non-existent to begin with, it just sounded like you were acknowledging this "homosexuality phase (or whatever to call it), she is going through." that's why asked.

I've heard scholars say that homosexual feelings are fine as long as you don't act on them. In fact, does the Quran even mention lesbians? I swear it doesn't...

 

[Bernie Madoff]

I've heard scholars say that homosexual feelings are fine as long as you don't act on them. In fact, does the Quran even mention lesbians? I swear it doesn't...

@Oranges&Lemons

 

[Ugbaad Geel]

@Oranges&Lemons

Are they not the same thing lool.

 

[Suave]

From the looks of it the OP mainly is having homosexual feelings towards women and she seems to in a struggling situation.

"Suppressing your feelings will only lead to misery"

This isn't a question love wallaal these feelings should be non-existent to begin with, it just sounded like you were acknowledging this "homosexuality phase (or whatever to call it), she is going through." that's why asked.

I was acknowledging it, & it does exists.
It's not that I fully support their cause, but I could care less about other peoples sexuallity.

 

[Oranges&Lemons]

Are they not the same thing lool.

They are. People make their own fatwas these days smh. As far as I know it is haraam to act on the feelings but the feelings alone are nothing.

 

[Suave]

They are. People make their own fatwas these days smh. As far as I know it is haraam to act on the feelings but the feelings alone are nothing.

What kind of mental gymnastic do you perform to believe in a religion that wants you killed?

 

[Ugbaad Geel]

OP your not a lesbian, its OK to appreciate someone of the same genders beauty (obvs not sexually). Just don't let this appreciation you give to your equal gender be that great, otherwise you will start to lose interest in the opposite gender.

there's a lesbian on here and ohh my days let me tell you waay waalantahay like on another level.

 

[Crow]

What kind of mental gymnastic do you perform to believe in a religion that wants you killed?

The religion doesn't want her killed you uneducated baffoon. We are only judged by our actions in this deen. There is nothing wrong with the way she feels. It is just a test for her faith.