Clarifying Remarks on Somali Girls Aint Feeling Us Thread

[Gambar]

We are rough and straightforward with our speech, especially Reer Burco, but we aren't foul-mouthed. That's a stereotype.

So I am right markaad maxaad mantaa oo dhan ila murmaysay?

My mother is isaaq, she's really blunt sometimes too blunt. Waan ba naxaa mar mar. But it's better than being fake as shit. I've seen some people with other dialects who beat around the bush too much

 

[Gambar]

This is true, I like the bluntness but don't like the filthy language part.

Wallahi sometimes I get shocked when my ayeyo uses filthy language then she looks at me like I'm the crazy one

 

[DiricLover]

I am happy to hear that honestly. Are u from Canada btw?

No. I'm from the UK

 

[jugjugwacwac]

No. I'm from the UK

Exactly as I thought lol. Unfortunately things are a little different in Canada based on what I've seen.

 

[ThreeTwentyOne]

I understand that, but that's because Somali fathers don't develop the type of relationship with their daughters that would make the daughter want to involve her father in the courting process.

And all this independence and privacy the young generations covets is all and fine and dandy until shit hits the fan and they find themselves paired up with a loser or in the middle of a divorce. All of a sudden now they wanna involve daddy and cry on his lap.

Mash'allah, I can tell you really care about this topic. That's admirable though some might find it weird.

You are completely right about the relationship between father and daughters. A good parent is extremely important for any kid. Lots of parents are strict and nag instead of just talking to their kids, being involved in their kids education is something i never see within the Somali community. We need good role models then maybe things can be different in a much positive way. But at the same time I can't blame the parents, working overtime to keep food at the table while trying to be there for your kid isn't easy.

 

[Prince Abubu]

Oo ma ogid miyaa? Inanta abti baynu u nahay ee sidaas ula soco.

Que?

Isaaq and Darood, the unholy alliance.

 

[Bohol]

I'm ok with not counting. I'll count elsewhere in my own way.

The reason I support SL is bc being of my parents heritage and the understanding that predominance of qabil above all else in Somali culture makes you incompatible for the naive unification that has failed attempt that some still dream about, esp since its impossible to erase it bc its literally stamped into the long version of your primary identifier, your name, and further bolstered through myth. BC of this, I see SL gaining independence and the rest of the country Balkanizing. There is no other recourse that doesn't involve 'our' usual 'self-slaughter'.

That is all and dandy but we are talking about the fact the Lander females here complain that they are not treated equal in their
respective communties. They are quick to break klan protocols, throw klan members under the bus, therefore in my opinion
since they are not the loyal in-group they don't deserve the klan title and the protection it offers. MJ girls on the other hand
deserve their equal footing they have in their community because they follow protocols and actually contribute, they earned
their respect it wasn't given to them on a silver plate.

 

[Prince Abubu]

So I am right markaad maxaad mantaa oo dhan ila murmaysay?

My mother is isaaq, she's really blunt sometimes too blunt. Waan ba naxaa mar mar. But it's better than being fake as shit. I've seen some people with other dialects who beat around the bush too much

What subclan is she?

 

[cantspeak]

I'm ok with not counting. I'll count elsewhere in my own way.

The reason I support SL is bc being of my parents heritage and the understanding that predominance of qabil above all else in Somali culture makes you incompatible for the naive unification that has failed attempt that some still dream about, esp since its impossible to erase it bc its literally stamped into the long version of your primary identifier, your name, and further bolstered through myth. BC of this, I see SL gaining independence and the rest of the country Balkanizing. There is no other recourse that doesn't involve 'our' usual 'self-slaughter'.

Doesn't believe in God

Believes in Arab myths instead

 

[merka]

That is all and dandy but we are talking about the fact the Lander females here complain that they are not treated equal in their
respective communties. They are quick to break klan protocols, throw klan members under the bus, therefore in my opinion
is they are not the in-group loyalty they don't deserve the klan title and the protection it offers. MJ girls on the other hand
deserve their equal footing they have in their community because they follow protocols and actually contribute, they earned
their respect it wasn't given to them on a silver plate.

Stop trying to turn them into Garxajis supremacists. It's not going to work

 

[Gambar]

What subclan is she?

Cidagale.

That is all and dandy but we are talking about the fact the Lander females here complain that they are not treated equal in their
respective communties. They are quick to break klan protocols, throw klan members under the bus, therefore in my opinion
since they are not the loyal in-group they don't deserve the klan title and the protection it offers. MJ girls on the other hand
deserve their equal footing they have in their community because they follow protocols and actually contribute, they earned
their respect it wasn't given to them on a silver plate.

