Children?

[Helios]

My strength is in nurturing and caring for others. So I would like to give back to society by raising upright individuals, who in turn will contribute to a better world.
I also won't mind adopting in addition to having my own children, inshAllah.

Sadly, I am scared of the whole pregnancy and birthing process I have to go through to bring a child to this world

What does qumayo mean?

 

[Furioso]

What does qumayo mean?

It either means witch or . I’m not too sure.

 

[Muji]

I only want daughters.

 

[World]

I want children inshallah when I am 40 years old. Not before.

 

[Helios]

I only want daughters.

How come? (knowingly waiting for the farax bash)

 

[Hodan from HR]

It either means witch or . I’m not too sure.

It means witch

I'm the halimo version of Hermione Granger @The Kaiser

 

[beenleey]

At least you're upfront about your fears of pregnancy.

Not like @beenleey and @Furioso hiding behind the virtue of adoptions

Re-read my comment on this thread. I said most kids via adoption. Meaning I’d be okay with pregnancy and Labour (I’m still scared of it like any woman would be tho)
I still want to adopt

 

[Helios]

It means witch

I'm the halimo version of Hermione Granger @The Kaiser

Was going to compliment u, but the green hag made me rethink

 

[Hodan from HR]

Was going to compliment u, but the green hag made me rethink

I am a self aware qumayo. Trust me, my evilness is under control :siilaanyolaugh:

 

[Helios]

I am a self aware qumayo. Trust me, my evilness is under control :siilaanyolaugh:

At least be a hot witch

 

[Muji]

How come? (knowingly waiting for the farax bash)

Lollll

Walal I’m sure you know why. Google Somali mugshots and count how many are women and then how many men. Now do this for al Shabbab members and every other problem in the Somali community.

I tend to raise my daughters as strong feminists who take no shit from any man including their own father.

 

[Hodan from HR]

At least be a hot witch

Thanks for the feedback

 

[Timo Jareer and proud]

This is too ironic for this thread lmao

 

[blade99]

I have never had any desire for children and can’t imagine a future where I have them. I feel like I would be really unhappy with my life. Please don’t give me the usual, Oh, you’re young. You will change your mind.” I have heard that line a million times. My age doesn’t make my opinion any less valid. Do you want children? If you do, can you tell me why? Have you always wanted to be a parent?

I want to live on even after I'm dead through my blood in my childrens veins want someone to pray for my soul as I lay in the grave waiting for the judgement of my Lord and only children will miss you after your gone especially if you showed a lot of love to them

 

[Helios]

Lollll

Walal I’m sure you know why. Google Somali mugshots and count how many are women and then how many men. Now do this for al Shabbab members and every other problem in the Somali community.

I tend to raise my daughters as strong feminists who take no shit from any man including their own father.

Im not disputing your point, I was just waiting for the inevitable roast. I am very well aware of the violent tendencies many Somali men fulfill.

 

[NINKII DHAKADA DHEERA]

A woman purpose is to reproduce when women say they don't wanna have children then I see them as those realist big booty sex dolls or a lesbo.

 

[Furioso]

No you are not my child or immediate family. But are you living double life for your family? Thats weak

There’s no point whatsoever to me telling my parents my religious beliefs. I know for a fact that they would disown me. I want to have a relationship with them when I get older. I want them to reach out to me in their times of need. I love my parents more than anything else and do not want to cause them heartache.

 

[Dhegey]

I'm the only son who can carry on my grandfather's name so I gotta at one point

 

[Ramen]

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[Halimo-2018]

I have never had any desire for children and can’t imagine a future where I have them. I feel like I would be really unhappy with my life. Please don’t give me the usual, Oh, you’re young. You will change your mind.” I have heard that line a million times. My age doesn’t make my opinion any less valid. Do you want children? If you do, can you tell me why? Have you always wanted to be a parent?

You're entitled to your feelings.kids are optional.
I like my kids i tolerate other peoples kids lol i want 3 maximum because i want to see the finished product. I would hate to have 10 of them and die ofd before seeing all of them grow up to adulthood.