I've been coming up with a theory these past few days that seems to make a whole lot of sense to me. Hear me out first.
Growing up as a little girl in a community with practically no other Somalis, I found myself crushing on the hispanic and white boys from my school. I had never found madow men attractive, even though there were a few of them at my school. I found them almost repulsive due to their features. Kinda harsh, but true.

But as soon as I became a teen, I started going on more social media like Instagram and Twitter. On these sites, the madows were always the loudest voices, and everyone looks to them for funny videos and memes. Madow women would always rave about their men, and me trying to fit in, I started forcing myself to see black men in a different light. I felt swayed by the culture around me and basically conditioned myself into finding madow men attractive. Today though I realized that these feelings were completely artificial and made up. I cannot imagine myself today ever being with a black man.
So my theory is that many Somali girls become BLM madow dick-riders from all of the powerful influence on social media. I almost become one but thankfully snapped back to my senses. Do any of you agree with this theory or feel like this happened to you? Or are you a proud Madow lover from the get go? I'm curious to hear people's responses.
Growing up as a little girl in a community with practically no other Somalis, I found myself crushing on the hispanic and white boys from my school. I had never found madow men attractive, even though there were a few of them at my school. I found them almost repulsive due to their features. Kinda harsh, but true.

But as soon as I became a teen, I started going on more social media like Instagram and Twitter. On these sites, the madows were always the loudest voices, and everyone looks to them for funny videos and memes. Madow women would always rave about their men, and me trying to fit in, I started forcing myself to see black men in a different light. I felt swayed by the culture around me and basically conditioned myself into finding madow men attractive. Today though I realized that these feelings were completely artificial and made up. I cannot imagine myself today ever being with a black man.
So my theory is that many Somali girls become BLM madow dick-riders from all of the powerful influence on social media. I almost become one but thankfully snapped back to my senses. Do any of you agree with this theory or feel like this happened to you? Or are you a proud Madow lover from the get go? I'm curious to hear people's responses.