So you use Lander now because you don't believe in Isaaqnimo? Haye.

 

[DiricLover]

That is all and dandy but we are talking about the fact the Lander females here complain that they are not treated equal in their
respective communties. They are quick to break klan protocals, throw klan members under the bus, therefore in my opinion
is they are not the in-group loyalty they don't deserve the klan title and the protection it offers. MJ girls on the other hand
deserve their equal footing they have in their community because they follow protocols and actually contribute, they earned
their respect it wasn't given to them on a silver plate.

Is this nigga really basing what he sees online as reality? Kkk ala beerka. Warya I know you're in directing me you sly cockroach. Just because you're habar yonis doesn't mean I need to kiss your fat futo. War heedhe this is the internet not reality. hurdada ka kac

 

[VixR]

Doesn't believe in God

Believes in Arab myths instead

I don't have to believe in them, but you can't deny their power and predominace in the Somali psyche. I can sooner argue that you're not Muslim than that you're not Isaq/MJ or whatever the heck you are. Somalis are the epitome practitioners of identity politics.

 

[Bohol]

Is this nigga really basing what he sees online as reality? Kkk ala beerka. Warya I know you're in directing me you sly cockroach. Just because you're habar yonis doesn't mean I need to kiss your fat futo. War heedhe this is the internet not reality. hurdada ka kac

I am talking in general. It is trait some Lander girls seem to have whether online or IRL. Adiga as far as I am concerned you're HJ.




Fat futo Not as big as yours

 

[cantspeak]

I don't have to believe in them, but you can't deny their power and predominace in the Somali psyche. I can sooner argue that you're not Muslim than that you're not Isaq/MJ or whatever the heck you are. Somalis are the epitome practitioners of identity politics.

I and Somalia against the world.

I and my clan against Somalia.

I and my family against the clan.

I and my brother against the family.

I against my brother

 

[DiricLover]

@Duke of Bohol you have been making digs after digs about me like a ty dhoocil. Iga hadh.

I don't care what you regard me as. I know I'm a HY queen. Sheekada meesha ku daa

 

[Bohol]

@DiricLover Naag qabil maleh, you are identity less. I hope some another community will be kind enough to adopt you.

 

[jugjugwacwac]

Mash'allah, I can tell you really care about this topic. That's admirable though some might find it weird.

You are completely right about the relationship between father and daughters. A good parent is extremely important for any kid. Lots of parents are strict and nag instead of just talking to their kids, being involved in their kids education is something i never see within the Somali community. We need good role models then maybe things can be different in a much positive way. But at the same time I can't blame the parents, working overtime to keep food at the table while trying to be there for your kid isn't easy.

Good points. Yes some might find it weird, but like @Inquisitive_ pointed out earlier in this thread, if caring about and analyzing something as fundamental as marriage in our community is now considered weird it just shows how fast we're going down the road of degeneracy and family breakdown like the African Americans.

 

[Bohol]

Stop trying to turn them into Garxajis supremacists. It's not going to work

Gxniimo is patriarchal sxb , I am not going to stop my final solution plan for a couple of hablo that gone on the wrong path, I can always import more loyal hablo.

 

[VixR]

That is all and dandy but we are talking about the fact the Lander females here complain that they are not treated equal in their
respective communties. They are quick to break klan protocols, throw klan members under the bus, therefore in my opinion
since they are not the loyal in-group they don't deserve the klan title and the protection it offers. MJ girls on the other hand
deserve their equal footing they have in their community because they follow protocols and actually contribute, they earned
their respect it wasn't given to them on a silver plate.

Kkkk It's the Northern spirit. We're not exactly complacent people, and we're blunt.

That said, I'm aware I'm not counted to begin with - the oh ye fellow men slant of this thread is rooted in that sort of thinking - and speaking for myself I don't really care, bc it doesn't hold any relevance at this stage. I support SL in the capacity that clan wars and mass graves aren't a continued reality. It doesn't even bother me that some ppl call it Isaqland bc you don't know how to coexist.

I and Somalia against the world.

I and my clan against Somalia.

I and my family against the clan.

I and my brother against the family.

I against my brother

Chaos. How can a stable, healthy state possibly exist in that mess?

Balkanize and attract immigrants so you don't become inbred