Children?

[Furioso]

I have never had any desire for children and can’t imagine a future where I have them. I feel like I would be really unhappy with my life. Please don’t give me the usual, Oh, you’re young. You will change your mind.” I have heard that line a million times. My age doesn’t make my opinion any less valid. Do you want children? If you do, can you tell me why? Have you always wanted to be a parent?

 

[Invader]

If you don’t want financial support when you retire from work then that’s your fault.

 

[Macalin M]

I want children. The only reason I want them is so my name can live on. That’s all.

 

[Lostbox]

I have never had any desire for children and can’t imagine a future where I have them. I feel like I would be really unhappy with my life. Please don’t give me the usual, Oh, you’re young. You will change your mind.” I have heard that line a million times. My age doesn’t make my opinion any less valid. Do you want children? If you do, can you tell me why? Have you always wanted to be a parent?

I agree. I'm a free man right now and my responsibilities are minimum. I'll like to keep it this way

 

[Teflon]

I have never had any desire for children and can’t imagine a future where I have them. I feel like I would be really unhappy with my life. Please don’t give me the usual, Oh, you’re young. You will change your mind.” I have heard that line a million times. My age doesn’t make my opinion any less valid. Do you want children? If you do, can you tell me why? Have you always wanted to be a parent?

if you wanna stay lonely when your old then thats your fault

 

[Timo Jareer and proud]

I want kids so my genes live on kkkk I don't want to be forgotten I will spread T1a for as long as I can

 

[Kanini]

I'm planning to pop out boqol lol children are adorable. But don't let people pressure you into doing what you don't want to do. Starting a family isn't for everyone.

 

[Macalin M]

I'm planning to pop out boqol lol children are adorable. But don't let people pressure you into doing what you don't want. Starting a family isn't for everyone.

I can help you out with 1. Sorry I would do more but I don’t like waiting

 

[Jaydaan]

I have never had any desire for children and can’t imagine a future where I have them. I feel like I would be really unhappy with my life. Please don’t give me the usual, Oh, you’re young. You will change your mind.” I have heard that line a million times. My age doesn’t make my opinion any less valid. Do you want children? If you do, can you tell me why? Have you always wanted to be a parent?

How old are you? People change their mind either direction. I want to leave my legacy in this world and children is the best way

 

[Furioso]

If you don’t want financial support when you retire from work then that’s your fault.

I can save up for retirement myself. I don’t want to be a burden to anyone. I can take care of myself.

if you wanna stay lonely when your old then thats your fault

Have you never heard of friends or pets? A child could never provide me with the companionship I desire.

 

[Cici]

If you don’t want financial support when you retire from work then that’s your fault.

Your children are not your retirement plan. Get a 401k or save. Don’t burden your children.

 

[Kanini]

How old are you? People change their mind either direction. I want to leave my legacy in this world and children is the best way

That's not my idea of a legacy. Don't you want to do something great in your own name? God forbid but what if your children turn out to be gaals

Edit: No offense @Furioso

 

[Teflon]

That's not my idea of a legacy. Don't you want to do something great in your own name? God forbid but what if your children turn out to be gaals

what would you do if your children became gaals

 

[Kanini]

what would you do if your children became gaals

Well I would do my best to teach them Islam and guide them back. I wouldn't give up on them and they'd still be my babies till I die. If judgement day comes, Allah swt would know at the end of the day that I tried my best

 

[Cici]

I have never had any desire for children and can’t imagine a future where I have them. I feel like I would be really unhappy with my life. Please don’t give me the usual, Oh, you’re young. You will change your mind.” I have heard that line a million times. My age doesn’t make my opinion any less valid. Do you want children? If you do, can you tell me why? Have you always wanted to be a parent?

Your choices are valid. If you want, you can adopt a child temporarily to see if you like it. But if you’re sure you don’t want kids, don’t have them bcus nothing but resentment and misery will result. Also before you get serious with anyone romantically, inform them that you don’t want kids.
I want kids because I want a family. I want to be someone’s mother. I want my own little white fence perfect family. Plus I’d be bored without kids, what will I do with my 30s and 40s?

 

[Macalin M]

what would you do if your children became gaals

Feed them pork and ask them if it tastes nice kkkkkkkk

 

[Luciddreamer]

I want kids so i can chill with my grand kids, like rick and morty

 

[Furioso]

That's not my idea of a legacy. Don't you want to do something great in your own name? God forbid but what if your children turn out to be gaals

I agree. I want to be known as Furioso The Great and not Furioso2.0’s mother.

 

[Cici]

Well I would do my best to teach them Islam and guide them back. I wouldn't give up on them and they'd still be my babies till I die. If judgement day comes, Allah swt would know at the end of the day that I tried my best

We love healthy parenting. Let’s do better in the next generation. We don’t disown or physical abuse our kids for not being what we’d like then to be. Our children will be loved whether they’re gay or straight, Muslim or gaal, it’s between them and god. Your job is to raise them and love them. Once you’ve done that, leave the rest to god.

 

[Kanini]

We love healthy parenting. Let’s do better in the next generation. We don’t disown or physical abuse our kids for not being what we’d like then to be. Our children will be loved whether they’re gay or straight, Muslim or gaal, it’s between them and god. Your job is to raise them and love them. Once you’ve done that, leave the rest to god.

The prophet pbuh still loved his uncle and his uncle was his biggest supporter even when he didn't embrace Islam. We can all learn a thing or two from them.